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Fetal Frontier (suggestion that women show even token concern for aborted fetus outrages feminists)
Village Voice ^ | December 7th, 2004 10:45 AM | Sharon Lerner

Posted on 12/07/2004 1:04:39 PM PST by dead

Pro-choice advocates wrestle with the uncomfortable

For 35 years, Frances Kissling has been at the forefront of the pro-choice movement. She directed an abortion clinic, got arrested protesting at the Vatican's diplomatic mission in Washington, D.C., helped found the National Abortion Federation and the Global Fund for Women, and as president of Catholics for a Free Choice, has taken the pope to task and shouted down the likes of Jerry Falwell.

So the focus of her latest manifesto on the pro-choice cause may come as a surprise to people on both sides of the abortion debate: the value of the fetus.

Saying that she was merely making public what her pro-choice colleagues have been discussing in private for years, Kissling penned a provocative, more than 7,000-word opus in the current issue of Conscience, the journal of Catholics for a Free Choice, encouraging advocates to acknowledge the moral and emotional complexity of abortion.

That kind of discussion has been taboo in the movement until now. Faced with an unrelenting onslaught of anti-abortion efforts, few supporters of the right to choose have been comfortable acknowledging their own limits on that right or doubts about it, lest expressions of unease be used against them.

But as Kissling tells it, the knee-jerk mode in which pro-choicers slap down whatever the antis put forward is no longer serving the movement well. The strategy of relying only on legal arguments without showing emotion has faltered, she argues, especially as the political right has begun to focus on the very few abortions performed later in pregnancy. Rather than reflexively opposing activists on the other side, she urges, supporters of the right to abortion should consider their proposals seriously.

Among those is the Unborn Child Pain Awareness Act, which would require doctors to tell women considering abortion after the 20th week of pregnancy about the "pain experienced by their unborn child." Perhaps most challenging, Kissling wants pro-choice activists to grapple honestly with the moral significance of ending potential life.

"If we did that, people would be more trusting of all of us who are pro-choice," she says.

Kissling continues to share the goals of most of her colleagues. Though she sees abortion as a loss, she believes it can be justified by a woman's reasons for wanting to end the pregnancy. Yet the movement makeover she is proposing runs counter to many other activists' instincts.

"I don't buy it," says Ellie Smeal, president of the Feminist Majority Foundation. Smeal says that by talking about relatively late-term abortions when the vast majority of terminations—some 88 percent—take place in the first trimester, Kissling is letting opponents frame the debate. "While we're talking about all this, we could be putting the right wing on the defensive," says Smeal. "We have to put the dying and suffering of women who don't have access to safe abortion onto the table."

Rosalind Petchesky, a professor of political science at Hunter College and author of a seminal book on abortion rights, points out that many who get abortions after the first trimester are young teenagers who didn't act earlier because of the climate of fear, shame, and confusion created by anti-abortion extremists. Petchesky also insists that discussions of morality should include the violent, war-promoting, and uncaring policies supported by many who call themselves pro-life. She responded to Kissling's piece by sending her a three-page e-mail. "If and when those who dominate anti-abortion politics could for a minute take seriously the rights to a decent life and health of born children," she wrote, "maybe then we could start to talk about advancing respect for fetal life, early or late."

Others take issue with the idea that the pro-choice movement should "present abortion as a complex issue that involves loss—and to be saddened by that loss," as Kissling suggests in her piece. "I don't hear her saying that there's joy sometimes," says Smeal. "I think if an 11-year-old is pregnant, it's a great relief for her to have an abortion. I happen to think it's a moral good to allow people to decide when they give birth."

What's more, though their experiences aren't often picked up in the public discourse, most women already do experience their own abortions as very serious. "I have never seen a woman take the decision lightly," says Joan Malin, CEO of Planned Parenthood of New York City.

