Nope. Misdiagnosis. The Women’s Movement is the reason.
Women are more rebellious and antagonistic toward men and specifically their husbands than they ever were. I think a lot of men are just fed up and stay single (and I suppose lonely.)
Women in general used to be a lot more attractive, soft, and feminine than they are now.
All of those requirements are horse manure.
There are more single men out there because most women under 40 are nuts.
Well, the tables turn when everyone ages. The women become more desperate as men have a better pick of what’s out there.
I’ve also seen an increase in profiles that won’t date anyone who is vaxed, or who isn’t vaxed.
Just another dang litmus test to divide people.
Then when he dumps them, they become feminists and hate all men.
This is logical reasoning to them.
since my divorce 14 years ago, I’ve attempted it with 3 women... after sex, they all, every one, shortly there after started thinking they were calling the shots!! immediately self imposed themselves “The Boss” in the relationship. and each time I just laughed and walked away the minute it started.
One, had the stones after an hour or so of having cocktails with MY friends, when I asked one of my friends to repeat themselves(they all know I’m hard of hearing...) she pipes up and waves me off and says to my friend, Oh he cant hear you anyways! and laughs... My buddy looks and my and I looked back and chuckled... finished my beer and walked out the door, leaving her there.
I never believed in hittin it and quittin it, but women today convinced me it is the only way.
First they badger and domineer the men into manbun beta non binary soy pseudo boys,,,
Then complain about it.
I think the truth us the real men see these prog neurotic hagnags coming a mile off and head for the churches to find the quality women.
Fool proof plan for women to get any man:
Show up naked.
Bring beer.
They might be lonely. They might not be.
Or, they could be lonely because they are so tired of the modern women’s sh*t.
I’ve met quite a few that are hostile in a flash, if you dare say anything counter to their agenda.
Actually, I saw it the other day perusing Match.com. Lady described herself as a criminal defense attorney who doesn’t put up with any BS and is gone at the first sign of “trouble”. Good luck lady. Guys her age are going after women 10-15-20 years younger than her and they don’t have to put with her “I am woman, I am strong” nonsense. They just want to have a good time.
I remember seeing a poster a long time ago, during my deployment to Afghanistan. Absolutely smoking hot model in negligée. Caption read...Somewhere, some guy is sick of her sh*t.
This is why God created “Hot Latinas”. Going on 27 years now. She’s the same weight as when we were dating but her black hair is below her hips now. *Nom*
So....Soy Boys aren’t making the cut? Too bad.
There's the 'what women want' FACADE and the ACTUAL things women are drawn to such as a dude who treats them like DIRT and slaps them around a bit so they'll have something to complain about with the girls.
NICE MEN GET NOWHERE and are IGNORED by females.
If they want a girlfriend or wife, dudes are going to have to up their game or they will become Incel, and it is their own fault.
Sharing similar values should be a no brainer for any couple.
And honestly, being a good communicator might not be anything more than listening without preaching.
Sometimes women just want/need to vent and not have guys try to fix it. I heard someone suggest once that the best response a man can give to a woman is “And how did that make you feel?” and just let her talk.
Honestly, just give her a hug and say something like “That must have been so hard. Let me do the dishes to help you feel better.”
The you could ask if she wants you to help fix the problem.
And what the heck does “emotionally available” mean???
Men are men and not women in men’s bodies, likewise for women. They are not the guys in a woman’s body. Both sides would to well to accommodate more often the differences in psychological make up.
As a very happily married man (43 years) I can’t say that I agree with your assessment.
Our grandchildren are free to roam and romp all over our 17 acres of heavenly bliss and Granny (and I) is happy to spoil the snot out of them!
Then again, this old guy is just happy to be so very Blessed.
By the time these modern women are done riding the cc, they are used up and unable to form a successful pair bond with a guy. All the stuff she did for free with other guys, he won’t get. All the messes she’s made, he’s the beta simp who’s gonna clean it up.
And now they have unrealistically high standards, thinking they are all 10s and see no reason to compromise.
Its all totally laughable.
80% of men are already invisible to women. Their idiotically high standards they must have, price themselves out of the available men.
The exact same thing can be said of women.
Just substitute “woman” wherever you put in “man.”
It’s a two way street and nobody has a corner on the bad marriage and loneliness market.
In other words, support baby killing.
Leave these women alone. They are not grown up enough to share their lives.