YouTube is filled with videos/podcasts about toxic young women (with these women on the shows). They all believe they’re “a 10” yet believe the average guy is “a 3”, and 90% of them go after the top 2% of men.
When I say “top 2%” I mean:
- $200k/year or more
- 6’1”+ tall
- Very handsome
- Makes you laugh
- Spoils you
- Treats you like “a queen” always
- Is sensitive
- Honest
- Loyal
- Etc.
When you ask the same women “what do YOU bring to the table?”, all you get is “me! I’m THE prize”. They’re all “me me me!”. Can’t cook, cleaning is beneath them, etc..
This all means that the average (”a 5”) guy gets *very* little attention and they’re giving up. Even if you could attract one of them, why would you want to commit to that?
Now, I have a daughter in-law, that has notified my son that she wants to separate. They both make good money (not the problem), have two great girls (5 and 7), get along, no infidelity, no abuse, etc. - she even tells him “you’re still my best friend”, acknowledges he’s the best dad ever, and is great to her. She’s 36...and seems to think that she will be able to go back onto the market, divorced, with 2 kids, and yet, somehow, get something better. She’s going to destroy 4 lives (incl. her own), the kids don’t even see it coming.
There’s something VERY WRONG with the current culture, especially for how we’re raising young women, all while going on and on to men about “toxic masculinity”. SMDH.
Great post—young men need to be very careful these days, including worrying about sexual harassment claims in the workplace.
That may look “anti-social” to outsiders.
When a woman suddenly wants to separate, for no known reason, it’s usually because she is being unfaithful and thinks she has found a better option.
90% of the time, her new relationship will fail and she will be begging to be able to return to her now ex-husband.
Odds that is what is going on with your daughter-in-law. However she found her new guy, she thinks she has tried him on enough to want to make the relationship permanent.
It’s the “Lots of Fish in the Sea” syndrome, people think if they just keep trying, eventually they’ll find somebody who ticks off all the boxes.
Like Bud Lite marketing geniuses?
I didn’t get any attention either, so I went to the Philippines, where white men are prized. 👍
“Now, I have a daughter in-law, that has notified my son that she wants to separate. They both make good money (not the problem), have two great girls (5 and 7), get along, no infidelity, no abuse, etc. - she even tells him “you’re still my best friend”, acknowledges he’s the best dad ever, and is great to her. She’s 36...and seems to think that she will be able to go back onto the market, divorced, with 2 kids, and yet, somehow, get something better. She’s going to destroy 4 lives (incl. her own), the kids don’t even see it coming.”
Some social scientists noticed a trend a few years ago when studying divorce. They would ask the women why they wanted the divorce and the women could not provide any concrete reasons - even often acknowledging that their husbands were good men and very good fathers. The women said they simply were not happy. The researchers were baffled. Now it’s very common.
You might add the introduction of no-fault divorce in the states to the pile of causes. These women don’t think very well, they ‘feelz’. Makes them very susceptible to the emotional propaganda spewed into this culture 24/7. And when they feelz that they are thinking, well, there you are.
Same approach as closing the mental hospitals and leaving the mentally ill to shift for themselves, and be taken advantage of, on the streets.
I happened across a video of the “reporter” asking the women what the man would have to earn in a year for the woman to date them (USA, looked like 20-something women).
Salaries they mentioned ranged from $120k to $500k.
“500 thousand dollars a year? Okay - did you know that the average salary of a 30 year old in the USA is about $50,000 a year?”
“Oh - it’s that low? Gosh, I didn’t know that. Okay, make it $300,000 for me to date a guy.”