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The actual story is several years old, but it is still relevant. The girl's mother is Bonnye Spray.

"Nine year later, Spray still cries when she tells her daughter’s story. It’s trying, but she tells it nearly every week because she wants others to learn from it."

1 posted on 04/11/2016 8:49:59 AM PDT by Enterprise
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Tragic, but Darwin is invoked when it happens a 2nd time.


2 posted on 04/11/2016 8:52:52 AM PDT by BigEdLB (Take it Easy, Chuck. I'm Not Taking it Back -- Donald Trump)
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It’s horrible that this happened...

but honestly.. would it have made a difference if she was eating a big mack, tuning the radio, or checking her makeup when she crashed?

There is an endless list of things which can distract you from driving, why the focus on this? oh yeah... because it’s new, and new is scary.


3 posted on 04/11/2016 8:54:00 AM PDT by TexasFreeper2009 (You can't spell Hillary without using the letters L, I, A, R)
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If a near death experience isn’t enough to break the texting habbing while behind the wheel I think it says something about how impacted the brain is by this technology. I just don’t think the brains of kids raised with ubiquitous texting, streaming videos, selfies and the like process info in quite the same way as the generations prior.


4 posted on 04/11/2016 8:54:35 AM PDT by pepsi_junkie (ui)
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Tragic.

However the sterotyoe that it is young kids doing this is very incorrect.

I watch it as I drive. It is far and above people (mostly women) in the age group of about, say, 35-55.

In other words, people who really don't have anything all that fascinating going on that it can't wait and should know better.

But, I guess when your online persona is 20X hotter than you are in real life, it probably does become your "second life".

That said, I was pulled up pretty close to a lady on Friday night, close enough that I could see she was scrolling through Facebook at the light. She was probably about 50.

The light changed. She stayed there for a good 15 seconds, scrolling away....

5 posted on 04/11/2016 8:57:27 AM PDT by riri (Obama's Amerika--Not a fun place.)
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Can’t fix stupid.


6 posted on 04/11/2016 8:59:58 AM PDT by READINABLUESTATE ("If guns cause crime, there must be something wrong with mine." -Ted Nugent)
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Looks like autonomous vehicles are coming along just in time to save the Occutard generation from itself.


8 posted on 04/11/2016 9:00:59 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum ("If voting made any difference they wouldn't let us do it." --Samuel Clemens)
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She wrote extensively about the experience for her senior project at Oakdale High School in 2006. "I hate the thought of dying without my family knowing how I felt about them. I believe everything happens for a reason and the reason for my car accident is to let me know that I need to slow down and pay more attention. I know that I need to change the way I have been living my life. My phone and talking to my friends put me in danger. I realize how easy it is for my life to be over because I wasn’t paying attention."

Apparently the first "wake up call" only had a limited shelf life. She was right in what she said after the first accident. Too bad she stopped believing it.

9 posted on 04/11/2016 9:01:23 AM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard ("When the people find they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.")
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“Sorry, can’t talk right now because I’m dead.”


13 posted on 04/11/2016 9:04:36 AM PDT by Steely Tom (Vote GOP: A Slower Handbasket)
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I have been driving for many years. In the last 5 to 7 years driving has become a near daily exercise in abject frustration. Commuting to and from work is a seemingly endless procession of drivers — mostly female and mostly contractors — with their phone glued to the side of their head. In this condition they are semi-conscience of anything around them.

You know, those who are slowly following the car in front of them with two city blocks space because they know their reflex time is so great that they otherwise won’t be able to stop in time.

How about those who come to an almost dead stop in one lane of traffic waiting for the next lane to clear so they can then change lanes? Merging to change lanes? Pffft... too much mental processing needed for the phone conversation.

About such drivers, my line to my kids in the car is, “See, that person can’t be bothered by driving right now, she’s on the phone.”


14 posted on 04/11/2016 9:05:18 AM PDT by Obadiah
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I saw a guy driving in traffic on I-80 in NJ while reading a newspaper.


19 posted on 04/11/2016 9:08:53 AM PDT by USMCPOP (Father of LCpl. Karl Linn, KIA 1/26/2005 Al Haqlaniyah, Iraq)
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That transition road “loop” from the 99 to the 120 that connects to the 5 is one nasty road, needing full attention. I can’t even imagine texting while taking that part of the highway.


20 posted on 04/11/2016 9:09:14 AM PDT by bubbacluck (America 180)
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Nine years ago most people had the flip phones which required pushing the buttons multiple times to get to some letters. No wonder the girl wrecked.

Her poor mother.


21 posted on 04/11/2016 9:12:55 AM PDT by Darnright (When a system acts illegally, its dictates are not the law of the land, they are the law of force)
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She survived her first driving-while-texting accident – but not her second

Where did she get the phone? That is the root of the problem, I think.

23 posted on 04/11/2016 9:14:08 AM PDT by DiogenesLamp ("of parents owing allegiance to no other sovereignty.")
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Lots of drivers who appear to be texting may simply be looking to see who is calling and answering their phones. When I drive, I always have my bluetooth headset on. If I get a call, I only have to push the button on the headset to take the call and/or hang-up on the call. I don't know why people can't invest $20-$30 for hands-free driving.

If I get a text alert, I ignore it.

25 posted on 04/11/2016 9:14:56 AM PDT by Sans-Culotte ('''Political correctness is communist propaganda writ small''~ Theodore Dalrymple)
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I was fortunate to have worked for a company that ENFORCED Defensive Driving. It was given to all employees who ‘might ever’
drive in a company vehicle. There was a one week course every five years an a two day refresher every year.
A couple of notes: All other drives are liable to do the unsuspected moves, Do not trust the other to do the correct thing and never do anything but drive-alert when driving a vehicle.
My family doesn’t enjoy when I am driving because I talk aloud about moves that other drivers are about to do. Most times Im right.
No tickets or accidents since 1958.


27 posted on 04/11/2016 9:16:36 AM PDT by GOYAKLA ( Pick-up the pace, I'm eighty!)
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The technology must exist to have the option of making cell phones inoperable when the vehicle is moving....


28 posted on 04/11/2016 9:17:31 AM PDT by Nickname
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texting is impossible while driving. One can feasibly talk on a phone while driving, because one can keep one’s eyes on the road.

With texting, it is impossible. I see it with my kids and their friends. They are slaves to their devices. I am constantly railing against it.


29 posted on 04/11/2016 9:17:58 AM PDT by PGR88
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Being incapable of learning from experience meant she was going to die tragically at some point.

I feel bad for the other driver.

30 posted on 04/11/2016 9:21:13 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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I once worked with a senior,well respected,physician at a world famous hospital.This physician had a very important title...one which meant that he/she was basically on duty 24/7/365.One day,at about 6PM,he/she was driving home and about 2 minutes from home crossed the center line,hit an oncoming car head on,and was killed instantly.I saw the police report.The report noted that there was evidence that he/she wasn't wearing a seat belt and was texting at the moment of impact.

The folks in the other car weren't badly hurt.

60 posted on 04/11/2016 9:59:21 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Obamanomics:Trickle Up Poverty)
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Anyone familiar with the Interstates between Boston and NYC are familiar with those big blue double decker buses called “Megabus”.I often take them to NYC for a day out (they're really cheap).When I do I always get a window seat on the upper deck and can look down at occupants of passenger cars.I'm stunned at how often I see women applying makeup and people texting while driving.
61 posted on 04/11/2016 10:03:54 AM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Obamanomics:Trickle Up Poverty)
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