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The idea that women should have the right to choose not to continue an unwanted pregnancy is the very foundation of the pro-choice movement, of course. But as the political focus has shifted to the fetus, women's decisions have come under increased scrutiny from both sides. Consider the reaction to Amy Richards's story about her choice to "selectively reduce" two of her three triplets, which ran on July 18 in The New York Times Magazine. That article appears to have put off not just staunch abortion opponents, but also those more conflicted about the issue. Conscience ran five stories responding to the uproar over Richards's piece, one of them by Gloria Steinem.

The furor seems to have little to do with Richards's having opted for a selective reduction. That procedure—in which potassium chloride is injected into the hearts of early-term fetuses—has become fairly common as more couples seek fertility treatment, which carries an increased chance of ending in a multiple pregnancy. Trying to carry those triplets and quadruplets to term could threaten the health of both the mother and the fetuses themselves.

Rather, Richards's colleagues and letter writers to the Times Magazine seemed uncomfortable with the way that she, a pro-choice activist, talked about paring down her fetal load. Richards openly expressed her concerns that having three babies would send her into a spiral of downward mobility. And when she found out she was pregnant with three, she asked her doctor bluntly, "Is it possible to get rid of one of them? Or two of them?"

For her part, Richards says women shouldn't need to justify abortion with grief. "I regretted that I got pregnant with triplets, not that I made my decision,"she told the Voice. "We can't be in the business of determining what scenario is right, which women are entitled to have this procedure."

According to Kissling, the sense that women like Richards are callous about ending their pregnancies costs the movement supporters in these perilous political times. The right wing's focus on the fetus has caused some on the pro-choice side to qualify their support. "It made people on the fence go further into the other side," Kissling says of the piece. "They saw Amy's decision as selfish." Similarly, she and others on the pro-choice side have expressed discomfort with T-shirts distributed by some Planned Parenthood affiliates that read, "I had an abortion." Turning that personal decision into a wearable slogan, Kissling says, diminishes the seriousness of abortion.

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Whether or not a heartfelt acknowledgment of the value of fetal life—or a stifling of honest ease or happiness about having an abortion—might actually win over anyone in the ambivalent middle, most in the pro-choice world agree the debate over strategy is overdue. With an anti-abortion president, the likely departure of Supreme Court justices, and a decline in the number of pro-choice votes in Congress, the old approach appears ripe for an update.

"We desperately need a paradigm shift in the reproductive rights movement," says Lynn Paltrow, executive director of National Advocates for Pregnant Women, a New York–based organization devoted to protecting the rights of pregnant and parenting women. "We've done a terrible job of articulating our beliefs in terms of values." For Paltrow, those values include protecting women from the consequences of being forced to carry unwanted pregnancies as well as preserving the rights of women who do have children to make decisions about how they bear them.

Laws designed to protect the fetus are already being used to force women to have C-sections when they don't want them. And in Missouri, a woman was charged with with child endangerment for smoking pot while pregnant. Meanwhile, abortion opponents have portrayed pro-choice folks as the enemy of the fetus. President George Bush put this strategy to use during the campaign with an ad that painted John Kerry as "out of the mainstream" for voting against "Laci's Law," legislation named for a woman killed in the eighth month of her pregnancy. That bill made it a separate federal crime to harm a fetus during an assault on a pregnant woman.

It's on this legislative front that Kissling may find herself most out of step with other pro-choice leaders. While they saw Laci's Law as a backdoor way to erode a woman's right to abortion, Kissling says opposing it made advocates seem "heartless."

And though pro-choice lawyers won lawsuit after lawsuit over the Partial Birth Abortion Act, which banned some of the tiny percentage of abortions performed later in pregnancy, Kissling saw the tussle as a grave loss in the court of public opinion. The bans were repeatedly judged unconstitutional, in part because they didn't include exceptions for the life or health of a woman. But as long as the cases were in the courts and in the news, pro-choicers found themselves forced into public discussion of a procedure that their opponents described in terms of skull crushing, brain siphoning, and dismemberment.

