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Why Male Pansies Can’t Attract a Good Woman
Girls Just Wanna Have Guns ^ | May 2013 | Regis Giles

Posted on 05/19/2013 7:39:13 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks

A while back I received several e-mails from guys requesting my advice on how to attract a female like me. You see, they seem to have a hard time attracting women that are into shooting and the outdoors… and I understand this.

Being that we humans aren’t whitetail deer and you can’t rub your scent on a tree to find yourself a mate, it makes things harder for guys.

I’ve decided to throw these guys a bone, and any others who need help, on how to attract such a lady. Here are essential points to follow in attracting the Katniss Everdeen for your life:

1. Confidence is key:

Now, I know I said we weren’t whitetail, but since you did mention you wanted a woman of the outdoors, I will use an analogy that caters to this community.

Women want the stud buck, bear or lion in their life. They want the alpha male, the one who walks out into the field and you know… he’s the man. However, don’t confuse this with arrogance; that is one thing women can’t stand.

2. Class not swag:

The woman who is into shooting and the outdoors is usually someone who is confident in herself. Knowing that, she will never choose a man who carries himself with “swag” and treats women as objects. A hundred times over …and over, they will choose a man who has “class” and treats them with the respect they deserve.

3. Be a man of virtue:

Living a life of virtue is much harder than living a life of vice. Showing that you are virtuous in your actions will tell a woman that you live to a moral code, you have discipline and you aren’t easily influenced by weak and petty people.

4. Don’t look, or be, desperate:

Never need someone. Always be content with the thought of being alone, that way you won’t fall for the wrong woman. Also, if you do appear desperate, that’s usually when women run for the hills… and I think it’s true for men too. However, when you do find the apple-of-your-eye, don’t ignore her.

5. My final note is, look sharp.

ZZ Top knows this and so should you; every girl goes crazy for a sharp dressed man. Guys, please put an effort into your appearance. We females aren’t shallow because we overlook the guys in sweat pants or who do the tube-sock/flip-flop combo… you look like a slob, that’s why we overlook you. If you want to attract a woman, be attractive.

Now, keep in mind this is strictly my opinion and the games of love are never set in stone. Nevertheless, these generally seem to be traits the majority of these Katniss Everdeen-like women are attracted to.

Also, take note of my use of the term “man”. The type of woman you want to attract isn’t going to be into a 30-year-old mama’s boy, who still lives at home and wets his bed. She is looking for a leader, the stud of the herd; she is looking for a “man”, not a “boy”.

Hope this helped.

Happy hunting,

-Regis Giles


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To: Age of Reason

Let me clue you in on a little secret.

Having a supportive wife in your life makes all the difference in the world. That means doing all the little things right.

You want your husband to go out 9 to 5 and bust his butt off and make a ton of money - do you think he’s gonig to be willing to do that if wifey at home treats him like dirt?

R-E-S-P-E-C-T I’m telling you, you want to land a man - it’s really super simple.

Show them respect - doing something nice FOR THEM just becuase you think they are a good man - a man is going to sit up and take notice. Why? Because most men spend most of their time getting trashed. They are used to women saying they are worthless, etc.

What they are not used to is a woman coming up and saying - “you’re an awesome guy”. Real simple.

I know some of the ladies here are going to complain how this isn’t true. But I know it is. Get a man, keep a man is not that hard.


81 posted on 05/19/2013 12:35:08 PM PDT by JCBreckenridge (Texas is a state of mind - Steinbeck)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks
ZZ Top knows this and so should you; every girl goes crazy for a sharp dressed man


82 posted on 05/19/2013 12:42:47 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("There can be no dialogue with the prince of this world." -- Francis)
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To: Albion Wilde

*snicker*


83 posted on 05/19/2013 12:52:12 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

I was certain this was written by Meghan McCain at first, and am still not certain she’s hasn’t adopted a pen name just to avoid associating the McCain dynasty with those tacky gun nuts.

