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A mistress is now a friend if you use the AP stylebook
The Berkeley Independent ^ | May 5, 2021 | Julie Smith

Posted on 05/06/2021 5:50:17 PM PDT by nickcarraway

Dear Reader:

The Associated Press Stylebook, aka the Bible of journalism, has decreed that the word “mistress” shall no longer be used by journalists because “it implies the woman is solely responsible for the affair.”

Instead — and much to the relief of unfaithful men everywhere — we are to use “friend,” “companion,” or — if we dare — “lover.”

How many divorce actions, filed for the cause of adultery, will use those terms? “Mrs. Jones found out Mr. Jones was keeping Stankyho, a long-term friend, in a New York apartment for 10 years.” Nope, the legalese will say “long-term mistress” because that’s what Stankyho is.

A mistress is, by definition, sexually involved with a married man, and is almost always compensated in some form, whether with money, jewelry or new tires. The relationship has a transactional quality that friends, companions, even lovers, do not share.

For example, I love my friend Carrie, but I don’t pay her rent. A widower and widow may be longtime companions, but nobody’s committing adultery so therefore, the woman is not a mistress.

Twitter users had fun with it: “He left his wife for his friend, because she was much friendlier.”

“The synonym for mistress is ‘homewrecker’.” “The preferred phrase is ‘Sugar Baby.’”

Back in the day, you weren’t a newspaper reporter if you didn’t memorize E.B. White and William Strunk’s “Elements of Style.” (Yes, the same E.B. White who wrote “Charlotte’s Web” and “Stuart Little.”)

Now most news outlets use AP style, which has plenty of quirks. And by quirks, I mean “huh?”

• Put movie and book titles in quotes. Also songs, TV shows, computer games, poems, speeches and works of art. Do not, however, use quotes for the names of magazines, newspapers or the Bible. This rule, I am certain, led to my first ulcer in 1986.

• What time is it? Always use numerical figures except for noon/midnight. “The sky fell at two o’clock” has a certain ring to it, but alas, is incorrect.

• For numbers less than ten, spell it out. Anything above, use numerals. Thus, you are seven years old on Jan. 15, 2022.

• Capitalize president only as a formal title before one or more names, i.e., President Barack Obama. In other usage, it’s always lowercase. “The president will make an announcement tomorrow, after eating his Wheaties.”

• For numbered addresses, always use figures. Abbreviate Ave., Blvd., and St. and directional cues when used with a numbered address. (Jackie Onassis lived at 1040 Fifth Ave.) Never abbreviate alley, drive and road. If a street name is a number, spell out First through Ninth and use figures for 10th and higher. (My brother lives at 203 South Third St., NW.) Does your head hurt yet?

• For ages, use numerals. If the age is used as an adjective or as a substitute for a noun, then it should be hyphenated. Don’t use apostrophes when describing an age range. I was a 26-year-old bride (and late bloomer.) My ex-husband was allegedly in his 30s.

• Use figures for any distances over 10. For any distances below 10, spell out the distance. Examples: I used to run five miles a day, or 35 miles a week, before every body part below my waist collapsed.

• Always use a person’s first and last name on first reference, then only last names on second reference. Don’t use courtesy titles such as Mr., Mrs., Miss or Ms. unless they are part of a direct quotation or you’re writing about Miss Piggy.

• Do you know the eight states that are NEVER abbreviated? Alaska, Hawaii, Idaho, Iowa, Maine, Ohio, Texas and Utah. You’re welcome.


TOPICS: Education; Society
KEYWORDS: adultery; ap; goomars; mgtow; mistress; pua; redpill; slutwalk
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1 posted on 05/06/2021 5:50:17 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

Sounds like Miss Stankyho has been busy.


2 posted on 05/06/2021 5:56:22 PM PDT by GaryCrow
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To: nickcarraway
“The president will make an announcement tomorrow, after eating his Wheaties.”

Bruce Jenner is now president?

3 posted on 05/06/2021 5:59:28 PM PDT by SamAdams76 (By stealing Trump's second term, the Left gets Trump for 8 more years instead of just four.)
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To: nickcarraway
Friend


4 posted on 05/06/2021 6:00:31 PM PDT by DoodleBob (Gravity's waiting period is about 9.8 m/s^2)
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To: nickcarraway

I believe a euphemism from the past was “great and good friend.”