While she says she supports a woman's right to have the procedure, Kissling says an honest emotional reaction to it would have helped the pro-choice effort. "It's gruesome," Kissling says of abortions performed late in pregnancy. "I think we serve ourselves well by saying that. We are so clinical and abstracted from these realities in our public presentations, it turns people off."

With the bill requiring doctors to warn about fetal pain and offer fetal anesthesia coming down the pike, Kissling sees another opportunity to show that people can support the right to abortion and care about the fetus at the same time. The standard approach for pro-choicers would be simply to shoot down the bill. But since there's the real possibility that fetuses feel pain (there's no scientific consensus on it yet), Kissling suggests instead trying to change the legislation to say that fetal anesthesia should be respectfully offered as an option.

It's a way, she says, of honoring both law and morality. "And whether I'm going to be considered less pro-choice by my colleagues because I said this, we'll see."

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Sharon Lerner is a senior fellow at the Center for New York City Affairs at Milano Graduate School, New School University.


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To: diane in IL

"She really strikes me as a kind, sensitive woman. How truly compassionate of her to support offering anaesthesia to the baby before they butcher it. This article and this woman makes me want to puke."

There is simply no way to square this circle, no matter how the abortionists twist and turn it. This article has nothing to do with "moral complexity" and everything to do with strategy. It's like the 'rat atheists trying to quote scripture, all of a sudden, to the Red Staters.


21 posted on 12/07/2004 1:38:47 PM PST by hinckley buzzard
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To: dead
It's amazing to me that it took the heartwrenching horror of late-term abortion to finally begin to awaken this woman's senses!
22 posted on 12/07/2004 1:40:58 PM PST by TChris (You keep using that word. I don't think it means what yHello, I'm a TAGLINE vir)
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To: dead
Kissling suggests instead trying to change the legislation to say that fetal anesthesia should be respectfully offered as an option.

Actually, it should be required by state law, for abortions at a stage where the fetus is capable of feeling pain. State laws do not allow inhumane methods of euthanizing unwanted or sick animals.

23 posted on 12/07/2004 1:42:47 PM PST by GovernmentShrinker
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To: massgopguy

I think it's safe to assume that PP buys low-end for all types of equipment. It is a non-profit which tries to keep the cost of all its services as low as possible. The high end ultrasound equipment is a big price hike from the basic stuff, which is quite sufficient from a medical standpoint.


24 posted on 12/07/2004 1:45:22 PM PST by GovernmentShrinker
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To: dead
"It's gruesome," Kissling says of abortions performed late in pregnancy.

That's because you are killing a person, Frances.

25 posted on 12/07/2004 2:14:27 PM PST by siunevada
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To: dead

Again, it boils down to them thinking "It's not what we say, it's how we say it. If we say it differently, we'll win more people over."


26 posted on 12/07/2004 2:46:57 PM PST by wizardoz
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To: TChris
If it's a "serious decision", then it probably isn't just a "mass of cells", is it?

Well said.

27 posted on 12/07/2004 2:47:39 PM PST by T. Buzzard Trueblood ("Hell, I don't want to meet them sons of bitches." Elvis Presley on the Beatles)
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To: dead
It's funny to see the pro-aborts eat one of their own alive with the smallest suggestion of even TALKING about reasonable restrictions on abortion.

Keep it up, pro-aborts, this is why we are winning! People don't like extremists!

tSG
28 posted on 12/07/2004 2:53:11 PM PST by alkaloid2 (Your favorite site is now www.theSuperGenius.com! You are commanded!)
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To: All
One has only to read the USSC's 1973 Roe v Wade decision to know that this kind of talk is nothing but agit-prop. FemiiNazi idealogy is famously written into the USSC decision.

Thanks to FemiNazis, the unborn child has literally no protection in the womb, and is considered fair game by any and all saline/suction-wielding abortionists.

