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Neighbors Go To War Over 4-Year-Old Boy
San Diego News ^ | April 27, 2009 | Lauren Reynolds

Posted on 04/29/2009 5:52:32 AM PDT by stickandrudder

SAN DIEGO -- Spencer Trussle likes to play and ride his bike.

"I'm 4 years old," he said, "and I have a sister named Olivia, and I ride my bike all day long."

He lives in a piece of suburbia that seems picturesque: the Venzano development in San Marcos. His parents, Gary and Marla Trussle, moved the family here five months ago.

"I thought it would be good for the children," Marla Trussle explained.

But instead of being welcomed, the Trussle family has been under attack, they said, by neighbors. The accusations against them have been wild, including that 4-year-old Spencer "might come out with a firearm at anytime."

"I thought they had lost their minds," said Marla Trussle.

They are neighbors Sarah Fisher, Danielle Harway and Kelly Plaster. All three filed court papers asking that Spencer, his sister Olivia, and mom and dad be restricted to their own home and driveway.

"There was nothing I had done, my husband had done, my daughter had done, or I had done that warranted that response," said Trussle.

In court papers, Sarah Fisher wrote that, "Gary Trussle is a very violent, unstable and unpredictable man." Daniele Harway said, "He looked to be on drugs." And Kelly Plaster added, "I'm concerned that Gary or his son will gain access to Gary's firearms."

Gary Trussle responded, "There was no merit in any of their allegations."

He said the trouble can be linked to a diagnosis of autism when their son was 18 months old.

"It's like a part of me died that day," Spencer's mother said. The neighbors knew about Spencer's autism, that he might throw occasional tantrums, but he isn't violent.

The Trussles said there were no issues until Gary Trussle confronted another father on the cul de sac whose son was picking on Spencer.

It didn't go well.

Sarah Fisher reported the Trussles to Child Protective Services. She called Gary Trussle's employer, Continental Airlines, where he's a captain. She also made a call to 911, claiming he couldn't control his young children.

But the San Diego sheriff's deputy who responded declined to write a report. CPS dropped the case as unsubstantiated, and Continental Airlines stood by their longtime employee.

"I'm offended that someone would try to involve my employment, my profession in this matter," Gary said.

He has one firearm that's locked up. It was issued to him by the Department of Homeland Security for his job. He's a former lieutenant colonel in the Marines, who served his country for 25 years.

I-Team reporter Lauren Reynolds approached the three neighbors to get their side of the story. Plaster and Harway darted into a house. Sarah Fisher stayed to speak with Reynolds, but said, "No thank you" when asked if she wanted to comment.

"It's a sad story," said Dr. Kathie Sweeten, who runs the Center for Autism Research, Evaluation and Service. She said autism can be devastating both emotionally and financially.

"And when you're trying to live your everyday life and come across people who are not kind to you, it's hard," said Sweeten.

The neighbors' accusations and court filings could have ruined the Trussles, but a San Diego Superior Court Judge tossed them all out. In addition, the neighbors have been ordered to reimburse the Trussle's legal fees, which top $12,000.


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To: rjsimmon; Frogtacos
It also depends on what kind of jerk you have for a neighbor. My 14 year old watches my other children when I need to run errands or go to work before my husband get home. It was never an issue until last year when the busybody neighbor called CPS on me for neglect, because my children didn't go to school (homeschooled), were running around the neighborhood unsupervised (we aren't sure if this incident was because the 4 year old ran down the cul-de-sac when I was in the house or because the children played in our front yard) and unkempt house (yeah. five kids and four pets. not perfect). Of course, none of this was an issue until I left the church next door and my oldest left the church associated Boy Scout troop. A week and a half later is when CPS was at our door. Coincidence or not, it seemed odd timing. We figured out who it was because the caseworkers went from our house to hers.

The woman is a coward. She will run into her house if she thinks I might speak to her. CPS dropped the case, stating it was unfounded.

The woman will spy on us from her driveway and there is really nothing we can do, since she is on her property. I made mention of this incident on my facebook, asking for advice. A friend and neighor from another street is on my facebook and I am guessing said something to her, since we have not seen the woman in weeks.

Too bad you can't move next door. The woman's head would spin.

61 posted on 04/29/2009 8:18:15 AM PDT by HungarianGypsy
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To: envisio

That’s one way to think about it. Believe me, I’m trying to understand what more could be behind this story, but when the media came, not one woman documented a single incident of violent, unstable, unpredictable behavior. Instead, two of them ran into their homes like frightened field mice, while the third said, “no comment.” The only people who seem unstable and unpredictable are these women.


62 posted on 04/29/2009 8:20:49 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Barack Obama: in your guts, you know he's nuts!)
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To: Jeff F
Some guy and I were re-writing the Iliad in "Roses are red," format, viz:
Roses are red,
Violets are blue.
Achilles was angry
You would be too.