5 posted on 05/06/2021 6:01:13 PM PDT by PLMerite ("They say that we were Cold Warriors. Yes, and a bloody good show, too." - Robert Conquest )
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I don’t think ML was a mistress. She was never promoted to that.


6 posted on 05/06/2021 6:02:32 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: GaryCrow

Yeah, unfortunately, where I work has adopted the @$$ Press style guide.

I try to ignore it.


7 posted on 05/06/2021 6:03:28 PM PDT by sauropod (Chance favors the prepared mind.)
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To: nickcarraway
"How many divorce actions, filed for the cause of adultery, will use those terms?"

None should. It's odd, that so many people don't know what adultery really is according to the Bible.

8 posted on 05/06/2021 6:22:59 PM PDT by familyop
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To: nickcarraway

Eat me.


9 posted on 05/06/2021 6:36:21 PM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: nickcarraway

The Associated Press Stylebook, aka the Bible of journalism, has decreed that the word “mistress” shall no longer be used by journalists because “it implies the woman is solely responsible for the affair.”

That’s because that’s the way it is. The woman controls access to her nether regions. It is the woman, and always the woman, that grants that access to allow the affair to occur. [No, not rape, dumba** feminists. The article is about consensual betrayal of the marriage commitment].

Men are driven by their own biology to reproduce as often as possible; we never even lose the ability to sire [assuming the other stuff is also normally functioning]. There is no “Man”-opause. We are much less capable of reigning in the reproductive impulse due to our genetics and irrespective of a man’s conscious ‘awareness’ of those instincts.


10 posted on 05/06/2021 6:38:32 PM PDT by TonyinLA ( )
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Sell it to my wife first, then I’ll try it.


11 posted on 05/06/2021 6:39:14 PM PDT by ThePatriotsFlag (For accuracy, always replace “Biden” with “Biden’s Handlers”)
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To: GaryCrow

“A mistress is now a friend...”

That line doesn’t work with my wife for some reason!😎


12 posted on 05/06/2021 6:40:35 PM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: TonyinLA
Men are driven by their own biology to reproduce as often as possible

Why is the birth rate at an all-time low?

13 posted on 05/06/2021 6:40:36 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: SamAdams76

“The president will make an announcement tomorrow, after
he remembers his name.”


14 posted on 05/06/2021 6:40:45 PM PDT by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: nickcarraway

Didn’t say the impulse to engage in the act corresponds to increased reproduction. Take away birth control measures, then see what happens!

And you still have to be born with a pair, which in evaluating many [but not all thank God] my daughters’ male friends, is questionable at best. But I think that’s attributable to upbringing and widespread consumption of electronic diversions.


15 posted on 05/06/2021 6:45:48 PM PDT by TonyinLA ( )
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To: nickcarraway

Corporate HR departments have ruined everything and now their thinking is bleeding into the news articles.


16 posted on 05/06/2021 6:52:03 PM PDT by wildcard_redneck ( COVID lockdowns are the Establishment's attack on the middle class and our Republic )
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To: TonyinLA
- Men are driven by their own biology to reproduce as often as possible; we never even lose the ability to sire [assuming the other stuff is also normally functioning]. There is no “Man”-opause. We are much less capable of reigning in the reproductive impulse due to our genetics and irrespective of a man's conscious ‘awareness’ of those instincts.

When my feminist daughters go off about men I just reply that "We men are what women made us to be. All the men who were not horny enough to fight for a "place in the line" and then put up with their crap died out long ago."

17 posted on 05/06/2021 6:58:12 PM PDT by wildcard_redneck ( COVID lockdowns are the Establishment's attack on the middle class and our Republic )
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To: nickcarraway

Double plus ungood.


18 posted on 05/06/2021 6:58:58 PM PDT by rfp1234 (Caveat Emperor: Comitii asinorum atque rhinocerorum delendi sunt.)
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To: nickcarraway
I don’t think ML was a mistress. She was never promoted to that.

There was no missed-dress.

/runs for exit, ducking for cover>

19 posted on 05/06/2021 7:00:53 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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To: wildcard_redneck

And what do they say?


20 posted on 05/06/2021 7:03:40 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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