As a woman married twice I can tell you that continuing the pursuit and romancing her for thirty years is exactly what men do not want to be bothered with. They believe that with the wedding ring comes her responsibility to put out on demand so he can get back to the game.
Really now? And why in the world should a man have to "pursue" a woman he is married to? Romance is another thing, but the pursuit comment is absolutely nonsensical. I am not sure its realistic to expect romance to last forever -- or at least not at the same level as when your were courting. Ultimately, compatibility is more important than romance.
They believe that with the wedding ring comes her responsibility to put out on demand so he can get back to the game.
Women should never underestimate the importance of "putting out". It does not have to be "on demand", but it should be periodic. Once a week seems to work for most couples (after the first 2-3 years). Sex is a big factor in a marriage. Some women talk themselves into thinking it isn't, but they often find out the hard way they are mistaken.
More often than Birthday or Christmas would be nice.
Any responsibility for the woman? NOOOOOPE!
Women cheat for the same reason men cheat.
No morals and a belief they can do anything at anytime with anyone without any responsibility or remorse.
But it ALWAYS comes back to no morals whatsoever.
Period!