It’s the same pop-culture driven, self-absorbed twaddle directed at individuals she couldn’t possibly understand, but deigns to make a derisive attempt in order to hopefully place herself above those she “counsels.”


84 posted on 05/19/2013 1:00:17 PM PDT by RegulatorCountry
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To: EricT.
Willing to bet some man in her life earned the money that bought her that beautiful rifle.

I'm guessing it was her father.

85 posted on 05/19/2013 1:03:16 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Drag Me From Hell!)
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To: Tax-chick

Phil Robertson is one of the sexiest guys on TV.


86 posted on 05/19/2013 1:04:26 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("There can be no dialogue with the prince of this world." -- Francis)
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To: Albion Wilde

Nothing against him personally, but I don’t go for the Devil Anse Hatfield look.

If a guy wants to attract a hot-showers-and-air-conditioning girl, he should probably shave.


87 posted on 05/19/2013 1:07:17 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: KrisKrinkle
Will she be into the 80-year-old guy who lives in the home and is wetting the bed again?

I'm sure she will if he has a great amount of wealth.

88 posted on 05/19/2013 1:13:09 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Drag Me From Hell!)
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To: driftdiver; Organic Panic; et al

First problem with this story is the author thinks she deserves “respect” and special treatment just because she’s a woman. Respect is earned and many woman do little to earn it.


In the old days a woman started with the status of “Respected” just due to her gender. But it was entirely up to her to maintain that fleetingly delicate and lofty stature. NO do-overs was the rule.


89 posted on 05/19/2013 1:25:07 PM PDT by S.O.S121.500 (Love me or fear me, you will respect me. ENFORCE THE BILL OF RIGHTS--(It is the Law).)
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To: S.O.S121.500

In the old days we had morals.


90 posted on 05/19/2013 1:27:51 PM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do uwhen I have a fire.)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks
Another photo, featuring Regis and her dad, Doug.


91 posted on 05/19/2013 1:28:09 PM PDT by Theo (May Christ be exalted above all.)
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To: Carl LaFong
Men want physically attractive women.

If you're speaking *only* attractive that's not true...at least for guys older than 25.Good looks is icing on the cake when it goes along with intelligence,decency,etc.

Women want men with a substantial financial larder and security.

Women of quality certainly want a guy who is,at the very least,financially solvent to ensure a reasonably comfortable life.They're not to be confused with gold-diggers.

Both are equally shallow but it always has been and ever shall be.

The older the men and women involved are the less accurate your assessment is.

92 posted on 05/19/2013 2:23:29 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Leno Was Right,They *Are* Undocumented Democrats!)
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To: Carl LaFong
And BTW...love your screen name.”And if I *did* know Carl LaFong,I wouldn't admit it!”
93 posted on 05/19/2013 2:30:03 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Leno Was Right,They *Are* Undocumented Democrats!)
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To: Tax-chick

I don’t even mind skinny jeans as long as the person in question is not fat.


94 posted on 05/19/2013 2:44:09 PM PDT by Anoreth (It is not moth eaten. It is superb.)
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To: Anoreth

You lost me there. I think everyone looks silly in skinny jeans.


95 posted on 05/19/2013 2:47:46 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks
It probably goes back to cavemen days and is wired in our DNA...women are going to seek out strong men who can be a reliable provider and men are going to seek out strong women who can bear their children and nurture them to adulthood.

Once the children are raised, there is no good reason for the man and woman to stay together unless it is their choice to do so. That's why I believe that marriages should last until the children are raised. Once they are raised, the main reason for them getting together is gone and they should be free to "move about the country" like they say in the commercial. Of course, they have the option to renew their vows and grow old together if they like - and there is nothing wrong with that whatsoever. Remember that for most of human civilization, the average adult only lived until his/her offspring was ready to take over as heads of the family. As soon as they became a burden to the family unit, the older people would quickly be left by the side of the road to die. I mean, what else could be done? It wasn't like they had an Happy Acres Retirement Community back in ancient days, where nurses would empty your bedpan and bingo would get played on Tuesday nights.