The USSC decision specfically states that under the equal protection clause of 14th Amendment, the unborn child is not considered a "person" and therefore has no legal rights under US law (14th Excerpt: "All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof......").

Roe v Wade author Justice Harry Blackmun wrote that "the unborn have never been recognized in the law as persons in the whole sense" and are not entitled to constitutional protection until birth.

Here, Blackmun was aided by tenets of the Jewish faith, and possibly other faiths, who teach that life begins at birth, not in the womb.

However, the official right-to-life position is that life begins at conception. Pro aborts insist that laws built on those religious beliefs infringe on their constitutional right of freedom from religion, yet they rarely if ever mention that the concept of life beginning at birth is a religious belief.

FemiNazis made sure that Roe v Wade made the "Right to Choose" paramount. The mother's rights over the womb are absolute.....up to and including the ninth month of pregnancy. Most people believe that the court decision was based on the viability of unborn life, and that the court examined all of the existing information, then decided there was no viability. Nothing could be further from the truth.

I have had to force newspaper editors to retract editiorials on this aspect of the USSC decision.

The court based its decision on the fact that since religion and science could not decide (up to that time) when life begins, they didn't have to, either.

Blackmun wrote: "We need not resolve the difficult question of when life begins. When those trained in the respective disciplines of medicine, philosophy and theology are unable to arrive at any consensus, the judiciary, at this point in the development of man's knowledge, is not in a position to speculate as to the answer."

It appears the Roe Court (or some of them) actually believed that it wasn't possible to determine when the life of a human being begins. But, by not resolving this factual issue, the Court left unresolved the legal question regarding the rights of an unborn child. So, the need to provide an answer to that question is inescapable.

Cutting edge millenium technology offers proof positive that life begins at conception. The issue of when life begins is no longer a difficult question. Scientific and medical evidence proves, without doubt, that human life begins at the moment of conception and that the child is a complete, separate, unique and irreplaceable human being from the moment of conception throughout gestation.

Since 1973, advances in technology have allowed us to obtain new information about human life on a molecular level. This information resolves all doubts that abortion is the act of killing a human being and that this tiny human experiences pain even during early gestation.

At the time of the Roe v Wade decision, abortion was completely illegal in 33 states except when necessary to save the life of the mother. The remaining 17 states allowed abortion in various circumstances. The most permissive, New York, allowed abortion for any reason up to 24 weeks, though New York did not allow third trimester abortions for "emotional health" as required by the Supreme Court.

In recent years, the abortion right has been extended to partial-birth abortions (sometimes termed infanticide) so that a perfectly viable child in the birth canal, in the process of being born, can be aborted in a most gruesome way, if the mother so chooses.

29 posted on 12/07/2004 2:58:21 PM PST by Liz
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To: dead
Rosalind Petchesky, a professor of political science at Hunter College and author of a seminal book on abortion rights, points out that many who get abortions after the first trimester are young teenagers who didn't act earlier because of the climate of fear, shame, and confusion created by anti-abortion extremists.

Well, that or maybe there wasn't a clinic around the corner from their house, or maybe they had something else to do on Saturday afternoon. I mean, who are we to judge?

30 posted on 12/07/2004 3:22:15 PM PST by madprof98
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To: escapefromboston

Exactly. You have another choice, don't try to change the doctrine of an entire religion.


31 posted on 12/07/2004 3:24:05 PM PST by Hi Heels (Proud to be a Pajamarazzi.)
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To: dead
My Choice is lower taxes,ugly guns,& fewer Democrats in positions of power.

Some how,I don't think the "Pro-Choice" crowd would support my choices.

32 posted on 12/07/2004 3:32:36 PM PST by HP8753 (France Suxs big green ones)
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To: dead; 2nd amendment mama; A2J; Agitate; Alouette; Annie03; aposiopetic; attagirl; axel f; ...

