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What to Do If You See a Female Coworker Being Harassed
Esquire ^ | October 13, 2017 | Kaitlin Menza

Posted on 10/26/2017 8:03:17 PM PDT by GuavaCheesePuff

The young woman was clearly in earshot when the boss said it to a group of male employees: “That is the kind of ass I would tear up when I was your age.” A male friend of mine quoted it back to me from a moment early in his career, while we were discussing the recent Harvey Weinstein allegations. He didn’t speak up then, and he still doesn’t speak up now when he witnesses sexual harassment in his office.

“I’ve never seen a person actually fired for it,” he says. “It sends a message to the observers, like, ‘All you’re going to do is hit a beehive. There will be no possible benefits for anyone involved.'” Why kick up the dust? Instead, he makes a habit of checking in with female colleagues afterwards to see how they’re doing. “They seem to brush it off. They have to go in knowing that it’s probably going to happen at some point.”


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: men; sexualharassment; women
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1 posted on 10/26/2017 8:03:17 PM PDT by GuavaCheesePuff
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

What should. you do if you see a MALE co-worker harassed? Laugh?


2 posted on 10/26/2017 8:07:17 PM PDT by Rembrandt
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

You should move this to Breaking News.


3 posted on 10/26/2017 8:08:20 PM PDT by ButThreeLeftsDo (MAGA!!!)
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To: Rembrandt
What should. you do if you see a MALE co-worker harassed?

By males, she-males, or real females?

These days you gotta ask.

4 posted on 10/26/2017 8:09:48 PM PDT by lightman (ANTIFA is full of Bolshevik.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Ever looked at a Cosmopolitan cover? Ever issue panders sex.


5 posted on 10/26/2017 8:09:49 PM PDT by Fungi (What the hell is a fungus?)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Well, how do you know is a female?

Maybe it’s actually Sisgender, inverteted, quasi, transectural.,

Why would you ever judge if someone is a female or a male? That is a prejudiced way of looking at people.

That very question is, ................ Racist.

/ s. Some Russian


6 posted on 10/26/2017 8:17:22 PM PDT by DanielRedfoot (Po Dunk)
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To: Fungi
To your point:

http://nypost.com/2015/08/04/hearst-heiress-calls-cosmo-porn/

Cosmo Editor-in-Chief Joanna Coles is now fighting back, calling the campaign against her magazine “sexist” and a “double standard” since men’s mags from GQ to Men’s Health routinely run stories on sex, with accompanying cover lines.

While Victoria would like to talk it over with Coles, the editrix says no.

“I have no time for a debate,” said Coles. “I am too busy putting out a magazine and encouraging American women to have more and better orgasms.”

7 posted on 10/26/2017 8:20:34 PM PDT by frogjerk (We are conservatives. Not libertarians, not "fiscal conservatives", not moderates)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

I see how some women dress at work. I won’t say they “deserve it”, but I’m not going to act surprised and outraged when they receive it.


8 posted on 10/26/2017 8:20:34 PM PDT by ClearCase_guy (Benedict McCain is the worst traitor ever to wear the uniform of the US military.)
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To: DanielRedfoot

LOL


9 posted on 10/26/2017 8:20:42 PM PDT by TheTimeOfMan (A time for peace and a time for war)
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Real harassment? I’d tell the punk to knock it off otherwise expect a meeting in the parking lot.

What is the point of living if you don’t do the right thing?


10 posted on 10/26/2017 8:23:37 PM PDT by TheTimeOfMan (A time for peace and a time for war)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff
Sexual harassment is bad. Everybody knows that. But the article refers to "a type of gaze" as sexual harassment to look out for! Last week a female coworker randomly gave me a "side-hug" after we finished a project. Slightly odd, but some people are more touch-oriented than others and it's not that big of a deal -- but even at the time it was in my mind that had the roles been reversed, it could easily be classed as sexual harassment.

In other news, I was walking the other day and a couple girls on a park bench cat-called me and it made my day. Obviously they were just goofing around and were probably doing the same thing to every guy walking by, but it still made my day. In real cases of sexual harassment, do something. The rest of the time, lighten up Francis. Sheesh.

11 posted on 10/26/2017 8:24:31 PM PDT by Wyrd bið ful aræd (Flag burners can go screw -- I'm mighty PROUD of that ragged old flag)
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To: TheTimeOfMan
Real harassment?
Define "real harassment".
12 posted on 10/26/2017 8:27:40 PM PDT by lewislynn ( Transgender: A person who thinks s/he's wrong side out.)
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To: ButThreeLeftsDo

You should move this to Breaking News.
............................................

Got that line working tonight, huh?
(I laughed both times I saw it!)


13 posted on 10/26/2017 8:29:42 PM PDT by bramps (It's the Islam, stupid!)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff
Hollywood is full of perverts but to deflect attention from that, ALL MEN ARE PREDATORS!

Women: Guess what? We all went through this in the early 1990s thanks to Anita Hill and the result was that men secretly wanted to avoid women at work because we're scared of you. You can ruin our lives for no good reason just be saying we looked at you funny. Now it's going to be worse than ever. Somehow making good men afraid is supposed to help women in the workforce.

14 posted on 10/26/2017 8:36:32 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

What happens is this: If the woman feels she is being sexually harassed and goes to HR they will tell her to document each incident - write down every detail of what was said and who was present. The harasser thinks she’s “OK with it” while she is building the case against him, and all the bystanders will be in for uncomfortable discussions.


15 posted on 10/26/2017 8:38:06 PM PDT by bigbob (People say believe half of what you see son and none of what you hear - M. Gaye)
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To: Wyrd bið ful aræd

Agree with your post Uhtred (I assume that’s the reference in your nickname).


16 posted on 10/26/2017 8:38:38 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Words are harmless. Actually, it’s a compliment to the woman. How many females stand around and ogle and chat about good looking men. Now, that can be rough!


17 posted on 10/26/2017 8:41:04 PM PDT by peggybac (Government is about force. It always has been about force.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

First you tell the guy who is harassing her to stop acting like a dick.

Then you tell the Woman that if she needs to talk you will be there for her.

Then you wait for her to hit on you. (just a Joke).


18 posted on 10/26/2017 8:44:48 PM PDT by Kickass Conservative ( Democracy, two Wolves and one Sheep deciding what's for Dinner.Does the Government)
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To: Wyrd bið ful aræd
Sexual Harassment and You...a GE Training film with Tom Brady
19 posted on 10/26/2017 8:52:02 PM PDT by rlmorel (Liberals: American Liberty is the egg that requires breaking to make their Utopian omelette.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Depends.

Does the victim identify as female? male? Other?

Can the person doing the harassment further your career at all?

Is the person doing it important in politics/media?

Is the person doing it black? Muslim? Hispanic? Lesbian?

If it’s a white, heterosexual male, there’s an easy answer. But for anything else, it can be a tough call.


20 posted on 10/26/2017 8:52:37 PM PDT by Tzimisce
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