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I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find [tr]
Slate ^ | April 9, 2019 | Stoya

Posted on 04/10/2019 10:18:45 AM PDT by C19fan

Dear How to Do It,

I am a single woman in her early 30s. I’m attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, I’m just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.

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To: HamiltonJay

What she will find is sociopaths, and a subset of those are violent psychopaths.

The only way to win that game is not to play.


141 posted on 04/10/2019 1:33:13 PM PDT by cgbg (Democracy dies in darkness when Bezos bans books.)
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To: grey_whiskers; Tax-chick; Scotswife

Ten kids!! Rock on Tax-Chick!!!


142 posted on 04/10/2019 1:48:04 PM PDT by MeganC (There is nothing feminine about feminism.)
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To: Bulwyf

ROFLMAO!!!!


143 posted on 04/10/2019 1:48:19 PM PDT by dp0622 (The Left should know if.. Trump is kicked out of office, it is WAR)
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To: All

She wants, this, that AND the other.

Who wouldn’t?


144 posted on 04/10/2019 1:49:05 PM PDT by John Milner (Marching for Peace is like breathing for food.)
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To: Yaelle; dp0622

Lol, Don’t judge.....

Some may prefer pop rocks, and/or crunchy peanut butter.

Doesn’t have to be anything other than personal preference.


145 posted on 04/10/2019 1:50:39 PM PDT by Oil Object Insp
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To: Oil Object Insp

My sex life has been so vanilla all these years!!!

Maybe a girl here and there that was into wearing handcuffs.

And another girl so sick that I just had to leave.

Met her at a bar and we went to her house and while we were kissing she asked me to hit her and slap her.

The only thing I hit was the door on the way out.

To each his/her own.

I’m SURE she found many takers before and after that.

This whole thread is getting WAY out of control :)


146 posted on 04/10/2019 1:54:03 PM PDT by dp0622 (The Left should know if.. Trump is kicked out of office, it is WAR)
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To: C19fan
This Stoya?????

She’d fun for a week or two..but don’t google her sans filters on.<>39-EE1860-536-D-4-CE8-B906-CF642-D7-E10-A5

147 posted on 04/10/2019 1:55:08 PM PDT by wardaddy (When only the best Santa will do...call Joe Biden)
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To: Red Badger

Tinder is for girls to solicit men

It is not the hook up folks here think it is

It’s difficult

Most kids use it

Girls rule it


148 posted on 04/10/2019 1:56:22 PM PDT by wardaddy (When only the best Santa will do...call Joe Biden)
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To: Yaelle; dp0622
Soy sauce???

If it isn't low sodium, fuhgeddaboudit!

-PJ

149 posted on 04/10/2019 1:59:46 PM PDT by Political Junkie Too (The 1st Amendment gives the People the right to a free press, not CNN the right to the 1st question.)
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To: thoughtomator

No kidding

Horniest girls get is when they want a baby..

Also when they are most likely to cheat if dissatisfied with their mate

They are also super amorous when they want you to be theirs

All in all I still miss quaaludes

All joking aside

Women have been totally and unequivocally screwed over by feminism and they are left empowered and miserable

And men left hapless


150 posted on 04/10/2019 2:00:00 PM PDT by wardaddy (When only the best Santa will do...call Joe Biden)
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To: detective

I have known personally women in Latin America from important families whose virginity was paramount and they were open to anal and oral

Brahamin Indian girls same thing

I know ....sounds strange

Technically a vaginal virgin but swallows and has had anal sex scores of times

Is cognitive dissonance accurate description of that mindset?

Imagine confessing that to your husband one day.......I think not.


151 posted on 04/10/2019 2:04:14 PM PDT by wardaddy (When only the best Santa will do...call Joe Biden)
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To: Yaelle

Yeah, I kinda wondering about that too.
Hey! Mr. Wizard, what with the soy sauce???


152 posted on 04/10/2019 2:22:09 PM PDT by Keyhopper (Indians had bad immigration laws)
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To: mumblypeg

Don’t forget ....... Semen demon


153 posted on 04/10/2019 2:27:20 PM PDT by Keyhopper (Indians had bad immigration laws)
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To: C19fan
I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find

Here's where to go. Added bonus, you'll get a little beer money out of it too.


154 posted on 04/10/2019 2:33:51 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie (Often wrong, but never in doubt!)
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To: C19fan
...."I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find it?"......

Demand for male escorts (with perks) is on the rise....get out your wallet and pay for it!

155 posted on 04/10/2019 2:40:57 PM PDT by caww
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To: treetopsandroofs

.....”she’s basically complaining that free love is complicated by true feelings — hers.”......

Yes indeed....she hasn’t a clue how women are designed.

Further she’s full of what she wants and only that.....countless articles on women falling for the escorts they hire. She wants a free pass she’ll never find.


156 posted on 04/10/2019 2:46:08 PM PDT by caww
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To: McGruff

Obviously her sex drive isn’t her problem!


157 posted on 04/10/2019 2:47:34 PM PDT by caww
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To: gaijin

“The funny thing is, sometimes the thing that attracted her to you in the first place is the very thing she wants to go away.”

Perhaps she is afraid it will attract other, more appealing women to you as well.


158 posted on 04/10/2019 2:47:36 PM PDT by Boogieman
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To: wardaddy
I have known personally women in Latin America from important families whose virginity was paramount and they were open to anal and oral

I think Garfield and Oates have a song about something very similar.

159 posted on 04/10/2019 3:04:20 PM PDT by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change with out notice.)
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To: C19fan

Two suggestions:
1) Laz
2) Real Doll


160 posted on 04/10/2019 3:21:52 PM PDT by PIF (They came for me and mine ... now it is your turn ...)
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