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Slate ^ | April 9, 2019 | Stoya

[C19fan]

Dear How to Do It,

I am a single woman in her early 30s. I’m attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, I’m just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.

[C19fan]

Perhaps the "no creeps" do not want to sleep with a slut.

[C19fan]

Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right?

Presuming a lot there.

[dp0622]

I DO!!!!!!!!!!

OOH OOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HERE HERE, ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’LL BRING THE CHAMPAGNE AND SOY SAUCE!!!

[thoughtomator]

Your body is telling you it’s desperate to bear a child, lady. There’s only one way to fix that, and it’s not casual hookup sex.

[Red Badger]

She’s never heard of Tindr?...................

[teeman8r]

if you are a woman, you attach the strings...

men are easy.

easy women ensnare...

there are always strings.

[Responsibility2nd]

Ping.

Pingity, ping, ping, ping.

[treetopsandroofs]

She signed it Tinder’s No Grindr, so she’d heard of it. I read the post, and she’s basically complaining that free love is complicated by true feelings — hers — and wants validation for her life styie.

[NorthMountain]

But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year

The common factor in all your disappointing relationships, lady, is YOU.

The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try.

Pathetic wanker ...

In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better

Because you simply CANNOT have sexual intercourse without consequences. It just doesn't exist.

Quit being a slut. Behave honorably, and you might have a better chance finding an honorable man. If you haven't already turned yourself into an emotional wreck with too much baggage.

[treetopsandroofs]

style

[MeganC]

“Your body is telling you it’s desperate to bear a child, lady. There’s only one way to fix that, and it’s not casual hookup sex.”

Nailed it.

[MplsSteve]

“Ping. Pingity, ping, ping, ping.”

LOL - You got there ahead of me!

[samtheman]

Your body is telling you it’s desperate to bear a child, lady. There’s only one way to fix that, and it’s not casual hookup sex.
—
That was my thought when I read this poor pathetic gasp for life.

[morphing libertarian]

not in the mood to engage you either.

[chris37]

Please keep your misused reproductive organ to yourself, selfish woman.

[tunedin]

Guessing you didn’t open the link?

[READINABLUESTATE]

This is from yesterday.....too late.

[gaijin]

Here's how it goes:

"I love that you're a Navy pilot..! So tall and heroic, and your uniform --wow..!"

Six months later:

"I need you to quit the Navy. And I need you to take out the garbage."

Actually, it could be a million things. But something MAJOR about you is something she believes she needs to prune away until you're "right".

The funny thing is, sometimes the thing that attracted her to you in the first place is the very thing she wants to go away.

THAT part I don't get at all.

[Ouderkirk]

Wonder how many ABORTIONS she’s had ???

[Red Badger]

She wants to have it ‘both ways’, sex and romance but no commitments.......................