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A VERY DIFFERENT KIND OF SUMMER
Self | June 12, 2002 | ohioWfan

Posted on 06/12/2002 7:32:27 AM PDT by ohioWfan

A VERY DIFFERENT KIND OF SUMMER

I want you to meet my son, Eric. He was born in 1984, the third of our four children, and on Sunday he graduated from High School in the class of 2002 as part of the so-called ‘Millennium Generation.’ President Bush has told members of the class of 2002 that they are graduating into a very different world than previous classes have done. He is right.

Eric has always been called what child experts label a ‘compliant’ child. As a small boy, he was so sensitive to wrongdoing, that he would cry when we raised our voices at him. He never needed punishment. Eric is still acutely aware of his own sinful nature, even though outwardly he never does anything very wrong. At the same time, he is very sensitive to the pain of others, and has cried because friends of his were in rebellion against God, and hurting themselves and others as a result.

Eric loves to make people happy. From the time he was a baby, we called him our ‘laughing boy’ because he smiled or laughed all the time. He still does. He loves to make others laugh too, and is gifted at imitating voices…….he can do a perfect Yoda or any number of other Star Wars characters, and can recite the entire script of Monty Python and the Holy Grail in flawless dialect, or quote lines from Braveheart and any number of other movies with perfection. He is a charming young man, who makes people happy just to be around him.

At the same time, Eric has always been a warrior. At 18 months he was seen wielding a piece of orange and yellow Hotwheels track, keeping his older brother and sister hostage in the bathroom, and delighting at their yells for help. He once chased the neighborhood kids around with a saw because he felt he had been fouled one too many times in a pick-up basketball game. He was 6 years old. He has been an avid Civil War collector since he was 8 or 9, but the only things he ever really wanted were the guns and the swords. He ran an entire Cross Country race on a stress fracture in his foot because he refused to quit ‘pressing on toward the goal.’

He is quiet, yet bold; so bold in his faith that he told his classmates Sunday in his Valedictory speech that the only way they could have a truly successful future was through faith in his Savior, Jesus Christ. His greatest desire in life is to serve that Savior and live a Christ-like life, and to serve others. He is handsome, mature, stable, interested in history and politics, fiercely competitive, wanting to be the best he can be at everything he pursues, a talented athlete and musician, and well liked by his peers…… and pretty much everyone who has ever met him. He is our son, and we are proud of him.

But today, our pride is mingled with tears, because last night he left for Army Basic training in Ft. Knox, Kentucky. In the Spring of 2001 when he was a junior, an Army Recruiter came to his school looking for potential recruits. Eric took note, but wasn’t really interested. Then in August, he got a call from the Recruiter, and felt as though he should pursue it. He and his Dad met with the Recruiter, we all prayed about it, and knew that God was leading him to join the Army Reserves.

It was a great deal. The men at the recruiting station did not try to hide their pleasure at the new Commander in Chief. The Army would help pay for college, train him in a different field while he attended college, so he would end up doubly ready for a career. He only had to put in a weekend a month, and two weeks in the summer, and would be paid for it to boot, and the only way his unit would ever be mobilized beyond the United States, would be ‘World War III’.......A great deal.

Then came September 11, and the world as we knew it came crashing down. I waited for a day after the attack, so he could start to absorb what it meant for him, and asked Eric how he was doing about the Army thing. He said ‘OK.’ And then said he now knew he had signed up for the right reasons…….not just for the college money, but because he wanted to serve his country, and now he knew they needed him.

Today he is beginning preparation for whatever his country, and his Commander in Chief, want him to do, along with thousands of others of young men and women who have made the same choice. A number of his friends have joined different branches of the service. Some young men and women have postponed college plans to serve actively, while others, like Eric, will be able to go later next year, and serve in a reserve capacity.

Last summer, Eric worked at a blueberry farm, cleaning barns and warehouses, played tennis and goofed around with his friends. This summer will be very different. Even though boot camp is not what it used to be, it is still tough, and Eric will need to pull up all the toughness he has inside to make it through. We are sure that he can do it, and he just might even like it, because he likes to be pushed and tested, and he does have that warrior inside of him. But there is also in him that little boy who cried when he was yelled at, and wants to make everyone happy. That part of himself will have to be buried deep inside for the next 9 weeks.

The reason I decided to write this, is that many of us never put a face on ‘our troops’……..even when we pray for them...... and perhaps my telling you about Eric can help you see one of those faces. Eric is not overseas……yet........ though he is seriously considering a military career, and may well end up there. He is not in combat, but many young men like him are……many young men and women are serving this great country all over the world and are in harm’s way, and in need of our support and prayers. Each one of them has a story that his or her mother or father could tell about what wonderful people they are, as I have done about Eric.

And many young men and women who last summer as teenagers, worked at blueberry farms or grocery stores, factories or fast food restaurants, are now beginning training to serve their country in this very dangerous new world…… as adults, preparing to fight the first war of the new millennium, in a very different kind of summer.

Please pray for them……..and those who love them.


