It’s the “Lots of Fish in the Sea” syndrome, people think if they just keep trying, eventually they’ll find somebody who ticks off all the boxes.
I’m quite angry tbh. Of course I’ve bias, but my son, a former Marine, is tough, loyal, a great protector, is very active with the girls’ activities, does his share of chores, brings home a salary, no substance abuse, etc.. We’ve all had a good relationship, and we babysit all the time.
Poof! Great to gone, on a whim.