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I have researched many of the things to do and not to do for gifts on this day. Our neighbors have a large gathering at their house and I want to be considerate and respectful to their traditions.

What is a good gift? We were at an Asian market this morning and many people had carts filled with oranges by the case. We were too preoccupied to understand the meaning of their purchase.

I have since purchased two brass bells, coins and candy to give as a gift.

What is the best protocol in giving and being respectful?

Please help.

1 posted on 01/23/2020 11:09:58 AM PST by Dacula
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A Rickshaw....


2 posted on 01/23/2020 11:11:00 AM PST by TomServo
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RE: Chinese New Year 2020 - The Year of the Rat

Rats bring the plague.


3 posted on 01/23/2020 11:11:32 AM PST by SeekAndFind (look at Michigan, it will)
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box of N95 masks... and distance.


4 posted on 01/23/2020 11:11:55 AM PST by sheehan (DEPORT ALL ILLEGALS.)
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Red paper money ($2 in a red envelope) is always a hit with my Chinese friends!

This year I used these great copper coins instead...

https://www.providentmetals.com/2020-year-of-the-rat-1-oz-copper-round.html


8 posted on 01/23/2020 11:13:51 AM PST by MeganC (There is nothing feminine about feminism.)
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Sweets and a nicely wrapped tin of loose tea.


9 posted on 01/23/2020 11:14:03 AM PST by RushIsMyTeddyBear ("Progressives" (elitist communists) "Love you to death".)
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FYI:

https://www.chinahighlights.com/festivals/chinese-new-year-gift-giving-etiquette.htm


10 posted on 01/23/2020 11:14:12 AM PST by House Atreides (Boycott the NFL 100% — PERMANENTLY)
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To: Dacula; Army Air Corps; HK_Kai_Chung
This is has some infomration about home and work etc: How Chinese New Year Works.

Also this link: 21 Things You Didn’t Know About Chinese New Year

12 posted on 01/23/2020 11:15:54 AM PST by KC_Lion
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https://www.travelchinaguide.com/essential/holidays/new-year/gifts-ideas.htm


16 posted on 01/23/2020 11:20:26 AM PST by Red Badger (Against stupidity the gods themselves contend in vain.......... ..)
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Celebrating Chinese Lunar New Year is a custom, not a religion.

Traditionally, the whole family gather together and make dumplings from scratch. That being dumpling shape looks like the gold nuggets used centuries (?) ago. So making/eating dumplings bring good luck for the coming new year. ===> Yes, I am from Taiwan and I consider myself Chinese.

I used to invite friends/co-workers for the tradition, and told them “Now you’ve been adopted to the Family”.

A good gift would be a Chinese New Year card, just like Christmas card (if you can find it in Chinese grocery stores or China Town). So the recipients won’t feel monetary burden to reciprocate the kind gesture.

Otherwise, you can Bing search online, there are free greetings/images you can download. ===> As the American saying goes, it is the thought that counts.


17 posted on 01/23/2020 11:21:59 AM PST by Sir Napsalot (Pravda + Useful Idiots = USSR; Journ0List + Useful Idiots = DopeyChangey)
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The only fun, clean, family event left in San Francisco, it is a wonderful parade.


21 posted on 01/23/2020 11:37:15 AM PST by Jolla
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... a wide berth.


22 posted on 01/23/2020 11:53:32 AM PST by PghBaldy (12/14 - 930am -rampage begins... 12/15 - 1030am - Obama's advance team scouts photo-op locations.)
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I’d recommend a 12 pack of Corona.


26 posted on 01/23/2020 12:17:10 PM PST by Solson (Trump 2020!)
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If you are older than your neighbor, give him a red envelope with cash.


29 posted on 01/23/2020 12:46:09 PM PST by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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An appreciated present would be Wisconsin ginseng.


30 posted on 01/23/2020 12:47:32 PM PST by ifinnegan (Democrats kill babies and harvest their organs to sell)
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Well, I would not suggest a box set of Charlie Chan movies.

However, my neighbor seems to think that BBQ (homemade) is the best gift for every occasion.

I don’t think I’ll contradict him (it’s delicious)

Good luck in your quest!


31 posted on 01/23/2020 12:51:35 PM PST by Kommodor (Terrorist, Journalist or Democrat? I can't tell the difference.)
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33 posted on 01/23/2020 12:58:21 PM PST by 11th_VA
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I can always count on my Chinese Counterparts when they fly into the L.A. Office to bring certain things to the BBQ I host for them while they are here.

Cherry’s, Grapes, Watermelon, Oranges, Chinese Whiskey, and Green Peppers for me to cook on the Grille.

The real kick is the group picture at the the end of the Evening / Party in front of my Fireplace which hangs above my 3x5 Trump Banner. Nothing but big smiles! :)

Good Luck!


35 posted on 01/23/2020 1:16:38 PM PST by MotorCityBuck ( Keep the change, you filthy animal! ,)
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The year of the rat and a new ‘rat-like; snake-like caused virus to humans...


36 posted on 01/23/2020 1:17:44 PM PST by ldish (Have had enough...you??????)
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Chinese don’t expect non-chinese to understand or follow their customs exactly.

So, Any gesture or gift you give will be appreciated. Especially if these folks are >50 years old, a nicely decorated gift-box of something is common given in China by visitors - nuts/dried fruit, wine, fresh fruit, chocolates.

Try to make it RED color. RED is the color of luck and New Years (not communism!)


38 posted on 01/23/2020 1:36:49 PM PST by PGR88
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You say it's Jan. 23rd, however, the web says it's Jan. s25th, not the 23rd:

Lunar New Year Jan. 25th, 2020

How to say Happy New Year In Vietnamese, or Chinese (If they are not either of these nationalities - you will have to look it up). 8>)

40 posted on 01/23/2020 2:07:47 PM PST by Robert DeLong
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