Posted on 01/18/2006 8:45:41 AM PST by Millee
Three quarters of people think it is fine to sleep with someone on a first date, according to a new survey. Really? We conducted our own study ... Jodie Marsh Celebrity Big Brother contestant
I always used to think it was bad to have sex on the first date because lots of men are still in that old-fashioned frame of mind where they think that if you're too easy, you must be a slag, and therefore they will have no respect for you and won't want to see you again. But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other. I generally think it's better in the long term to wait a while, though. On the flipside, if a man is obviously trying to get in my knickers as soon as possible, and doesn't care about what I'm like as a person, then I'm not going to want to have anything to do with him. Clearly, they're just after a shag.
Denis Rodman is trying to sleep with everyone in the Big Brother house. On that basis, I wouldn't sleep with him if he was the last man on earth. Whereas if he only liked me, and waited to get to know me, then perhaps I would give him the time of day.
James Brown former editor of Loaded magazine
I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt.
(Excerpt) Read more at lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk ...
ping..
Loaded question here...:)
She: "No."
He: "What about the last date?" : )
Need some dates first before I can respond.
I guess if the date goes well and you elope...
Clearly she charges ;)
Depends how Loaded you are, and how Loaded she is.
Since so many people *Hook Up* so to speak via the Internet I think after 8 months, whatever the length of Internet dating is many will have sex upon meeting, since they have been dating via cyberspace, at least from what I hear from people doing this.
I think when you met someone the Old Fashioned way is person for the first time, you waited for a time that you got to know each other..
If both met and were sauced anything is possible! LOL...
That's what I was thinking
If your hooking..wouldn't you?
I mean time is money
No.
No.
Next question.
Dawn Porter writer and comedian First date sex isn't wrong, just make sure you limit your alcohol consumption so your performance is as good as it should be. If it isn't, then it won't be "first-date sex"; it will be a dismal one-night stand which will haunt you forever. Believe me, pulling away half way through to tend to a blackout isn't a good look. So by all means sleep with someone, just make sure you do it well.
Women who have sex on the first date are acting like tramps.
And men who do this are selfish pigs.
I think you summed it up nicely.:)
And neither of you know if you'll get a "gift that keeps on giving"...perhaps even the lethal variety.
If the author knew what she was talking about, and had experience in this, why isn't the author happily married to that person to whom they were "into?"
Oh wait.... just filling up a column. :)
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