But I suppose I digress.

Getting back to the point, I don't think the main problem with young men these days is that they are "pansies" or otherwise effeminate. True, some men are fairies, always have been, just like some women are dykes and are as mean as bulls.

I think it's more of a "mama's boy" syndrome going on here with the young men of today. This is the age after all of the "helicopter parent" who insist on structuring every moment of their offspring's day, filling them up with absurd organized activities such as soccer and karate. Karate? Has anybody ever heard of a picked-on kid win a fistfight because his mother sent him to karate?

But I digress...again.

All this helicopter parenting has helped to create a generation of young males who simply do not have the confidence to strike out on their own. As a result, they end up spending their 20s and even 30s in the basement of their parents homes, playing videogames and bouncing from dead-end job to dead-end job (no pressure to pay the rent or purchase business suits).

Now there was Little League around when I was a kid but in those days, parents didn't drive their kids to practices in mini-vans and sit in lawn chairs shouting encouragement everytime a pop fly was shagged or a ground ball fielded. I don't think I had a parent attend a single practice and only rarely would they even attend an actual game. Back then, we would walk the 10 blocks or so to the practice field on our own and walk back in the growing darkness after it was over. If I had ice cream at all, I bought it myself with my newspaper route money.

Anyway, all I'm saying here is that men need to establish independence (away from mommy and daddy) and have their own pad and drive a decent set of wheels that they themselves purchased. They also need to know when a sports jacket and slacks is more appropriate then sneakers and jeans. They also need to lose the ball caps. Ball caps are for Little Leaguers and old men with time on their hands (or when you are out fishing). And when you are dating women, don't talk about sports. Most women don't give a crap about sports.

So having effeminate qualities really has nothing to do with it. After all, many women are "tomboys" and that can be endearing. There's nothing wrong with a woman who can properly hit a fastball or kick a man's butt in tennis, so long as they know how to look good in a dress and heels and otherwise retain their feminine qualities.

So if men want to show some feminine traits, it can actually be perceived by women as signs of confidence in one's masculinity, especially when those men back it up by being a man where it counts - absolute financial and emotional independence. The real "pansies" are the men who are insecure about their masculinity so they overcompensate by acting like obnoxious jerks all the time and dress and act like they are still jockeying for social position in the high school hallways.

96 posted on 05/19/2013 3:06:29 PM PDT by SamAdams76
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

I can’t disagree with what she has said, but she left out some crucial attributes: intelligence, character, a sense of humour and kindness.


97 posted on 05/19/2013 3:11:02 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Tax-chick; Anoreth
You lost me there. I think everyone looks silly in skinny jeans.

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I don't care for them.

98 posted on 05/19/2013 3:13:53 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Safetgiver

I take ‘em home and fry them up for my lovey. She stares a lot at her food, must be anorexic or sum’n.

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you havta peel them first


99 posted on 05/19/2013 3:19:12 PM PDT by Chickensoup (200 million unarmed " people killed in the 20th century by Leftist Totalitarian Fascists)
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To: driftdiver

I think you have it wrong or perhaps just too optimistic. The feminist movement has had a major impact in our country.

I have two boys in their teens and 2nd year of college. Even the girls in church have a chip on their shoulder and think they are owed something just because they are girls.

Perhaps its different in other parts of the country.
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no it isnt any different. Son is graduating, and the girls are playing lesbian, or playing slut. Middle class girls and lower class girls have no intention of marriage. High end girls plan to marry after several years of living with the guy.

Both son and I have discussed helping him find overseas bride.


100 posted on 05/19/2013 3:29:31 PM PDT by Chickensoup (200 million unarmed " people killed in the 20th century by Leftist Totalitarian Fascists)
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