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‘I understand my wife’s lived experience better’: meet the men who have taken their wives’ surnames
UK Guardian ^ | Aughist 20, 2019 | Ammar Kalia

Posted on 08/21/2019 6:27:01 AM PDT by C19fan

hat’s in a name? While marriages between opposite-sex couples have been in gradual decline in the UK since the 1970s, with nearly 250,000 marriages in England and Wales in 2016, the vast majority of wives still take their husbands’ names. Although there are no statistics available for the UK, only 3% of men in the US changed to their wives’ surnames, a 2016 study found.

For Nick Black, the decision to take his wife’s name was part of a wider refiguring of his family’s identity after he got married last year. “I was never that wedded to my former surname, Earley,” he says. “I’m part of a compound family, and have a sister by birth and two siblings by marriage, so we have always had different names. For me, family isn’t tied to a name. My wife, on the other hand, is from a very small family, and so it was more important to her to keep her name.”

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: feminism; marriage; mgtow; redpill
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It is nice to know that there are men even more Beta than me. Historically, in aristocracy some men have taken the wife's surname when the wife comes from a much more prominent family. One of the more famous examples was the husband of perhaps the most prolific serial killer in history Elizabeth Bathory. The Bathory family was one of the top Hungarian aristocratic families. When Elizabeth married Ferenc Nádasdy, Ferems changed his surname to Bathory.
1 posted on 08/21/2019 6:27:01 AM PDT by C19fan
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To: C19fan

Don’t buy the hype.

I tried bathing only in virgins’ blood for a year and it made NO DIFFERENCE.

That and I couldn’t find anymore virgins in the tri state area after a year.


2 posted on 08/21/2019 6:29:44 AM PDT by dp0622 (Bad, bad company Till the day I die.)
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I would be fine taking my wife’s last name. It would get me some affirmative action points. All she would have to do is pay me the full amount I paid for her engagement ring, in cash.


3 posted on 08/21/2019 6:32:23 AM PDT by thefactor (yes, as a matter of fact, i DID only read the excerpt)
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To: C19fan

4 posted on 08/21/2019 6:32:40 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: C19fan

Not even worth a comment.
Guardian.


5 posted on 08/21/2019 6:33:56 AM PDT by Da Coyote (eh)
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D-bags for sure ...


6 posted on 08/21/2019 6:34:14 AM PDT by SolidRedState (I used to think bizarro world was a fiction.)
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To: C19fan

If you are a Samenfink, a Smellie, or a Bracegirdle, the chance to become a Barrett or a Sherman would probably be a chance well worth taking.


7 posted on 08/21/2019 6:35:01 AM PDT by proxy_user
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UK Guardian. Enough said.


8 posted on 08/21/2019 6:35:54 AM PDT by winner3000
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Fags.


9 posted on 08/21/2019 6:36:17 AM PDT by IronJack
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To: C19fan

Why don’t they go all the way and take the surnames of their wive’s boyfriends?


10 posted on 08/21/2019 6:36:40 AM PDT by Moonman62 (Charity comes from wealth.)
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I tried bathing only in virgins’ blood for a year and it made NO DIFFERENCE.

LOL. I'd been meaning to try that... thanks for sharing.

11 posted on 08/21/2019 6:37:15 AM PDT by Pearls Before Swine
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To: C19fan

Even in todays feminist culture 99.9% of women would lose respect for their husbands if they took the wife’s name.


12 posted on 08/21/2019 6:38:32 AM PDT by setter
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Kill me now.


13 posted on 08/21/2019 6:39:42 AM PDT by Skooz (Gabba Gabba we accept you we accept you one of us Gabba Gabba we accept you we accept you one of us)
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I took my wife’s name...away. :-D


14 posted on 08/21/2019 6:40:56 AM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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The first one was called a ‘Modern Man’ by his wife’s colleagues . . . I have another word for it: p****whipped


15 posted on 08/21/2019 6:45:27 AM PDT by LRoggy (Peter's Son's Business)
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Or a Weiner?


16 posted on 08/21/2019 6:52:12 AM PDT by gcparent (Justice Brett Kavanaugh)
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marriages between opposite-sex couples

Redundancy alert.

17 posted on 08/21/2019 6:53:26 AM PDT by NorthMountain (... the right of the peopIe to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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Agreed. Luckily I was born with a normal regular name.

Otherwise....


18 posted on 08/21/2019 6:53:58 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
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If a man’s name bothered him just change it legally. You don’t have to wait to get married.


19 posted on 08/21/2019 6:55:41 AM PDT by gcparent (Justice Brett Kavanaugh)
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A friend of mine from church, took his wife’s name. His family was Mormon and he had become a Christian. There was some estrangement. His wife was one of two girls. Her parents were more family to him than his family was, so he took her name to honour her family.

At first, I thought it was unusual, but when he explained why, it made sense.


20 posted on 08/21/2019 6:56:31 AM PDT by A Formerly Proud Canadian (I once was blind but now I see...)
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