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Hugs Are Coming Back. Not Everyone Is Thrilled.
National Post ^ | May 15, 2021 | Ashley Fetters

Posted on 05/16/2021 3:56:38 PM PDT by nickcarraway

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There are reasons so many humans feel comforted by hugging. Like a massage, it “involves stimulation and pressure receptors, and when that happens, the whole nervous system slows down and stress hormone is reduced,” says Tiffany Field, director of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami School of Medicine.

Still, for some, hugs induce stress more than they relieve it. When Sam Zelinka, a federal-government research scientist based in Madison, Wis., gets a hug from anyone other than his wife or kids, he gets the same feeling as when a stranger stands too close to him. And while Zelinka, 38, isn’t about to “spray paint a T-shirt and march in the streets yelling about no hugs,” he’s not exactly looking forward to one from anyone but his parents.

“The people that hug me, I’m like, faced into their chest,” says Shantal Martin, a 27-year-old opera singer and influencer, who’s about 5-foot-2. When she left New York City in August to visit her family in Barbados, she found herself relieved at her relatives’ cautious distance in greeting her. “I was like, ‘This is great. I’m not being smothered by any of my aunts’ perfumes? Perfect.'”

Brooke Todd, a 24-year-old social worker in Stroudsburg, Pa., tends to tense up when someone moves to hug her, and she didn’t totally make sense of how much calmer her social life had become during the pandemic until last summer. “It took a few months, but suddenly I was like, ‘Oh, this is nice. I don’t look like a jerk all the time for not wanting to hug someone.'”

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TOPICS: Health/Medicine; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: coid19; hugs
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1 posted on 05/16/2021 3:56:38 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

based in Madison, Wis.

I think I see the issue.


2 posted on 05/16/2021 4:03:14 PM PDT by Jolla
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To: nickcarraway

There were plenty of handshakes and hugs in church this morning. Roped-off pews were gone, so all pews were open. Only two masks were worn by a not-healthy elderly couple who wear masks anyhow.


3 posted on 05/16/2021 4:03:41 PM PDT by MayflowerMadam (I prefer the challenges of life to the guaranteed existence - Prof. Dean Alfange)
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To: nickcarraway

I love hugs. When I get drunk, I’m a hugger.


4 posted on 05/16/2021 4:04:34 PM PDT by Veggie Todd (Religion. It's like a History class. Without the facts. )
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To: nickcarraway

We just had a friend pass through town and stay with us for a night. The three of us are all over 65. We haven’t been vaxxed and the friend didn’t mention it and we didn’t ask. We did all hug though. She was headed to see other friends when she left us.


5 posted on 05/16/2021 4:05:36 PM PDT by SaxxonWoods (Any comment might be sarcasm, or not. It depends. Often I'm not sure either.)
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To: nickcarraway

‘This is great. I’m not being smothered by any of my aunts’ perfumes?

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Probably smelled like fish.


6 posted on 05/16/2021 4:05:52 PM PDT by dragnet2 (Diversion and evasion are tools of deceit)
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To: nickcarraway

“opera singer and influencer”

Sorry but what the heck is an influencer?

Sounds like a worthless job Barack Obama had before he was rigged into politics by unknown devious sources.


7 posted on 05/16/2021 4:06:23 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal (Jesus + Something = Nothing ; Jesus + Nothing = Everything )
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To: MayflowerMadam

Glad to hear this news.


8 posted on 05/16/2021 4:06:48 PM PDT by xp38
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To: nickcarraway

Karen is going to hate it.


9 posted on 05/16/2021 4:08:40 PM PDT by Old Yeller (Whatever doesn’t kill you will make you stronger. Except bears. Bears will definitely kill you.)
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To: nickcarraway; All

My family members & friends always hug coming and going. We hugged all through this past year. I will always hug my Mom, no matter what.

I’m not big on hugging strangers though, and it had nothing to do with CovidBS-19.


10 posted on 05/16/2021 4:12:41 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust post-Apocalyptic skill set. )
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Hug? I don’t even like to shake hands.

When I moved to Japan, I thought, “This is perfect. They don’t shake hands here.”

Then I found out that they had all been taught always to shake hands with a foreigner.

At least they don’t hug.


11 posted on 05/16/2021 4:14:10 PM PDT by dsc (Tu ne cede malis, sed contra audentior ito.)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

Sorry but what the heck is an influencer?


YouTube pitchman - many make a lot of money pitching crap to other youngsters


12 posted on 05/16/2021 4:16:03 PM PDT by PIF (They came for me and mine ... now its your turn)
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To: nickcarraway

I saw this little piece of video on a Mark Dice or Salty Cracker video where two SJWs were demonstrating techniques to avoid making human contact. Truly cringeworthy!

The left has succeeded in creating a nation of germophobes!


13 posted on 05/16/2021 4:16:49 PM PDT by rockrr ( Everything is different now...)
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To: nickcarraway

This whole article is so much bs I needed hip-waiters to read it all


14 posted on 05/16/2021 4:17:52 PM PDT by markman46 (engage brain before using keyboard!!!)
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To: PIF

Ah, one of those..

LOL - thanks!


15 posted on 05/16/2021 4:18:30 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal (Jesus + Something = Nothing ; Jesus + Nothing = Everything )
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To: Jolla
A “federal-government research scientist,” an “opera signer and influencer,” and a “social worker.” There’s your other issue.

When I am Emperor, holding oneself out as a “social worker” or “influencer” will be punishable by ten lashes and a day in the stocks, because it displeases me.

16 posted on 05/16/2021 4:22:16 PM PDT by The Pack Knight
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To: dsc

i dont hug either unless it’s a family member. It feels faggy to me..

But if a Playboy Playmate 2019-2021 of the Month wants to hug me, I’m good with it.


17 posted on 05/16/2021 4:23:45 PM PDT by max americana (FIRED LEFTARD employees at our office every election since 2008 and enjoyed seeing them cry.)
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To: nickcarraway

Hugs are fine especially when they coming from fine women. Unfortunately, I am usually hugged by the other end of that particular spectrum. lol


18 posted on 05/16/2021 4:30:05 PM PDT by chuckee
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To: nickcarraway

Hugs are fine especially when they coming from fine women. Unfortunately, I am usually hugged by the other end of that particular spectrum. lol


19 posted on 05/16/2021 4:30:05 PM PDT by chuckee
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To: Veggie Todd
When I get drunk, I’m a hugger.

That's two of us! I love you man!

20 posted on 05/16/2021 4:31:14 PM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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