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I’m gay, I support gay marriage, and I don’t think the ‘gay rights’ side should win in this Supreme Court case: That’s what living in a pluralist and free society requires.
Based Politics ^ | 12/05/2022 | Brad Polumbo

Posted on 12/05/2022 9:03:24 PM PST by SeekAndFind

I’m unabashedly gay, and I certainly support gay marriage. But I nonetheless side with the Christian wedding designer who’s before the Supreme Court right now because she refuses to design a same-sex wedding website.

I’m going to explain why, but first, here are the facts.

What’s This Case All About?

On Monday, the Supreme Court heard oral arguments in a case called 303 Creative LLC v Elenis. The case centers around Lorie Smith, a Christian who owns a website design business. She wants to expand her business and start designing custom wedding websites, but due to her religious beliefs, is unwilling to create them for same-sex weddings, as she would be forced to do under current Colorado civil rights law. Smith is challenging the Colorado statute on First Amendment grounds, arguing that she has a free speech right (note: the case is not about religious liberty) not to be forced to create messages she disagrees with.

No, she’s not suing because she wants to put a “no-gays allowed” sign in her window. In fact, she has served many LGBTQ clients and offers her general services to all. Smith is simply unwilling to create a custom wedding website, which inherently endorses said wedding, for a ceremony she does not agree with. She says she would seek to make the same refusal to other custom websites that violate her beliefs, including those which denigrate gay people or feature a heterosexual couple in violation of other tenets of her Christian faith.

The state of Colorado, on the other hand, argues that her religion does not grant her an exemption to a neutral civil rights law. The government argues that if Smith is going to offer wedding websites, she must offer them to all.

An Important Distinction

A key question, in this case, is whether Smith’s really seeking to categorically deny service or refuse a specific message.

For example, both parties agree that beliefs, religious or not, do not allow a restaurant to refuse its general services to people on the basis of protected characteristics, such as sexual orientation. A pizza chain can’t put up a “straights only” sign under current Civil Rights law, and no one is arguing that the First Amendment entitles them to do so. However, on the other hand, almost everyone agrees that, both legally and prudentially, a newspaper can’t be forced to publish an article it disagrees with and that a church can’t be forced to perform a marriage against its faith. But what about everything in between these two extremes?

It’s that muddy gray area that’s at play in this case and others like it. Is Smith seeking to deny service on the basis of who a customer is? Or is she simply seeking to exercise her free speech rights on specific services that, regardless of who requests them, violate her beliefs?

Who Should Win?

The media has portrayed the Colorado government’s side as the “gay rights” position, while casting Smith’s side as the “religious liberty” side. Yet I am gay, and I am not religious, and I still think Smith should win this case.

It’s not because I sympathize with her position. I think it’s wrong and outdated, in fact. But it’s because I want to live in a society where all people have the right to freedom of conscience. In particular, I want that right for LGBT people, too.

Imagine this alternative scenario: A gay man owns a website design business and a Christian group wants to hire him to create a website featuring anti-gay bible verses and preaching against homosexuality. If he refuses, under current Colorado law — which also has religion as a protected class — he would be just as guilty as Smith would be. But if the Supreme Court carves out an exception for free speech, both can live by their consciences.

And no, a ruling for Smith doesn’t negate all anti-discrimination laws. Even Smith’s side in this case acknowledges that all services which don’t involve speech—think catering or rental housing, for example—should still be bound by normal anti-discrimination laws. They simply want a narrow carve out for conscience rights in speech-based services.

I want that for myself and all LGBT people. So, I have to support it for those on the other side of these issues. That’s what living in a pluralist and free society requires.


TOPICS: Government; Politics; Religion; Society
KEYWORDS: bradpolumbo; gaymarriage; homosexualagenda; lgbt; liberty; samesexmirage; scotus; usebetterkeywords
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1 posted on 12/05/2022 9:03:24 PM PST by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind
The question is "Do you have to take every job that is offered to you?"

The answer is no.

Nothing to do with speech.

Nothing to do with religion.

Everything to do with not being a slave.

Because that is the only difference between a slave and a free man.

The right to say, "No" or "Yes" as they wish.

And the people who want to whine about "if they are PAYING you it is not slavery" you are wrong.

Deal with it.

Everything is not about just getting paid.

2 posted on 12/05/2022 9:10:29 PM PST by Harmless Teddy Bear (The nation of france was named after a hedgehog... The hedgehog's name was Kevin... Don't ask)
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To: SeekAndFind

Unfortunately, the left is all about quashing the Constitution. Fortunately, Trump appointed some decent judges to stand in their way.


3 posted on 12/05/2022 9:10:53 PM PST by Blood of Tyrants (Inside every leftist is a blood-thirsty fascist yearning to be free of current societal constraints.)
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The tax code has much to say about marriage and children.

The Elite class and its spawn require an ongoing servile citizenry

The vast majority don’t care to object to contractual matters between same-sex couples.


