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I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find [tr]
Slate ^ | April 9, 2019 | Stoya

Posted on 04/10/2019 10:18:45 AM PDT by C19fan

Dear How to Do It,

I am a single woman in her early 30s. I’m attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, I’m just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.

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TOPICS: Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: pua; redpill; sex; slutwalk
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To: C19fan

So she wants to ignore both biological and social norms and...

1. Have “responsibility free” sex with zero intention of procreating and

2. Have sex without developing feelings for the person, regardless of how the partner feels.

Wow.

This is a scary level of selfish and evil.

How would we judge this if it were written by a man?

The fact that a sizable portion of the population seems to be okay with this is just horrible.


41 posted on 04/10/2019 10:34:29 AM PDT by Crusher138 ("Then conquer we must, for our cause it is just")
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To: C19fan

Get a sex robot!


42 posted on 04/10/2019 10:35:29 AM PDT by I want the USA back (Lying Media: willing and eager allies of the hate-America left.)
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To: Red Badger

And then she said; “Play Misty for Me!”


43 posted on 04/10/2019 10:36:08 AM PDT by lee martell
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To: C19fan

Stay away from American women.


44 posted on 04/10/2019 10:36:40 AM PDT by kaehurowing
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To: dp0622
"I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find it?"


45 posted on 04/10/2019 10:37:24 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneo)
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To: C19fan

I’m so tired of women treating me like a sex object.


46 posted on 04/10/2019 10:37:27 AM PDT by Leep (It's.. (W)all or nothing..!)
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To: C19fan

I would think a certificate of no STDs from her would be required here.


47 posted on 04/10/2019 10:37:29 AM PDT by dynachrome (Build the wall, deport them all.)
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To: lee martell

I don’t think she’s THAT OLD!...................


48 posted on 04/10/2019 10:37:54 AM PDT by Red Badger (We are headed for a Civil War. It won't be nice like the last one....................)
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To: lee martell

I don’t think she’s THAT OLD!...................


49 posted on 04/10/2019 10:37:55 AM PDT by Red Badger (We are headed for a Civil War. It won't be nice like the last one....................)
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To: Red Badger

50 posted on 04/10/2019 10:38:22 AM PDT by IWontSubmit (2)
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To: C19fan
Old story
51 posted on 04/10/2019 10:38:30 AM PDT by Regulator
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To: C19fan; Lazamataz
Let me finish the headline:

I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find [tr] Lazamataz?

52 posted on 04/10/2019 10:38:47 AM PDT by Yo-Yo ( is the /sarc tag really necessary?)
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To: C19fan

Move to San Diego and work the fleet, honey.


53 posted on 04/10/2019 10:38:59 AM PDT by dainbramaged (If you want a friend, rescue a pit bull.)
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To: C19fan

“I end up getting entangled with him”

You just explained why you can’t do it.


54 posted on 04/10/2019 10:39:06 AM PDT by AppyPappy (How many fingers am I holding up, Winston?)
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To: Crusher138

Obviously, she is not “attractive,” or she would be attracting someone. It has very little to do with makeup and whatever fake personality is hyped by the media in this messed-up present age. I feel sorry for decent young people today.


55 posted on 04/10/2019 10:39:25 AM PDT by txrefugee
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To: Bonemaker

ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think this thread was intended to go in another direction than we took it.

That was a mistake :)


56 posted on 04/10/2019 10:39:47 AM PDT by dp0622 (The Left should know if.. Trump is kicked out of office, it is WAR)
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To: Red Badger

Tiffany!


57 posted on 04/10/2019 10:40:16 AM PDT by treetopsandroofs
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To: treetopsandroofs

58 posted on 04/10/2019 10:44:18 AM PDT by Red Badger (We are headed for a Civil War. It won't be nice like the last one....................)
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To: Vermont Lt

“I like the letter saying, “I am a woman. How do I tell my partner I like to have anal sex.””

Here is an actual letter from Slate.

“I am a person with a vagina, but I have never enjoyed vaginal penetration. But I do enjoy anal sex. How do I broach this with a potential sex partner without it being weird?”

Have you ever heard a real woman call herself a “person with a vagina”? Or write a letter like this?

These letters are all fake.


59 posted on 04/10/2019 10:46:00 AM PDT by detective
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To: C19fan
But after a series of disappointing relationships

Where are you meeting men? At a Bar?

At a Dating Service?
Online?
At the Office?

None of these is good

What are your hobbies?

Dogs - then go to Dog Parks, Dog Shows
Bowling - then Bowling Tournaments
Politics - then Rallies

Don't have a hobby men would meet at? Get One

You get the idea - meet men who match your hobbies and goals

Remember this Jingle to STAY OUT OF Poverty (97%) and Trouble (STDs, Murder):

First comes Love (holding hands, few kisses)
Then comes Marriage (with Parental Blessings)
Then comes the Baby and the Baby Carriage (sex)

Violate this and you have a 3% chance at success.

60 posted on 04/10/2019 10:46:48 AM PDT by CptnObvious (Question her now.)
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