ProLife Ping!

If anyone wants on or off my ProLife Ping List, please notify me here or by freepmail.

33 posted on 12/07/2004 4:48:54 PM PST by Mr. Silverback (A Freelance copywriter looking for business.)
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To: escapefromboston

When you really piss off a unitarian they burn a question mark on your front lawn.... ;-)


34 posted on 12/07/2004 4:52:53 PM PST by festus (The constitution may be flawed but its a whole lot better than what we have now !)
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To: diane in IL
This is such a good point. There is a Pro-life website that has a link to video footage of an ultrasound of a fetus as it is being aborted. I still lose sleep over that video. It absolutely turned me from someone who never really had an opinion on the issue either way to someone who is adamantly pro-life.

I have always maintained that if most women could be present to observe the proceedure first-hand, they would be sickened. A baby is not a diseased tonsil, no matter how much the pro-abortion folks want you to believe it is.

Some years ago I lurked on an abortion post here which turned into mostly all women making the comments, and had I known how to make & save a link back then, I'd show it to you-- but lacking that, here is what I learned:

1- the age of children asking the dreaded question, "Mommy, what's an abortion?" has dropped from the teenage years in my era to 8 or even 6 years of age. That's horrid.

2- all the children thus informed were universally repulsed. Typical was "How can a Mommy do that to her baby?"

3- but the tale that really drew me up short?
One of our female members asked her toddler ( about 2 years ) "what was it like when you were in Mommy's belly?"

My skin still crawls at his answer...

"Wet..."

35 posted on 12/07/2004 5:13:49 PM PST by backhoe (-30-)
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To: dead
We have to put the dying and suffering of women who don't have access to safe abortion onto the table.

I suspect the answer is "no," but does anyone know if there exist meaningful statistics on the REASON for abortions? Specifically, I'd LOVE to see a figure on just how many women are at risk of dying if they don't get an abortion, or at risk of significant suffering.

I doubt any such numbers exist; after all, stats like this would have to come from the abortionists themselves, and a monster capable of hacking up or de-braining an innocent baby most certainly wouldn't have any qualms about falsifying records.

MM

36 posted on 12/07/2004 5:18:59 PM PST by MississippiMan (Americans should not be sacrificed on the altar of political correctness.)
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To: escapefromboston
Catholics for a Free Choice is a dissenting organization made up of Catholics in Name Only.(CINOS)

From Our Lady's Warriors>Dissent>Dissenting Organizations

Catholics for a Free Choice (CFFC) Promotes artificial contraceptive "rights," including abortion. Their focus is the "intersection of Catholic teaching and public policy." Bishop Bruskewitz excommunicated those that belong to this group in his Diocese. Member of Catholic Organizations for Renewal. They have been condemned by the National Conference of Catholic Bishops (NCCB).

37 posted on 12/07/2004 5:24:00 PM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: MississippiMan

Most Important Reason Given for
Terminating an Unwanted Pregnancy

Inadequate finances 21%
Not ready for responsibility 21%
Woman’s life would be changed too much 16%
Problems with relationship; unmarried 12%
Too young; not mature enough 11%
Children are grown; woman has all she wants 8%
Fetus has possible health problem 3%
Woman has health problem 3%
Pregnancy caused by rape, incest 1%
Other 4%

Average number of reasons given 3.7


38 posted on 12/07/2004 5:26:11 PM PST by jwalsh07
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To: dead; cpforlife.org

Ping


39 posted on 12/07/2004 5:39:19 PM PST by TenthAmendmentChampion (Click on my name to see what readers have said about my Christian novels!)
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To: jwalsh07

Thanks, J. As I figured. All we hear from the pro-kill crowd is how it's about the safety of the mother. 3%. Sheesh.

MM


40 posted on 12/07/2004 5:39:32 PM PST by MississippiMan (Americans should not be sacrificed on the altar of political correctness.)
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