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Is it OK to have sex on a first date?
The Guardian (UK) ^ | 1/17/06 | Staff

Posted on 01/18/2006 8:45:41 AM PST by Millee

Three quarters of people think it is fine to sleep with someone on a first date, according to a new survey. Really? We conducted our own study ... Jodie Marsh Celebrity Big Brother contestant

I always used to think it was bad to have sex on the first date because lots of men are still in that old-fashioned frame of mind where they think that if you're too easy, you must be a slag, and therefore they will have no respect for you and won't want to see you again. But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other. I generally think it's better in the long term to wait a while, though. On the flipside, if a man is obviously trying to get in my knickers as soon as possible, and doesn't care about what I'm like as a person, then I'm not going to want to have anything to do with him. Clearly, they're just after a shag.

Denis Rodman is trying to sleep with everyone in the Big Brother house. On that basis, I wouldn't sleep with him if he was the last man on earth. Whereas if he only liked me, and waited to get to know me, then perhaps I would give him the time of day.

James Brown former editor of Loaded magazine

I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt.

(Excerpt) Read more at lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk ...


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KEYWORDS: skanksandhoes; slutsandnuts
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To: PaulaB

hilarious!

charitiible donation?

if entertaining is the liquor expense incuded?


41 posted on 01/18/2006 9:30:48 AM PST by peacebaby (Good morning heartache, if you're gonna stay, you gotta get a job, I've got bills to pay.)
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To: eastforker

What about the woman who is pressured? (Or I suppose the man who is, though I find that harder to believe).


42 posted on 01/18/2006 9:32:12 AM PST by Notwithstanding (I love my German shepherd - Benedict XVI reigns!)
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To: Millee
No
43 posted on 01/18/2006 9:32:28 AM PST by baker_girl (Learn the rules so you know how to break them.)
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To: Millee

What's a date?


44 posted on 01/18/2006 9:33:32 AM PST by day10 (Whenever you come near the human race, there's layers and layers of nonsense.)
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To: Millee
Is it OK to have sex on a first date?

Only if you don't plan on a second date.

DD

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45 posted on 01/18/2006 9:34:09 AM PST by Dashing Dasher (Saving the Republic - one joke at a time)
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To: HuntsvilleTxVeteran

You, sir, are easily amused. ;)


46 posted on 01/18/2006 9:36:03 AM PST by freedomlover (The only reason you are still conscious is because I don't want to carry you. - Jack)
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To: day10

Aaaawww hun! Least you're not asking, "what's sex".


47 posted on 01/18/2006 9:38:18 AM PST by Millee (Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.)
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To: Notwithstanding

According to some women all men are pigs or gay and some men think all women are either tramps or muff divers.


48 posted on 01/18/2006 9:38:43 AM PST by eastforker (Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
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To: Dashing Dasher
I was hoping you'd show up for this thread!
49 posted on 01/18/2006 9:39:29 AM PST by Millee (Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.)
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To: Millee

:-)


50 posted on 01/18/2006 9:40:16 AM PST by day10 (Whenever you come near the human race, there's layers and layers of nonsense.)
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To: freedomlover

I may grow old but I refuse to grow up.


51 posted on 01/18/2006 9:42:57 AM PST by HuntsvilleTxVeteran (“Don't approach a Bull from the front, a Horse from the back, or a Fool from any side.”)
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To: Mike Bates

52 posted on 01/18/2006 9:47:42 AM PST by EX52D (They say that anger is just love disappointed...)
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To: Millee
Official Baseball Dating Terminology
53 posted on 01/18/2006 9:48:53 AM PST by MadCharity (Chloe: "Relax he's really good at this")
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To: laney

Well, years ago, before I met my wife. . .in fact, before the widespread use of the Net. . . I met a woman on one of the RelayNet echoes (you'd read and post messages on a local BBS, then ~once a day, they'd connect to a "hub" system, get new messages and send messages posted there. . . sort of a primitive version of a modern-day newsserver. . .).

We corresponded for months, eventually moved to phone calls, and eventually got together for a few months time. We'd "known" each other for almost a year when we finally met face to face. . . and it was STILL several weeks before we finally slept together. . . . .


54 posted on 01/18/2006 9:48:55 AM PST by Salgak (Acme Lasers presents: The Energizer Border: I dare you to try and cross it. . .)
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To: Notwithstanding
Women who have sex on the first date are acting like tramps. And men who do this are selfish pigs.

Yes....but lucky selfish pigs.

55 posted on 01/18/2006 9:49:02 AM PST by lowbridge (All that is needed for evil to triumph is for "RINOS" to do something)
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To: peacebaby
I'm thinking the liquor and pills to pull it off

may be labeled as "essential work props"
56 posted on 01/18/2006 9:49:05 AM PST by PaulaB
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To: EX52D

Not many women wanted to have sax with me on our first....oh dear....I thought you said "SAX"....silly me!! :0 )


57 posted on 01/18/2006 9:50:17 AM PST by geezerwheezer (get up boys, we're burnin' daylight!!!)
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To: eastforker

I am of the mind that women are the fairer sex and deserve to be treated with great respect by real men.

Of course women who act like tramps will often find themselves among men who don't respect them.


58 posted on 01/18/2006 9:51:31 AM PST by Notwithstanding (I love my German shepherd - Benedict XVI reigns!)
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To: MadCharity
Holy smokes!!! Someone put a lot of thought into this!


59 posted on 01/18/2006 9:53:03 AM PST by Millee (Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.)
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To: Notwithstanding

I don't know. I've been pressured into it a few times. I think the broads mighta used alcohol as an inducement.


60 posted on 01/18/2006 9:53:49 AM PST by Emmett McCarthy
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