Why do Women Cheat?
BJ sounds appropriately named. Does his boyfriend know he is writing about cheating?
Note: These are reasons, not justifications. …Note: These are actually excuses, not reasons. Something that is unjustifiable is also not reasonable, by definition.
Life gets complicated.
Seems a reasonable writeup for a secular perspective.
I would say it is because men are not striving to follow God enough in their lives.
Just don’t forget - it takes two.
Western women have become unbearable. There I said it.
I realized a long time ago that I was lucky to have a wife that puts up with me.
It also helps that my wife, even in her 50’s, is still hot.
Facebook, for all it’s faults, has allowed me to see what the women I dated in high school and college look like today. I did really good.
Certain men are naturally devoted and others are tempted to varying degrees, with opportunity often a factor, to cheat. In between are those who swing either way based on the strength of their relationship and attracrion.
No one answer for all.
i love the menbad women good pieces
when men cheat men are bad
when women cheat men are bad
never cupcake’s fault, always the victim
men look
dont cheat
just admit its over and leave
I know a number of other guys who cheat. The reasons they give fall into these two basic categories:
1. Their wives let themselves go. This usually has to do with weight gain. Excessive weight gain.
2. Their wives cease to desire sex. In some cases this happens after the kids are born. In other cases, it happens in conjunction with menopause. In one case, the guys wife told him that she no longer found him attractive (likely due to his girth).
One thing seems to be almost universal: As women age and/or become more secure in the marriage (e.g., after they have their “anchor” children), their sexual drive generally decreases. I know of 1-2 exceptions to this, but those are the ones that prove the rule.
BJ, you are a perfect example of a Blue Pill Beta. I don’t think I can explain it to you.
Something about “strange stuff” that some men just enjoy. It’s as simple as that. DNA
Nothing here that we don’t already know.
As a woman married twice I can tell you that continuing the pursuit and romancing her for thirty years is exactly what men do not want to be bothered with. They believe that with the wedding ring comes her responsibility to put out on demand so he can get back to the game.
In my own research, I found a frequent common element when working with men who are perpetual cheaters.
The first bond is chat between child and mother. It is a strong emotional love that continues until the child goes through their terrible two’s.
The terrible two’s is when a child first creates a separation with mother. In men who cheat, I frequently found that a younger sibling was born before the older child went through their terrible two’s.
When the mother’s attention switched to the newborn, the older child felt rejected in the mother’s love. This creates a fear of intimacy and an expectation of rejection that lasts throughout life, creating the cheating to ease the fear of intimacy.
a lot of the problem is the wives but yes, some men are also the problem!
some men are just very immature or insincere or both.
and some women don’t try to make a happy home for their husbands
i figure those two factors cause about 90 percent of the problem
I did some work for a friend that was a private investigator. He didn’t like doing the domestic stuff so I did it.
I NEVER had to follow the husband to see where he was doing his dirt.
It was always the wife.