Posted on 04/10/2019 10:18:45 AM PDT by C19fan
Dear How to Do It,
I am a single woman in her early 30s. I’m attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, I’m just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.
(Excerpt) Read more at slate.com ...
So she wants to ignore both biological and social norms and...
1. Have “responsibility free” sex with zero intention of procreating and
2. Have sex without developing feelings for the person, regardless of how the partner feels.
Wow.
This is a scary level of selfish and evil.
How would we judge this if it were written by a man?
The fact that a sizable portion of the population seems to be okay with this is just horrible.
Get a sex robot!
And then she said; “Play Misty for Me!”
Stay away from American women.
I’m so tired of women treating me like a sex object.
I would think a certificate of no STDs from her would be required here.
I don’t think she’s THAT OLD!...................
I don’t think she’s THAT OLD!...................
I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find [tr] Lazamataz?
Move to San Diego and work the fleet, honey.
“I end up getting entangled with him”
You just explained why you can’t do it.
Obviously, she is not “attractive,” or she would be attracting someone. It has very little to do with makeup and whatever fake personality is hyped by the media in this messed-up present age. I feel sorry for decent young people today.
ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think this thread was intended to go in another direction than we took it.
That was a mistake :)
Tiffany!
“I like the letter saying, “I am a woman. How do I tell my partner I like to have anal sex.””
Here is an actual letter from Slate.
“I am a person with a vagina, but I have never enjoyed vaginal penetration. But I do enjoy anal sex. How do I broach this with a potential sex partner without it being weird?”
Have you ever heard a real woman call herself a “person with a vagina”? Or write a letter like this?
These letters are all fake.
Where are you meeting men? At a Bar?
At a Dating Service?
Online?
At the Office?
None of these is good
What are your hobbies?
Dogs - then go to Dog Parks, Dog Shows
Bowling - then Bowling Tournaments
Politics - then Rallies
Don't have a hobby men would meet at? Get One
You get the idea - meet men who match your hobbies and goals
Remember this Jingle to STAY OUT OF Poverty (97%) and Trouble (STDs, Murder):
First comes Love (holding hands, few kisses)
Then comes Marriage (with Parental Blessings)
Then comes the Baby and the Baby Carriage (sex)
Violate this and you have a 3% chance at success.
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