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Why Everyone Is Having Bad Sex (Especially Young People)
https://time.com ^ | MAY 31, 2023 | MARIA YAGODA

Posted on 05/31/2023 5:12:52 PM PDT by Beowulf9

Despite all the social developments that have made sex easier (the sexual revolution, dating apps, yassified contraceptives), we still haven’t moved the dial on better. Bad sex has endured. And when I say “bad sex,” I am referring to sex that is quite simply unpleasurable, unsatisfying, or even demoralizing. While older generations are up against many of the same barriers to sexual wellbeing (like purity culture and the enduring impact of inadequate sex education), young people have been uniquely inundated with toxic messaging surrounding sex that has actually disrupted our abilities to feel pleasure. Resource-sharing on platforms like TikTok and Instagram may have positioned young people to better parse their sexualities, but not necessarily closer to building affirming and pleasurable sex lives.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Health/Medicine; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: badsex; badsexreally; communism; dating; failedpolicies; freelove; homosexualagenda; liberals; manosphere; mariayagoda; mgtow; promiscuity; pua; redpill; sex; sexcrime; sexualrevolution; sloots; slutwalk; women
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To: rbg81

Having to ask for consent every step of the way wouldn’t do much for the vibe either.


41 posted on 05/31/2023 6:31:43 PM PDT by bigdaddy45
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To: Beowulf9; Lazamataz

Real simple: they didn’t invite Laz over to teach them how to do it right.


42 posted on 05/31/2023 6:34:57 PM PDT by PapaBear3625 (We live in a time where intelligent people are being silenced so stupid people won’t be offended)
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To: Beowulf9

Sturgeon’s Law: 90% percent of everything is crap. A woman along for the ride will narrate.


43 posted on 05/31/2023 6:35:47 PM PDT by Reeses
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To: Beowulf9

Any sex that will send you to Hell as part of being an impenitent rejector of the Lord Jesus is bad sex. The sexual revolution has been extremely costly to the nation in lives, souls and money.


44 posted on 05/31/2023 6:36:00 PM PDT by daniel1212 (As a damned+destitute sinner turn 2 the Lord Jesus who saves souls on His acct + b baptized 2 obey)
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To: Beowulf9
A 31-year-old cis gay man told me something similar

I am gonna have to delve further into this article, but with idiotic, buffoonish writer like this one, its gonna be hard.

45 posted on 05/31/2023 6:38:41 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: Beowulf9

I didn’t read the article, but I am guessing it is the Covid vaccine.


46 posted on 05/31/2023 6:42:39 PM PDT by moviefan8 (Cowboying is an art without an audience.)
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To: dfwgator

“He told me he had a 9-iron. He lied.”


47 posted on 05/31/2023 6:46:44 PM PDT by grey_whiskers ( The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: Beowulf9

No mystery and unrealistic expectations. Plus easy access.


48 posted on 05/31/2023 6:51:23 PM PDT by Tijeras_Slim
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To: Leaning Right

Did you include drawings? That is a personal touch that few objects of affection can resist.


49 posted on 05/31/2023 6:57:12 PM PDT by lastchance (Cognovit Dominus qui sunt eius.)
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To: Olog-hai

Nice work if you can get it.


50 posted on 05/31/2023 6:58:49 PM PDT by lastchance (Cognovit Dominus qui sunt eius.)
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To: Olog-hai
Obviously her organasms are becoming more and more illusive.

she needs Spike !


51 posted on 05/31/2023 6:59:23 PM PDT by Candor7 ( ( Ask not for whom THE Trump trolls...He trolls for thee!)<img src=""width=500></img>)
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To: Beowulf9

I am of the opinion that porn culture is very much at fault. Sex without love and commitment is not meant to be about caring for the other person’s pleasure. At some point the realization that you could be switched out for someone with the same skill set must lead to a sort of frenzied pursuit of never having an off night of sex.


52 posted on 05/31/2023 7:03:56 PM PDT by lastchance (Cognovit Dominus qui sunt eius.)
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>> Despite all the social developments that have made sex easier

that and BJ Bill Clinton


53 posted on 05/31/2023 7:05:28 PM PDT by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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To: Bonemaker

How close is Intercourse to Blue Ball? (Pennsylvania)


54 posted on 05/31/2023 7:06:23 PM PDT by kaktuskid
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To: Beowulf9

It’s because they’ve cheapened to the level of junk food. Too easy to get, no commitment and you have to worry about getting accused of date rape.


55 posted on 05/31/2023 7:27:12 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: Beowulf9

Bad sex. Is that alone or with someone else?


56 posted on 05/31/2023 7:30:51 PM PDT by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn...)
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To: Persevero

Yep!


57 posted on 05/31/2023 7:46:53 PM PDT by drwoof
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To: Beowulf9

Go figure that selfish self centered adults that can’t balance their own checkbook are crappy lovers. I am so amazed that this is occurring. I would have thought narcissistic immature self worshiping types would be focused on mutual pleasure. I guess I need to rethink my opinions of people who live on their phones watching other people live lives that are artificially created for entertainment of idiots.


58 posted on 05/31/2023 7:47:39 PM PDT by wgmalabama (Censored !)
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To: Beowulf9

Must be that all of that having to ask permission, get an unambiguously Affirmative response, and then progress to each specific act along the way. All while remembering to inquire about and use the proper pronouns du jour. It’s exhausting, I imagine.

Couldn’t happen to a nicer bunch of progressive voting, porn addicted, self absorbed basement dwellers with massive student loans and useless degrees.


59 posted on 05/31/2023 8:25:42 PM PDT by SharpenedEdge (Stockpile. Prepare. Arm. Train. A Storm is coming.)
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To: Beowulf9

No mention of millennials and their ubiquitous STDs?

Recall seeing some startling statistics on how many of them carry one or more types of STD.


60 posted on 05/31/2023 8:44:23 PM PDT by doorgunner69 (Let's go Brandon)
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