Posted on 04/10/2019 10:18:45 AM PDT by C19fan
Dear How to Do It,
I am a single woman in her early 30s. Im attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, Im just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I cant fully satisfy myself on my ownthough believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when Ive had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sexwe inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.
(Excerpt) Read more at slate.com ...
Any woman can get all the sex she wants. Go to any bar on a Friday night. Dress exposing breasts and legs, and sit alone at the bar. She’ll need a flyswatter to flick off the ones she doesn’t find attractive.
There is a way for her to do that, and she can make some money at it too.
Oh my!
That’s against my religion.................
“Im an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex.”
Well that makes 3 or 4 of you.
EEEeewwww ...
I opened the link. I read some of the other letters.
What a bunch of sickos!
If you are having great sex its because you have an emotional attachment.
Its difficult to achieve that with a one night stand or F buddy.
She should know that.
Dear Penthouse Forum:
I answered an ad online for casual sex...............................................................................................................................................The Doctor says I have a 50% chance my penis won’t fall off.
Sincerely,
Dick
This is a fake letter to attract readers to a slate.
Women like that do not exist in the real world.
There are plenty of real women who want to have sex.
There are no real women who write to Slate about being attractive and being unable to find “no-strings-attached sex.”
Perhaps, just perhaps, she is the creep? Just an idea worth considering...
Dunno.
She don't say.
Odds aren't good ...
btt
Women use love to find sex, men use sex to find love....
If you are looking for sex with no emotional involvement, the only way you are going to get that, are one night stands.
Even if both people know what the situation is and agree to it going in, you will get some level of emotional involvement, there is no way around it, unless both people are complete sociopaths. That doesn’t mean you will fall in love, but you can’t have that sort of thing without SOME level of emotional attachment occurring, for any length of time.
Even in a situation where both partners are having their emotional needs met elsewhere, and are just looking for physical needs taken care of... you will still get some level of emotional attachment.
People need to keep their personal lives to THEMSELVES and NOT presume that others care
To the writer...Hitlery...is that you???
America needs some good old fashioned (reasonable priced) Yentas to help bring people together. Most just require the correct Icebreaker.
“Matchmaker, Matchmaker, make me a match.
Find me a find.
Catch me a catch!”
I like the letter saying, I am a woman. How do I tell my partner I like to have anal sex.
Lady, that is a statement you will only have to ask once. Either they guy does or he doesnt. It will never be a second conversation. I guarantee that.
What a silly column.
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