I read about this over at babe.com (language warning) and it sounds like nothing more than a bad date.
I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life
At any rate, Ansari has now found himself in the crosshairs of the #MeToo witchhunt. His career will be in shambles. Is any of it true? Doesn't matter.
And she was drugged, threatened and violently forced to go to his apartment after the dinner date?
She forcefully slapped his hands away from him, while he undressed her in his apartment?
We all make mistakes, MEN are expected to accept responsibility for their mistakes, this woman has decided to blame this “non-funny” comedian. I am no fan of this man; but this sounds like a woman who is upset that after having sex with him; he didn’t call her back, or give her the life of luxury that she feels entitled to.
so she went to his apartment, let him undress her, gave him oral, but was up set that he was aggressive? and this was when they just first met?
Consensual then.
As much as I enjoy Liberal entertainment people getting hoist by their own petard, I have to say this is all too much.
This woman went on a date, gave quite a lot of encouragement to the guy and ended up trying to destroy him. This isn’t sexual harassment by the guy. This is a bitch attacking a man.
She went to his apartment, let him undress her and do oral sex on her, then gets shocked that he expected it to go further? To top it off, she isn't sure it's assault until her friends convince her it is. This woman is unhinged.
Don’t know the guy, but judging from his profession, he probably had more than a few unkind ‘jokes’ regarding President Trump...maybe even some on this subject.
Not so much fun now, hey Aziz?
You went to his apartment. Wake up!!!!
People who think this is exploitation or sexual assault probably see women as weak little creatures unable to think for themselves or make decisions. Speaking as a man I think that’s very insulting to women.
She made a bad decision and now she regrets it. There’s nothing wrong with that. A lot of people have regrets, learn from them and move on. But she is now trying to blame her own regrets for her own actions by basically accusing someone else of sexual assault. What happened to personal responsibility?
Like many young college women who believe they were victims of sexual assault, this woman is, rather, the victim of a false premise. The false premise is that random fornication with strangers while intoxicated will bring happiness. It doesn’t. Mostly, it doesn’t even bring sexual pleasure, for women, because the drunk, random stranger doesn’t care about the woman’s experience.
Instead of rejecting the false premise and choosing lives of chastity - or at least some thoughtful restraint - all these young persons seem to believe that random, drunk fornication *could* make them happy, if only “consent” were sufficiently documented, or something.
In summary:
They went on a date.
He took her to his apt.
He initiated oral sex on her.
She reciprocated on him.
He kept trying to have intercourse with her despite her “non verbal cues” that she didnt want to.
She became upset that he didn’t get her cues.
IMO these are both horrible people with the morals of animals. Perhaps he didnt take her “no sex” cue seriously because of the oral sex she engaged in immediately before? Instead of non verbal cues, why not try a clear unequivocal verbal statement, a smack in the face or a knee to the groin? It would certainly have been justified in dealing with this insistant sex poodle.
From her description of the encounter he seems to be a good example of the celebrity culture where women will let you do anything to them including “grab them by the p***y”. Both of these people are disgusting example of the human depravity typical in the entertainment business.