TOPICS: Military/Veterans; Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: military; personal; prayer; prayforbushlist
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To: ohioWfan
How proud you must feel. Thanks for your story and picture. I have a daughter born in 1984 and am amazed how grown up they become in just a few years. Your son will be surrounded by prayers. He is faithful to the Lord and he will be protected. Our Lord has great plans for him.
101 posted on 06/12/2002 10:10:23 AM PDT by Rita289
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To: Dr. Scarpetta
Thank you for that beautiful Scripture verse, Dr. Scarpetta! The word of God that He will not leave us comfortless is a great assurance to us right now.
102 posted on 06/12/2002 10:10:41 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: Rita289
Our Lord has great plans for him.

Yes. Plans to prosper him, and not harm him.....plans to give him hope and a future.

We are resting on that promise.

103 posted on 06/12/2002 10:14:34 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ohioWfan
Thanks for the ping. That is one neat kid. You have every right to be proud of him. It is people like you and your son who make me so proud to be an American.
104 posted on 06/12/2002 10:23:24 AM PDT by oldcodger
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To: ohioWfan
OhioWfan, you have a wonderful son. May the Lord entrust all who are dear to us to His never-failing care and love, knowing that He is doing for them better things than we can desire.

God Bless your son.

105 posted on 06/12/2002 10:23:31 AM PDT by Victoria Delsoul
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To: ohioWfan
God Bless you and yours, oWf!
Eric is a fine looking young man, and from what you say, he is firm in his walk with Christ.
That will make all the difference in the world to him and you.
If you haven't already, please pass on to him that we are all very proud of him and praying for his success in all endeavors!
106 posted on 06/12/2002 10:42:19 AM PDT by HiJinx
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To: Diver Dave;ohioWfan
Thanks for the ping, Diver.

OWF, I am sure you have dedicated your son to the Lord and would not withdraw that for one second. He will honour that and care for Eric as one of His own.

I will pray for you that you will have peace of mind and heart as you are separated. Your pride in Eric is just and well deserved.

Thank you for sharing Eric with our wonderful Nation.

107 posted on 06/12/2002 10:47:38 AM PDT by whoever
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To: oldcodger
Thanks, oldcodger. He is a neat kid, isn't he? :o)
108 posted on 06/12/2002 11:01:48 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: Victoria Delsoul; HiJinx; whoever
Thank you all for your kind words and for your prayers!

We entrusted Eric into the Lord's hands even before he was born, and we are thankful that he has chosen to follow Christ. He could have chosen otherwise.

109 posted on 06/12/2002 11:05:04 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ohioWfan
Thank-you for pinging me. He makes me proud to be an American. And so do you. This is what freedom is all about.
110 posted on 06/12/2002 11:05:54 AM PDT by w1andsodidwe
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To: w1andsodidwe; DittoJed2
This is what freedom is all about.

Exactly. And we, as Americans must never take that freedom for granted!

DittoJed, looks like I missed you on my ping list, and I think you'll be interested in this.

111 posted on 06/12/2002 11:09:45 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ohioWfan
Thank you so much for sharing your personal story with us. What a wonderful son you have! And thank Eric for his dedication and love of God, family & country......the very same values that all our patriots have fought to protect.
May God bless Eric and all who defend our Freedoms.


112 posted on 06/12/2002 11:11:19 AM PDT by JulieRNR21
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To: JulieRNR21
And thank Eric for his dedication and love of God, family & country......the very same values that all our patriots have fought to protect.

I will, Julie! Thanks!

And thank you for posting that wonderful graphic!

113 posted on 06/12/2002 11:16:28 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ohioWfan
As the mother of two jedis, my heart just broke when I read this, but I also understand your pride.

I imagine they won't allow you to contact him during basic training, but do they allow you to send letters and care packages? Could I send him one?

114 posted on 06/12/2002 11:23:50 AM PDT by 2Jedismom
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To: ohioWfan
Tell Eric, Thank You! I know you and your husband are very proud of him.
115 posted on 06/12/2002 11:28:20 AM PDT by Pippin
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To: 2Jedismom
Well, when Eric was your boys' age, he was more of a Ninja Turtle, but he did go to the midnight showing of Episode II to cheer on the Jedi Knights! :o) We have an older son too who is a brilliant young man, considering work in the CIA after college. They go from little ones to big ones all too quickly, so treasure every moment with your adorable little Jedis!

We're supposed to hear in a week or so what Eric's address is, and how much contact we can have. I hope we can mail him a package or two, but we're new to this, so we'll have to wait and see what the deal is.

You wouldn't have to be too picky in what you sent him........he'll eat anything! LOL!

116 posted on 06/12/2002 11:34:54 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ClaraSuzanne
Thanks, CS, I will. And we are!
117 posted on 06/12/2002 11:35:54 AM PDT by ohioWfan
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To: ohioWfan
May God bless and keep your son, Ohiofan. And we thank him for his service to our freedoms.
118 posted on 06/12/2002 11:49:24 AM PDT by WaterDragon
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To: ohioWfan
ohioWfan, what a wonderful essay about your son. I'm in tears reading it here at work. What a handsome young man you have. We, the people, are blessed to have him as a part of our military. God Bless Eric, your family and all others who serve.
119 posted on 06/12/2002 11:50:44 AM PDT by DallasGal
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To: 2Jedismom
When my son and daughter were in basic training I sent care packages sometimes daily. Learned later the goodies were 'expropriated'! LOL. But they did get my daily letters with news from home and clips of their favorite comics, etc., from the newspaper.
120 posted on 06/12/2002 11:52:03 AM PDT by WaterDragon
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