4 posted on 12/05/2022 9:16:21 PM PST by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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5 posted on 12/05/2022 9:33:01 PM PST by Olog-hai ("No Republican, no matter how liberal, is going to woo a Democratic vote." -- Ronald Reagan, 1960)
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To: Gene Eric

Then the “vast majority” are going to have to worry less about a left-wing federal government’s wrath and more about God’s wrath.


6 posted on 12/05/2022 9:34:04 PM PST by Olog-hai ("No Republican, no matter how liberal, is going to woo a Democratic vote." -- Ronald Reagan, 1960)
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To: Olog-hai

Is that to say God expects us to legislate behavior? And via a tax code?


7 posted on 12/05/2022 9:40:20 PM PST by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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To: Olog-hai

Yep.

Like the “Global Warming” crowd, their priorities are all wrong.


8 posted on 12/05/2022 9:44:03 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: SeekAndFind

Excellent article.


9 posted on 12/05/2022 9:44:53 PM PST by leaning conservative (snow coming, school cancelled, yayyyyyyyyy!!!!!!)
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To: Gene Eric

Possibly incorrect conclusion—but this behavior was indeed legislated in the past, and that legislative sanction was removed by judicial fiat.

Remember that John Adams said “Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people; it is wholly inadequate to the government of any other”? If the majority is okay with immorality, then God will indeed punish; don’t expect Him not to.


10 posted on 12/05/2022 9:48:27 PM PST by Olog-hai ("No Republican, no matter how liberal, is going to woo a Democratic vote." -- Ronald Reagan, 1960)
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To: Olog-hai
Luke 17:32 Remember Lot's wife.


11 posted on 12/05/2022 9:54:53 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: SeekAndFind

“A gay man owns a website design business and a Christian group wants to hire him to create a website featuring anti-gay bible verses and preaching against homosexuality. If he refuses, under current Colorado law — which also has religion as a protected class — he would be just as guilty as Smith would be.”

One would think so in a non-hypocritical world. But in the real world, the gay website owner would suffer no consequences whatsoever.


12 posted on 12/05/2022 10:13:02 PM PST by ModelBreaker
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To: SeekAndFind

Don’t worry Brad, it looks as though the SC is coming down on the side of the Religious argument.


13 posted on 12/05/2022 10:18:04 PM PST by Maris Crane ( )
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To: SeekAndFind

Let me summarize this article, “I’m insane, and I support others being insane, but I think that insane people should learn to tolerate sane people as well”.


14 posted on 12/05/2022 10:27:55 PM PST by SecondAmendment (This just proves my latest theory ... LEFTISTS RUIN EVERYTHING !!!)
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To: SeekAndFind

Realistically, for every baker, caterer, photographer, florist, limo driver etc that have deeply held moral and religious objections to same sax marriages there’s dozens of others willing to fill that niche. LGBT/whatevers and their allies, don’t get mad, get even! They pride themselves on their talents and creativity. Why can’t they they start their own gay friendly businesses?


15 posted on 12/05/2022 10:50:48 PM PST by Impala64ssa (If a liar's pants really did catch on fire CBC, ABC, CNN and MSNBC would be more fun to watch)
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To: SaveFerris
Like the “Global Warming” crowd, their priorities are all wrong.

And ALWAYS wrong. ALWAYS.

16 posted on 12/05/2022 11:16:19 PM PST by Mark17 (Retired USAF air traffic controller. Father of USAF pilot. USAF aviation runs in the family )
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To: Mark17

They have to invent their own “religion” ...


17 posted on 12/05/2022 11:33:20 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: SaveFerris
They have to invent their own “religion” ...

They are jerks.

18 posted on 12/06/2022 12:27:00 AM PST by Mark17 (Retired USAF air traffic controller. Father of USAF pilot. USAF aviation runs in the family )
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To: SeekAndFind; All

The Federalist just did an article about a pro-life organization which has reserved a banquet room at a local VA restaurant only to have their reservation cancelled less than two hours before their event because the staff refused to serve them on the grounds that the group is a threat to women and the LGBTQ community - a response which is total bullsh¡t.

This bisexual Atheist will side with Judeo-Christian beliefs basically every time, and particularly when it comes to the First Amendment. You’ll never find me at a pride parade or supporting abortion, let alone demanding that all public spaces be mandated secular. Nope. I grew up Catholic, and aside from the belief in God and Christ, a lot of that stuff stuck with me. I also spent a lot of time around very sick people, and I’ve seen a lot of the good that religion can bring.


19 posted on 12/06/2022 1:45:35 AM PST by Tacrolimus1mg (Do no harm, but take no sh!t.)
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Richmond Restaurant Denies Pro-Life, Pro-Family Group Dinner Service Over Christian Values
20 posted on 12/06/2022 1:45:51 AM PST by Tacrolimus1mg (Do no harm, but take no sh!t.)
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