In summary:
They went on a date.
He took her to his apt.
He initiated oral sex on her.
She reciprocated on him.
He kept trying to have intercourse with her despite her “non verbal cues” that she didnt want to.
She became upset that he didn’t get her cues.
IMO these are both horrible people with the morals of animals. Perhaps he didnt take her “no sex” cue seriously because of the oral sex she engaged in immediately before? Instead of non verbal cues, why not try a clear unequivocal verbal statement, a smack in the face or a knee to the groin? It would certainly have been justified in dealing with this insistant sex poodle.
From her description of the encounter he seems to be a good example of the celebrity culture where women will let you do anything to them including “grab them by the p***y”. Both of these people are disgusting example of the human depravity typical in the entertainment business.
Just repeat the mantra of Log Cabin RINOs: "social issues don't win elections".