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Men’s cuddling group aims to redefine masculinity and heal trauma
Philly.com ^ | March 25, 2019 | Aneri Pattani

Posted on 03/26/2019 3:37:42 AM PDT by Loyalist

Twice a month, half a dozen men gather in Plymouth Meeting to help each other work through past traumas.

Their chosen method of healing? Cuddles.

It may seem odd, but members of the Men’s Therapeutic Cuddle Group say the practice has helped them cope with everything from childhood sexual abuse to the loss of family members when they were young.

The two-year-old group draws men from various backgrounds: a 37-year-old Mormon who works as an airport gate agent, a 57-year-old married father of three, a 62-year-old retiree. There is a range of sexual orientations.

At a time when traditional ideas of manhood are facing scrutiny and such terms as toxic masculinity are becoming more widely known through the MeToo movement, the group aims to provide new ways for men to express themselves.

“So often, we’re taught that to be an emotional stoic is the mark of manhood,” said Scott Turner, a 46-year-old interior designer and cofounder of the group. “If you show any emotional weakness or vulnerability, that’s a failure to your title of a man.”

“So often, we’re taught that to be an emotional stoic is the mark of manhood,” said Scott Turner, a 46-year-old interior designer and cofounder of the group. “If you show any emotional weakness or vulnerability, that’s a failure to your title of a man.”

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Totally not gay.

Seriously.

No homo.

Not gay at all!

1 posted on 03/26/2019 3:37:42 AM PDT by Loyalist
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To: Loyalist

"..dandy"

2 posted on 03/26/2019 3:45:38 AM PDT by Doogle (( USAF.68-73....8th TFW Ubon Thailand....never store a threat you should have eliminated)))
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Go rescue a dog or something.


3 posted on 03/26/2019 3:55:04 AM PDT by wetgundog (CNN is FAKE NEWS ...Just added NBC.)
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Now that’s funny.


4 posted on 03/26/2019 3:55:52 AM PDT by carton253 (Jesus is everything.)
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To: Loyalist

Get a Newfie, problem solved.


5 posted on 03/26/2019 4:00:34 AM PDT by PTBAA
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"There is a range of sexual orientations."

A range? There is only straight or homosexual.
Like Andrew "Dice" Clay said: "You either xxxx xxxx or you don't xxxx xxxx"

6 posted on 03/26/2019 4:04:18 AM PDT by Psalm 73 ("I will now proceed to entangle the entire area".)
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To: Loyalist

Okaayyy? More insanity on parade. Lemme guess. Another forum for effeminate crackers to show how far we’ve strayed?


7 posted on 03/26/2019 4:06:07 AM PDT by LouAvul (Socialism is the logical conclusion of liberalism. Anarchy is the logical conclusion of socialism.)
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Not soon after the muslims will be attacking our women in the streets and we will be running for cuddling rooms like the swedes and the germans


8 posted on 03/26/2019 4:11:15 AM PDT by ronnie raygun (nic dip.com)
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There is a range of sexual orientations.

No there isn't.

9 posted on 03/26/2019 4:11:59 AM PDT by Fightin Whitey
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“If you show any emotional weakness or vulnerability, that’s a failure to your title of a man.”

Seems like our culture has been consistently saying the opposite for a good 50 years. Meanwhile, “a failure to your title of man.” What a bizarre statement. Who talks like that? What is a failure to a title? What is a title of man? Ugh. Our culture has failed these poor, confused people, just not in the way they think.


10 posted on 03/26/2019 4:13:06 AM PDT by cdcdawg (A couple more election cycles and they won't even need vote fraud)
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They sound like a bunch of fags. Jim.


11 posted on 03/26/2019 4:13:44 AM PDT by shelterguy
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Sounds like grooming to me.


12 posted on 03/26/2019 4:14:00 AM PDT by MomwithHope (IMO Patrick McGoohan - Inventor of the Red Pill)
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What do men of color think of these fellas?


13 posted on 03/26/2019 4:20:39 AM PDT by junta ("Peace is a racket", testimony from crime boss Barrack Hussein Obama.)
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To: Loyalist

14 posted on 03/26/2019 4:21:32 AM PDT by Alberta's Child ("In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey.")
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Not gay? Interior designer?

That does not compute.


15 posted on 03/26/2019 4:22:22 AM PDT by Fresh Wind (Trump: "America will never be a socialist country!")
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>> There is a range of sexual orientations.

Right, from fags, to homo’s and probably through in a few tranny’s to round out the pathetic group.

Jesus Christ I am glad we don’t have to parachute into Europe anytime soon and save the world from the Nazi’s.


16 posted on 03/26/2019 4:28:02 AM PDT by qwerty1234
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To: onedoug

I thought they did drum circles.


17 posted on 03/26/2019 4:29:47 AM PDT by windcliff
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“There is a range of sexual orientations.”

so men who have been victimized are being solicited into “hugs” by predatory men. Okay....


18 posted on 03/26/2019 4:30:33 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (Denounce DUAC - The Democrats Un-American Activists Committee)
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No,no,no,not in a million years.


19 posted on 03/26/2019 4:30:45 AM PDT by Raycpa
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Yes,men experience "traumas" just as women do.But the last thing a *normal* man wants to do to deal with such traumas is to "cuddle" another guy.

It ain't complicated...that's just the plain truth.

Normal men shake hands.They *might* even give another guy a *quick* hug at a funeral...or a wedding...or at the birth of a child.

Next question!

20 posted on 03/26/2019 4:31:52 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Mitt Romney: Bringing Massachusetts Values To The Great State Of Utah.)
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