Posted on 08/04/2025 10:45:38 AM PDT by Red Badger
There is a growing trend of objectively beautiful women complaining about the lack of male attention while enjoying a night out with their friends.
Never in history have I heard of women complaining that men weren’t paying enough attention to them. However, after several decades of demonizing men for their advances, it seems men have finally taken the hint and backed off.
There’s a social media trend right now of women posting videos frustrated that men aren’t approaching them romantically. Instead of exploring the reasons behind this shift with curiosity and compassion, many of these posts have a blaming tone “What’s WRONG with men?”
Maybe…
— Lisa Britton (@LisaBritton) July 20, 2025
“It’s difficult being this hot,” a model from North Carolina told Jam Press, according to the New York Post. “Men think I’m too beautiful to date or worry that I’ll turn them down.” She claims men just don’t know how to approach beautiful women anymore.
While she is right about the feeling that men don’t know how to approach women like her anymore, her conclusion that it’s because they’ll face rejection is a crooked half-truth that doesn’t analyze the real fear men have when “hitting” on the opposite sex.
Rejection is likely the least of their fears. In fact, if you polled single men, they would probably take a polite rebuff over what’s actually at stake when they get the courage to talk to women.
Why are so few young men approaching girls now?
Massive shift underway where you have 8-9s yearning to be chatted up.
They get dressed up to go out, but all for nothing. pic.twitter.com/bThydjh0rF
— TastefulLindy (@LindyTasteful) July 18, 2025
When men notice a pretty woman across the room, the old calculation was: Am I in her league? Can I come up with a creative enough opening line to get her attention? But now they have to worry about whether or not they’ll be labeled as creepy for even approaching, or worse, get labeled as a sex predator and be added to the #MeToo list for simply paying her a compliment.
Men are in a lose-lose situation. Our society demonizes their inherent masculinity as toxic the moment they enter this world. Their gaze is looked at as menacing. What used to be considered a sign of the relationship between men and women is now looked at as dangerous.
Our culture needs an overhaul that allows men the freedom to confidently approach a beautiful woman in the wild (not through their phone’s dating app). But maybe now that hot women are complaining about the lack of male attention, there will be a change.
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Thanks, you are a woman,thank god, you certainly sound like one. The fact you think I post anything “proudly” here, thats you with your woman filter. If you think I am happy at the current state of affairs of men and women, you’re very incorrect.
Look up “Nora Vincent” sometime.
Then why can’t you keep quiet about your misery, and stop accusing happier people of having drunk the Kool Aid?
I see that photo and think, thank God I’m on drugs and can’t operate heavy equipment
I discuss current problems in society. I don’t care that you don’t like what I am saying. Maybe don’t respond to me, I sure wouldn’t mind you keeping to yourself. I’m not here to make you happy, I am here for other people who haven’t figured some things out yet. I know you have a different view because you don’t like that, and I simply do not care. I don’t simp for you or anyone else.
They need retirement pland
Are many people interested in a viewpoint that exclusively sees and dwells upon the negative?
I think your ‘mission’ has more to do with your desire to vent than it does with your interest in ‘enlightening’ your benighted brethren.
But I will leave you alone. At least it will cut down on your paltry feedback.
You are such a woman. I have no “mission”. I comment on all kinds of story topics posted here. Lol “mission”
You only say the stuff you say because I say things on this one topic you don’t like. You don’t seem to comment on anything else of mine. :)
And I seriously doubt you will be able to leave me alone. You haven’t been able to so far, and since you take my posts like I am attacking you personally, and I’m not (didnt even know you were a woman even though you sure talked like one), from past experience I doubt you will leave me alone.
My Old Spice is a part of me now
I haven’t taken any of your posts as a personal attack - except when it obviously is one, like accusing me of ‘drinking the Kool Aid’.
When your posts attack principles and ideals that many of us hold, people WILL respond. That’s no different from politics.
You seem to have a think skin.
Ah yes, the scent of the hunter
I dont care if you respond or not. It just seems you cant help yourself, and you said you’d stop, but you keep responding even after that. So you don’t keep your word. Not surprising.
And to be clear, the drank the kool aid comment was when I thought you were a guy. If I knew you were a woman I wouldnt have said that because it wouldn’t apply.
can’t operate heavy equipment
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👆
You two are the new Freeper Bickersons😉
Yeah, she says she’ll stop replying but doesnt.
I’m gonna stop though, as she isn’t my wife and I don’t need the drama or need to keep satisfying her need for attention.
Sampson is watching his hair this time. ⚖️
That’s what’s happening. ✖️
Is she as good looking as Sonia Sotomayor?
Because of this Age there is the Wealth Factor. So men have to be extremely wary of golddiggers. 🕸️
“It’s more than that. They complain because the “Right” guys aren’t paying them attention. If he ain’t 6’0”+. Trim, and rich, they don’t even see them.’
There it is. Most guys are just invisible to them.
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