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Is it OK to have sex on a first date?
The Guardian (UK) ^
| 1/17/06
| Staff
Posted on 01/18/2006 8:45:41 AM PST by Millee
Three quarters of people think it is fine to sleep with someone on a first date, according to a new survey. Really? We conducted our own study ... Jodie Marsh Celebrity Big Brother contestant
I always used to think it was bad to have sex on the first date because lots of men are still in that old-fashioned frame of mind where they think that if you're too easy, you must be a slag, and therefore they will have no respect for you and won't want to see you again. But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other. I generally think it's better in the long term to wait a while, though. On the flipside, if a man is obviously trying to get in my knickers as soon as possible, and doesn't care about what I'm like as a person, then I'm not going to want to have anything to do with him. Clearly, they're just after a shag.
Denis Rodman is trying to sleep with everyone in the Big Brother house. On that basis, I wouldn't sleep with him if he was the last man on earth. Whereas if he only liked me, and waited to get to know me, then perhaps I would give him the time of day.
James Brown former editor of Loaded magazine
I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt.
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TOPICS: Chit/Chat
KEYWORDS: skanksandhoes; slutsandnuts
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To: Millee
First date?
Haven't had one of those in a while. Can't comment...
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:07:25 AM PST
by
RockinRight
("It's as if all the brain-damaged people in America got together and formed a voting bloc" - Coulter)
To: PaulaB
How about this statement:
I would never date someone until I had had sex with them. You might be wasting time hanging around with someone who's rubbish in bed.
How would that conversation go??
"Yes, I'd love to have coffee with you, but would you mind if we $#&^ first? I'd like to see if you're worth the caffeine buzz."
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:08:26 AM PST
by
Millee
(Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.)
To: laney
Since so many people *Hook Up* so to speak via the Internet I think after 8 months, whatever the length of Internet dating is many will have sex upon meeting, since they have been dating via cyberspace, at least from what I hear from people doing this. Are you speaking from experience, Laney? ;-)
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:08:28 AM PST
by
RockinRight
("It's as if all the brain-damaged people in America got together and formed a voting bloc" - Coulter)
To: PaulaB
get a receipt means she's selling it?
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:09:02 AM PST
by
peacebaby
(Good morning heartache, if you're gonna stay, you gotta get a job, I've got bills to pay.)
To: Millee
I can think of some reasons to have sex on the first date. Her insipid, "it feels like love at first sight" is emphatically NOT one of them.
To: Fierce Allegiance
Depends how Loaded you are, and how Loaded she is.
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:09:34 AM PST
by
Mike Bates
(Irish Alzheimer's victim: I only remember the grudges.)
To: Millee
Not a good idea. Especially if you hope to have a second date.
More than likely it would make whatever relationship that develops, mostly about sex. Though, I suppose there have been some instances where it lasts.
To: Millee; motormouth
This is gonna be a fun thread...
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:09:43 AM PST
by
RockinRight
("It's as if all the brain-damaged people in America got together and formed a voting bloc" - Coulter)
To: Maximus of Texas
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:09:52 AM PST
by
peacebaby
(Good morning heartache, if you're gonna stay, you gotta get a job, I've got bills to pay.)
To: Millee
dinner, then go separate ways at the end of the night. Makes things much more interesting on the second or third - or fourth date.
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:14:42 AM PST
by
peacebaby
(Good morning heartache, if you're gonna stay, you gotta get a job, I've got bills to pay.)
To: Millee
NO...
1st date = 1st base
2nd date = 2nd base
3rd date = 3rd base
4 date = you know where this is going....
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:15:04 AM PST
by
MadCharity
(Chloe: "Relax he's really good at this")
To: RockinRight
LOL..No I never Internet dated...
Met my last hubby via the telephone and after 6 months he flew me to Texas...rest is history..
However I do have a g/f who only dates this way so she gives me the low down on how all this works...
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:17:56 AM PST
by
laney
(Happy 2006!)
To: MadCharity
I never knew what the bases were (still not real clear). I think I could have been easily duped by that system. ;o)
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:18:38 AM PST
by
Millee
(Those who live by the sword get shot by those who don't.)
To: Notwithstanding
Oink, oink oink went the piggie, yes, yes yes said the tramp. Since they both agreed to the quickie, it's evident they're in the same camp.
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:22:42 AM PST
by
eastforker
(Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
To: eastforker
Third line; Will you have my little piggie, only if SAM gives me the stamps.
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:25:51 AM PST
by
eastforker
(Under Cover FReeper going dark(too much 24))
To: Millee
Does it have to be a
real date?
What if it is "just lunch"? ;)
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:25:54 AM PST
by
freedomlover
(The only reason you are still conscious is because I don't want to carry you. - Jack)
To: peacebaby
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:27:24 AM PST
by
PaulaB
To: Millee
When I was young, I bought my women shorty nightgowns.
Now that I am 67, I buy them nightgowns with skirts 4 yards long.
Pulling it up is the most fun.
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:29:49 AM PST
by
HuntsvilleTxVeteran
(“Don't approach a Bull from the front, a Horse from the back, or a Fool from any side.”)
To: peacebaby
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:29:57 AM PST
by
Maximus of Texas
(On my signal, unleash some real Cowboys to kick some Brokeback Mountain butt!)
To: MadCharity
To the bathroom with a copy of Glamour?
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posted on
01/18/2006 9:30:36 AM PST
by
Maximus of Texas
(On my signal, unleash some real Cowboys to kick some Brokeback Mountain butt!)
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