Women use love to find sex, men use sex to find love....
If you are looking for sex with no emotional involvement, the only way you are going to get that, are one night stands.
Even if both people know what the situation is and agree to it going in, you will get some level of emotional involvement, there is no way around it, unless both people are complete sociopaths. That doesn’t mean you will fall in love, but you can’t have that sort of thing without SOME level of emotional attachment occurring, for any length of time.
Even in a situation where both partners are having their emotional needs met elsewhere, and are just looking for physical needs taken care of... you will still get some level of emotional attachment.
What she will find is sociopaths, and a subset of those are violent psychopaths.
The only way to win that game is not to play.