Posted on 11/03/2007 8:00:20 AM PDT by Daffynition
They say twins share a strong bond - but the one between Gabriel and Ieuan Jones was unbreakable.
When doctors found that Gabriel was weaker than his brother, with an enlarged heart,and believed he was going to die in the womb, his mother Rebecca Jones had to make a heartbreaking decision.
Doctors told her his death could cause his twin brother to die too before they were born, and that it would be better to end Gabriel's suffering sooner rather than later.
Mrs Jones decided to let doctors operate to terminate Gabriel's life.
Firstly they tried to sever his umbilical cord to cut off his blood supply, but the cord was too strong.
They then cut Mrs Jones's placenta in half so that when Gabriel died, it would not affect his twin brother.
But after the operation which was meant to end his life, tiny Gabriel had other ideas.
Although he weighed less than a pound, he put up such a fight for survival that doctors called him Rocky.
Astonishingly, he managed to carry on living in his mother's womb for another five weeks - until the babies were delivered by caesarean section.
Now he and Ieuan are back at home in Stoke - and are so close they are always holding each other's hand.
Mrs Jones, 35, a financial adviser whose husband Mark, 36, is a car salesman, said: "It really is a miracle. Doctors carried out an operation to let Gabriel die - yet he hung on.
"It was unbelievable."
"When I felt him kicking madly the morning after the operation, I suddenly knew that he was going to hang on.
"The doctors couldn't believe it when they could still hear his heartbeat the next morning."
Mrs Jones learned she was expecting twins when she was ten weeks pregnant. She said: "When they told us we were over the moon."
But at her 20-week scan, doctors had some devastating news. One of the boys was half the size of his brother.
They didn't know what was causing it, but somehow he wasn't getting enough nutrients.
Then doctors said his heart was three times normal size and it was likely he would have a heart attack or a stroke in the womb.
Mrs Jones said: "They told us that if he died, it could be life threatening for his brother.
"We had to decide whether to end his life and let his brother live, or risk them both."
They said it would be impossible to keep him alive afterwards as he was so poorly.
It would be kinder to let him die in the womb with his brother by his side than to die alone after being born.
"That made my mind up for me. I wanted the best thing for him."
At Birmingham Women's Hospital, when Mrs Jones was 25 weeks pregnant, doctors tried to sever Gabriel's umbilical cord to cut off his blood supply and allow him to die.
But the cord was too thick, and they could not cut through it.
As a last resort they divided Mrs Jones's placenta so that when Gabriel died, it would allow Ieuan to survive. Mrs Jones said: "I put my hands on my stomach thinking of Gabriel. It was devastating. I had said my goodbyes."
But the next morning Mrs Jones felt Gabriel kicking. A scan showed his heart was still beating. She said: "No one could quite believe it."
Gabriel hung on, and his enlarged heart started to reduce in size. He also gained weight.
Mrs Jones said: "They thought it may be because the placenta had been divided. Inadvertently, it had evened out the distribution of nutrition between them, allowing Gabriel to survive.'
When Mrs Jones reached 31 weeks doctors carried out a caesarian to deliver the twins. Ieuan weighed 3lb 8oz and Gabriel 1lb 15oz. Both were kept in hospital, but since going home they have thrived. At seven months, Ieuan weighs 15lb and Gabriel 12lb 6oz.
Mrs Jones said: "The boys are so healthy, they have huge appetites too. Ieuan is the noisy one, while Gabriel is always laughing, it's like he's just so happy to be here.
"There is such a strong bond between them.
"They are always holding hands and if one cries, the other reaches out to comfort him."
"Doctors tried to break their bond in the womb, but they just proved it couldn't be broken."
I have friends who, when expecting, were told their baby had no brain and they were strongly urged to abort.
They chose to leave it in God's hands - Their daughter just graduated cum laude ...
How many wonderful, healthy babies have been aborted upon doctors advice
Too true, sadly. It just goes to show once again that doctors are not God, nor can they predict what is only in God's ultimate control.
I concur with other comments on this thread that the "compassionate" language used to persuade this woman to let the doctors kill one of her babies is truly horrifying. It just goes to show that with the right language and framework of mind, one can justify most anything.
I pray that this story will stand as great warning to any mother reading it if she should ever face the awful urging of a doctor to let him kill her baby because it is the "kind" thing to do.
SHUDDER
Agreed. And I found the story chilling, not heartwarming except for the end. The Orwellian language is mortifying.
It does no good to hide from LIFE! Gabriel is indeed an angel, destined for something great! By his shear will, he has proved more in his infancy than all the adults in this article put together.
Good grief!!!!! Geez, I hope the kid never finds out what his parents tried to do to him. How do you explain that exactly?
Thanks for posting the picture. What cute kids!!
Something happened to the thread, so I can’t reply directly to those who mentioned Twin Transfusion Syndrome. That was my first thought as to what saved the life of this little fellow. I have 23 year old identical twin sons, who were born only 2 weeks early, but had TTS. Their placenta was one, giant and intertwined. One was born 2 pounds lighter than the other (5 lbs 11 oz, and 7 lbs. 11 oz), but for some reason, which we still do not understand (a miracle from God is the only explanation) it was the smaller boy who supplied the blood for the larger- the opposite of “normal” TTS. The smaller one didn’t stop producing red blood cells at birth and was transfused with plasma to thin his blood out. He was in the hospital for a week, and was sent home with the doctors kind of shrugging and saying that we’d just have to wait and see what happens. Not a lot was known back in “the day” and in most cases, one twin did not survive, and often both didn’t. Like I said, these guys were a miracle, and they still are (especially in Mom’s eyes...) a true blessing. I agree with the poster who said that this survivor is here for a purpose, and God made sure that no scalpel or scissors were going to interfere with it! Praise God, and may their Mom know how very blessed she is!!!
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