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I'm a successful Black woman. So why aren't men into me?
Yahoo ^ | July 1, 2025 | Amy Robach and T.J. Holmes

Posted on 08/01/2025 2:57:53 AM PDT by C19fan

I’m a 42-year-old Black female, 195 pounds, 5’11”. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I have natural hair and a natural body type. I’m educated and have a good career. I own my home and car and play tennis, swim and do yoga. I travel and volunteer in my community.

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To: C19fan

“I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I have natural hair and a natural body type.“

I think I cracked the mystery.


41 posted on 08/01/2025 4:21:40 AM PDT by MrRelevant
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To: ansel12

No it isn’t blacks have much heavier bones and this woman is built like Michelle Obama. Obama is a big woman... but she is not fat despite the drama hate about her weight here.

In my area women built like this were called RUGGED. White big farm women who tipped the scales at 200. They have broad shoulders muscled arms, big breasts, long legs, with large muscled thighs, and wide hips and rumps. They have a proportional waist that they lose after childbearing. Amazons are a real thing.

Big is not necessarily fat. I say this as a small woman who was considered large in a family at 5’2” size 7 shoes.

It takes a bit to understand big from fat. As every well muscled weight lifter like my son has to contend with. He is all muscle at 6 ft and 215.


42 posted on 08/01/2025 4:34:22 AM PDT by Chickensoup
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To: C19fan

I’m a 75 year old White male 5’ 4” tall and weigh 275 lbs., without most of my teeth, I stutter and fart a lot, drink a couple 6 packs a day with cheap whiskey, smoke a couple doobies, and stare and drool at hot babes in the grocery store. Why can’t I get a date with a hot young babe?


43 posted on 08/01/2025 4:35:05 AM PDT by Omnivore-Dan (have to )
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To: ansel12

And. I forgot to post my weight. It was 110. Big in a world of 90 pounders.


44 posted on 08/01/2025 4:36:20 AM PDT by Chickensoup
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To: All

She sounds sad. I hope she finds someone that makes her happy.


45 posted on 08/01/2025 4:41:44 AM PDT by mmichaels1970 ( )
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To: lurk
Why she bring up that she black? Why not just call herself a woman?

I mean if I were going on a blind date, I wouldn't mind knowing in advance. Perhaps that makes me racist. I don't know.
46 posted on 08/01/2025 4:43:16 AM PDT by mmichaels1970 ( )
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To: Chickensoup

Even a male has to be very fit to not be fat at 5’11” and 195 pounds.

You don’t think a 5’11” woman wouldn’t look better at around 150 pounds, especially a woman who is complaining that men are ignoring her?


47 posted on 08/01/2025 4:47:16 AM PDT by ansel12 ((NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.))
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To: Bonemaker

“....195 pounds, 5’11”. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke...”


Subtle innuendos follow. There must be something inside.....


48 posted on 08/01/2025 4:50:18 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: dfwgator
Subtle innuendos follow. There must be something inside.....

What DOES she do?
49 posted on 08/01/2025 4:52:39 AM PDT by mmichaels1970 ( )
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To: C19fan

195 pounds.

I don’t like being crushed.


50 posted on 08/01/2025 4:58:05 AM PDT by Uncle Miltie (Angelino97’s 100% anti-Semitic lie: “Settlers tend to be ultra-Orthodox Jews, armed with Uzis.”)
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To: C19fan

Yup, unless you are John Kerry men don’t really care about their career, us male sexist pigs desire a trophy wife, which I don’t recall seeing any 195lb Trophy wives.

So beta males seem to be in her possible target area, alpha males very unlikely.


51 posted on 08/01/2025 5:12:30 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage? (Drain the Swamp. Build the Wall)
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To: C19fan

The first thing I caught was being overweight.

Then that educated part is questionable. Is she educated in terms of having gained usable knowledge for a career or educated in terms of being a nasty leftist?

Since she’s going public whining men want nothing to do with her, I’d say she’s an attention whore no one wants to be with, which makes her a leftist.

Personally, I’d avoid an over weight leftist attention whore like the plague.


52 posted on 08/01/2025 5:14:53 AM PDT by redfreedom (Happiness is shopping at Walmart and not hearing Spanish once!)
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To: ansel12

Better 150 on a 6 foot woman is pretty close to model thin


53 posted on 08/01/2025 5:16:33 AM PDT by Chickensoup
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To: C19fan

“ 195 pounds, 5’11”

Well, she’s fat to start with. Or built like a linebacker.


54 posted on 08/01/2025 5:20:18 AM PDT by TheThirdRuffian (Orange is the new brown)
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To: Big Giant Head

It can happen, but is unlikely for a woman.

I’m about 300lbs. You can see my abs clearly. No love handles.

But I am either 6’11 or 7’ tall (depending on the day, for reasons unknown) and a powerlifter.


55 posted on 08/01/2025 5:24:49 AM PDT by TheThirdRuffian (Orange is the new brown)
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To: Chickensoup

She is 5’11” and 195 is huge for her, she needs to drop a lot of weight.

In the low income areas her size may not be unusual, but in the higher incomes it sure is, there are plenty of 5’11” women who do not look like pro football players.


56 posted on 08/01/2025 5:26:40 AM PDT by ansel12 ((NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.))
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To: mewzilla
Counted seven "I"s in three short sentences.

Mentioned community and career, but no friends? This hopefully to attract a mate. Good luck with that as it projects superiority.

She has a good job, a house, so she's not looking for just a baby daddy. She's looking for a Barak Obama type with the $$$.

I tried the Dating Service thing as a man. The biggest turn off was all these ladies was there saying what they had "horses, cars, houses, careers"; an endless list trying to project how good they were. Expecting me to reply that I had all they had and more to impress them.

I worked for a very well known computer company. Had a company car and did lots of interesting travels around the world. If I mentioned that to them, they showed only disgust. I soon learned that impressing them was impossible. A false barrier, only to be overcome by a man she would fall in love with immediately upon sight (infatuation). It finally dawned on me that these were the ball busters who couldn't spell relationship if they tried. The same I found at the bar scenes; married women looking to jump ship with tons off baggage and problems. T-rubble for sure.

She needs to do the opposite. To not talk about any of these "things". She needs to be a mystery with a smile and to turn those eyelights on when she is interested and keep the guy(s) talking while remaining a mystery.

No guy can resist this.

She needs a female friend to sus out the low lifes and protect her from the stalkers. She needs her family, if they are rational, to help her sus out those who aren't really good for her. This she should tackle this first.

57 posted on 08/01/2025 5:30:27 AM PDT by CptnObvious
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To: Chickensoup

Congratulations on raising a happy family that’s raising yet another happy generation of your grandchildren. Holidays must be fun with so many!


58 posted on 08/01/2025 5:38:38 AM PDT by mairdie
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To: Lazamataz

Ahem...


59 posted on 08/01/2025 5:38:57 AM PDT by RandallFlagg (Democrats should have been barred from elections since The Battle Of Athens.)
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To: C19fan

She’s big boned.


60 posted on 08/01/2025 5:43:55 AM PDT by Ge0ffrey
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