63 posted on 04/29/2009 8:34:19 AM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: HungarianGypsy

I do not intend to go down another road with this, but are you or do you live in an LDS neighborhood? This sounds quite a bit like how my family was treated after we left the church.


64 posted on 04/29/2009 8:37:52 AM PDT by rjsimmon (1-20-2013)
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To: Pharmboy

That’s the real story. Liberal bullies pushing out someone who isn’t like them.


65 posted on 04/29/2009 8:40:38 AM PDT by rintense (Go Israel!)
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To: rjsimmon

You nailed it!


66 posted on 04/29/2009 8:42:06 AM PDT by HungarianGypsy
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To: rintense

Yep: “OMIGOD-—he’s got a gun in his house!!”


67 posted on 04/29/2009 8:48:46 AM PDT by Pharmboy (Who ever thought we would long for the days of the Clinton administration...)
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To: Mad Dawg
Some guy and I were re-writing the Iliad in "Roses are red," format, viz:

Homer has just spun around in his grave. After a long life composing unparalleled epics, you have now left him decomposing.

68 posted on 04/29/2009 8:54:03 AM PDT by Jeff F (austinaero; Phoenix11; WaterBoard)
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To: Frogtacos

“I have guns, I have dogs (labs), drive a truck, and will be homeschooling my children.”

If it wasn’t for that husband, you would be the perfect woman!

;-)


69 posted on 04/29/2009 9:04:57 AM PDT by CSM (Smokers, the most patriotic of Americans!)
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To: envisio
I am used to my neck of the woods. EVERYONE has some type of gun in the house.

Would that be the red neck of the woods? :)

70 posted on 04/29/2009 9:34:29 AM PDT by gundog
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To: wbill
The first thought that popped into my mind was that the three accusers were lesbian roommates.

Mine, too. There must be something in the composition to raise that impression, but I have an appointment at 1:00 (Eastern) and don't have time to look for it.

71 posted on 04/29/2009 9:36:26 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Stay out of Mexico. Wash your hands. Keep your pigs outdoors.)
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To: stickandrudder

This article makes me happy. I’m glad that even the judge did the right thing.


72 posted on 04/29/2009 10:40:18 AM PDT by wastedyears (Iron Maiden's gonna get ya, no matter how far!)
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To: Frogtacos
I have guns, I have dogs (labs), drive a truck, and will be homeschooling my children.

You'll fit in fine in Arizona.

I’m about to move... from Tennessee

Keep the still hidden, though.

; )

73 posted on 04/29/2009 10:40:45 AM PDT by Jeff Chandler ("Mr. President, I support you but not your mission. I'm showing my patriotism through dissent.")
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To: RonF

Maybe the guy had it on his hip one day. *shrug*


74 posted on 04/29/2009 10:46:43 AM PDT by wastedyears (Iron Maiden's gonna get ya, no matter how far!)
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To: stickandrudder
The neighbors' accusations and court filings could have ruined the Trussles, but a San Diego Superior Court Judge tossed them all out. In addition, the neighbors have been ordered to reimburse the Trussle's legal fees, which top $12,000.

Well that's a bit of good news!

75 posted on 04/29/2009 11:09:57 AM PDT by SuziQ
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To: Jeff Chandler; rjsimmon; HungarianGypsy; CSM
rj, Gypsy - Sierra Vista (my parents and sister live there, it's where I did most of my growing up.)

CSM - OMG I hunt too!!! (Will let you know if I ever get rid of that pesky husband)

Jeff - what still??? *innocent look*
76 posted on 04/29/2009 11:36:49 AM PDT by Frogtacos (It all went to hell when we started cooking outside and crapping inside.)
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To: Frogtacos

Well, given that you hunt and that you have a really cool FR monikor, I’ll patiently wait for the call!

;-)

Good luck with your move.


77 posted on 04/29/2009 11:39:53 AM PDT by CSM (Smokers, the most patriotic of Americans!)
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To: gundog

“””Would that be the red neck of the woods? :)”””””

Yes indeedo...


79 posted on 04/29/2009 12:05:22 PM PDT by envisio (Sexual Beer & BBQ Ribs)
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To: Marysecretary

When my son was a little boy (six year old) we lived in an apartment complex. My son was sitting on a low branch of a tree with one of his friends watching ants crawl on the bark.

A neighbor called the cops on the boys. She then got together with other neighbors, looking for anything they could catch the boys doing which could be considered “bad” by their standard.

This started a 6 month horror which ended with both the boys locked down in our apartments. The police were called for the boys giggling in the hallway, digging at a patch of dirt with spoons, arranging pebbles on the sidewalk (they might *throw* one of them, after all), and pretending to be soldiers with their dad’s helmets under our balcony. The other boy and I were watching the whole time as our boys played and that kept the cops from taking action.

That was when I told my husband that we were buying land in Texas. Never again.


80 posted on 04/29/2009 12:34:38 PM PDT by Marie
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