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Why parents should never spank children
The Conversation ^ | Oct 29, 2017 | T.O. Afifi, E. Romano

Posted on 11/06/2017 2:15:54 AM PST by Arthur McGowan

The research clearly shows that spanking is related to an increased likelihood of many poor health, social and developmental outcomes. These poor outcomes include mental health problems, substance use, suicide attempts and physical health conditions along with developmental, behavioural, social and cognitive problems. Equally important, there are no research studies showing that spanking is beneficial for children.

Those who say spanking is safe for a child if done in a specific way are, it would seem, simply expressing opinions. And these opinions are not supported by scientific evidence.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous; Philosophy
KEYWORDS: antichristian; antitheism; crime; divorce; fatherlessness; feminism; iq; psychology; romanticism; spanking; violence
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To: Arthur McGowan

I’m against it too, but the article is written with weasel words. “is related to” is a weaselly way to make us think that there is a cause-effect relationship, when there is not. This is about correlation, not cause.


61 posted on 11/06/2017 5:26:19 AM PST by I want the USA back (ItÂ’s Ok To Be White. White Lives Matter. White Guilt is Socially Constructed)
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To: Arthur McGowan

I was never spanked. I was held accountable through more creative and long-term punishments.

I don’t believe in it. My parents never believed in it. I have the same philosophy that they did...it’s a lazy way to punish a child that essentially teaches them hitting and physical pain are the only ways to correct behavior.

We were brought up to be respectful of others, thoughtful of our actions and that owning up to our mistakes was the only path to forgiveness.


62 posted on 11/06/2017 5:30:17 AM PST by JenB987
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To: Arthur McGowan

I raised 3 boys basically by myself, I ruled them or they would rule me. Alpha, Leo, First Born, didn't take any crap from them, hand, belt were my tools. When they got past paddle stage, LONG house restrictions, with bed time after home work. Dish washing/drying for a month...they learned I ruled.

They are healthy, grounded, and work. Eldest has a 16 yr old, youngest a 2 month old.

63 posted on 11/06/2017 5:43:54 AM PST by GailA (Ret. SCPO wife: suck it up buttercups it's President Donald Trump!)
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To: MomwithHope

If Dad was unbuckling it...you had already done gone way too far. LOL. It wasn’t a threat, you had it coming.


64 posted on 11/06/2017 5:54:42 AM PST by EBH ( May God Save the Republic)
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To: Arthur McGowan

Ping for later.


65 posted on 11/06/2017 5:57:22 AM PST by super7man (Madam Defarge, knitting, knitting, always knitting)
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To: Arthur McGowan

“The research clearly shows that spanking is related to an increased likelihood of many poor health, social and developmental outcomes. “

Just the opposite. Liberals lie.


66 posted on 11/06/2017 5:59:29 AM PST by CodeToad (CWII is coming. Arm Up! They Are!)
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To: EBH

“Growing up we got the ‘belt.’ My father’s leather belt against our bottoms.”

Ditto here. Stung like hell and left welts but no chance of serious injury like using hands/fist could pose.Also, there was the ruler in teachers hands...also stung and welted!

My problem personally is I could never recall what specific “crimes” I committed to call for corporal punishment. Furthermore, I do remember being totally innocent and still getting thrashed. I remember a cousin getting whipped mercilessly for what seemed an eternity and he screamed like a banshee for the duration. Needless to say we had “old school” parents.

Given the state of modern day “millenial” types I would be all for mass extreme canings.


67 posted on 11/06/2017 5:59:39 AM PST by Bonemaker
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To: Arthur McGowan

You sure love to post anti-spanking threads. What’s with you? Did you get abused as a child?


68 posted on 11/06/2017 6:00:09 AM PST by CodeToad (CWII is coming. Arm Up! They Are!)
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To: yldstrk

“I do child abuse work and spanking is wrong. Period.”

Look at the crap they get away with on college campuses? Lot of good “time outs” have done, A “time out” when I was young meant a period of unconsciousness.


69 posted on 11/06/2017 6:11:22 AM PST by Bonemaker
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To: MayflowerMadam
Hubby’s favorite line when asked why..........because I pay all the bills. Lol Now I’ve heard daughter use it a few times. 😂
70 posted on 11/06/2017 6:20:17 AM PST by sheana
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To: mountn man

Yep - I don’t recall being spanked but my Mom said it happened when I was young enough that I couldn’t reason well about the dangers of certain activities - it taught me to pay attention and then talking would be effective - remember being 12 and doing something bad and when my Dad got done talking I was wishing for a spanking instead....tided me well and that’s how I did my kids and how they did their kids - have some beautiful and truly good children and grandkids...none of whom have ever been abused but have been disciplined.


71 posted on 11/06/2017 6:42:27 AM PST by trebb (Where in the the hell has my country gone?)
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To: Arthur McGowan

And the farmer hauled another load away.........


72 posted on 11/06/2017 6:44:08 AM PST by unread (Joe McCarthy was right.......)
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To: EBH

Actually it was more of a deterrent or threat. He did it at the first sign of acting up.


73 posted on 11/06/2017 7:50:04 AM PST by MomwithHope (Law and Order and that includes Natural.)
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To: Arthur McGowan

That’s why ‘researchers’ should never have children.


74 posted on 11/06/2017 7:50:51 AM PST by Toughluck_freeper
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To: Arthur McGowan

How did you discipline your children?

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75 posted on 11/06/2017 7:53:06 AM PST by Mears
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To: Arthur McGowan

HA! Everybody I know got spanked growing up. We all turned out fine. A bunch of us were joking about it at a deck party last weekend.

My mother kept a fly swatter hanging over the washing machine. Every now and then we got a swatting. I can say I deserved it every time. :-)


76 posted on 11/06/2017 8:13:57 AM PST by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: Arthur McGowan

This is obviously some sort of crusade for you, much like that Willie guy who used to spam us about the benefits of high-speed rail projects or the Libertarians constantly endorsing drug legalization. I doubt you’ll get as many converts as you will flak.


77 posted on 11/06/2017 8:16:20 AM PST by OrangeHoof (Let Trump Be Trump. Would you rather have Hillary?)
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To: yldstrk

Well,I’d say you don’t have all the knowledge you use to make that blanket statement & this is backed up by personal experience.


78 posted on 11/06/2017 10:57:39 AM PST by oldtech
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To: yldstrk

Well,I’d say a blanket statement like that is wrong & apparently you don’t have all the info you need to say something like that. This is based on personal experience.


79 posted on 11/06/2017 11:00:54 AM PST by oldtech
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To: yldstrk

Well,I’d say a blanket statement like that is wrong & apparently you don’t have all the info you need to say something like that. This is based on personal experience.


80 posted on 11/06/2017 11:04:45 AM PST by oldtech
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