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Times Like This, Even I Need Prayer [Update at #292]
My own heart | 1.24.07 | Michael King

Posted on 01/24/2007 10:24:26 PM PST by mhking

As most of you know, my time is generally not my own these days -- I am a web producer for the NBC station in Atlanta, plus at this time of year, I'm also a tax preparer for H&R Block. Plus I always keep a side-hustle of some sort or another (I've been doing a lot of mystery shopping the past year or so)...

In any event, sometimes God reaches out and rattles the cage to remind me who's truly in charge.

I received a phone call yesterday that truly rocked my core.

My 42-year-old younger brother had suffered a stroke. My dad called me at work with the news, sounding so much older and weary than I had heard him in many years. He and my mom were at the hospital in Chicago, along with my sister-in-law and her entire clan.

Thankfully, I had enough presence of mind not to jump behind the wheel, realizing that I was in no condition to try to go home. After a silent prayer, and a rushed phone call to my wife, I threw myself into my work, trying to get through the night.

He has no movement on the right side of his body. He cannot speak. But, my dad says, he has recognition of those around him. He's able to nod and shake his head yes and no.

The doctors say that with what they called aggressive rehab and therapy, that he should regain the vast majority of what he's lost. They say that his age is in his favor.

A good sign is that he has been fighting to try to move his right foot and hand.

A CAT scan today showed no blood or fluid buildup in his brain. An MRI tomorrow will look a bit deeper, to be sure.

The physical therapist came in to see him today, and said that Rick was trying to pull himself up with his left arm, and using that arm to pull his right arm across, which, too, is a good sign.

I'm in Atlanta, and my sister is with her husband in San Francisco. We figure we'd be in the way if we tried to go home now, so we are waiting a bit -- perhaps until he comes home. We figure there will be more of a need for us to help out then.

And while I'm praying real hard for him, I can always use more hearts praying for him. And for myself for that matter. I'm not being selfish; I just need to have more strength to endure and be strong for everyone else.

Our family -- blood and extended -- is a strong one, and we're all there for each other. I just know that extra prayer is always in order. I thank you all in advance, folks. And God bless each and every one of you.


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To: mhking
Praise God!!! Thank you for the update! Prayers continue...
281 posted on 02/08/2007 9:42:48 PM PST by Alamo-Girl
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He surprised us by reaching up and grabbing the cup out of my hand and drinking from the straw himself. Of course, I had to keep him from going too fast. ...

Great sign!...............

282 posted on 02/09/2007 5:13:06 AM PST by Red Badger (Rachel Carson is responsible for more deaths than Adolf Hitler...............)
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To: mhking

Good news and thoank you for the update. Continued prayers for his complete restoration.


283 posted on 02/09/2007 5:22:39 AM PST by WV Mountain Mama (Adventure is the invitation to common people to become uncommon. Warren Miller)
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To: mhking

I had missed this thread until now but will certainly be adding you and your family to my prayers now.


284 posted on 02/09/2007 7:08:30 AM PST by kayak (Praying for Jemian's son, all our military, and our President every day!)
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To: mhking

Prayers continue for your brother, and your whole family.


285 posted on 02/09/2007 7:46:30 AM PST by Kathy in Alaska (~ God Bless and Protect Our Brave Protectors of Freedom~)
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To: mhking
"With God all things are possible!"

Praising the Lord for all that He has already done, and all that will be done!!

286 posted on 02/09/2007 7:55:56 PM PST by MountainFlower (Brownback, Brownback, He's Our Man!!)
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To: mhking

Thank-You so very much for the update on your brother! I will continue to pray for him for complete physical healing and for you and your family for peace & strength during this uncertain time in your lives.


287 posted on 02/09/2007 10:50:35 PM PST by Wandaroos
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To: mhking

Continued prayers for you and yours... to join with those surrounding you!

Thank you for the update!


288 posted on 02/24/2007 3:13:41 PM PST by cgk (Republicanism didn't make Conservatives a majority. Conservatism made Republicans a majority. [NEWT])
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To: mhking

I pray that God will bless your brother with healing and the return of all his facilities.

And I pray for your folks and for your brother’s family and for all the people who love you and your family.

May the loving embrace of all who love you be a comfort now in this trying time.

I pray that God’s peace will be with you especially at this time of Easter.

God’s richest blessings to you all,

Jane


289 posted on 04/06/2007 10:06:56 AM PDT by janereinheimer
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To: mhking

Prayers Said.


290 posted on 04/15/2007 9:59:45 AM PDT by fishhound
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To: rdb3; Khepera; elwoodp; MAKnight; condolinda; mafree; Trueblackman; FRlurker; Teacher317; ...

I realize I haven’t written in quite awhile. As you can imagine, all our lives have been more than busy, as they have changed dramatically across the board.

First and foremost, Rick is doing well. During the week, he stays with my mom and dad, and they get him back and forth to the intensive therapy sessions he has been getting during the week. On the weekends, he has been going home with Deborah. And from what I understand, things on that front are coming along.

A van comes by my folks’ house and picks him up (along with either my mother or father, who prepare his lunch and go with him each day) at about 7 a.m. The van also picks up others who live in south county or over in Porter County, and takes them all to the rehab facility out in Munster.

At the facility, which is tied to both to the hospital out there and the rehab facility at Northwestern Memorial in Chicago, they put him through his paces each day. The types of therapy include physical, occupational and speech therapy methods.

He has been able to move his right leg for awhile now, and the physical therapists have been working on that in order to get him up and moving. Though he is sitting in a wheelchair, he has been able to move himself from the wheelchair to a bed and back. He is able to do quite a bit with his left hand, including feed himself. Rick still does not have much movement in his right arm, but the doctors have said that movement will come back as time advances.

This past week, he was fitted with two braces on his right leg — one on his ankle to hold his heel in place and to prevent that foot from drooping. The second, provides support to his knee so that it can help him stand.

One day this week, the physical therapist, along with my dad, helped him stand and to take a few steps. The therapist got him a type of cane that was fitted with a wide base and four feet. The therapist and Dad walked slowly with him, in order to steady him; Dad had Rick’s wheelchair, in case it was needed. Rick walked to the end of the room, and kept right on going, out toward the front door of the complex. He got near the front door, and wanted to turn around.

“Do you want to sit down?” the therapist asked.

“No!” he replied.

Once he got turned around, he found that he was out of steam. Dad held the wheelchair while he sat down.

Anyway, Mom said he has been walking all week and getting better at it.

Rick’s speech is improving dramatically. He is able to slowly put words together — but don’t ask him to repeat himself — at least not for now. He certainly knows what he wants to say, but putting repeated thoughts back together is still a bit difficult for him. I talk with him on the phone several times a week, and our conversations have advanced dramatically.

The experts say that stroke victims tend to make major strides in the fifth month and again in the seventh month after a stroke. We’re just coming up to the five-month point now. So we’re still looking for more advancements as time goes on.

Courtney and Roy got him the full set of Black Adder episodes — he’s a longtime fan — so he has started watching them. And since he’s such a big fan of British comedy, I picked up the first season of “Father Ted”, and sent him a cap from the Final Four. Dad said he’s been happy with watching all of those, and loves the hat.

Rachel and I are still planning on driving up with the kids in July, and we’re all looking forward to seeing him. As I mentioned at the start, this has changed all our lives immeasurably. I had ballooned to 306 pounds as of my physical last fall, and my cholesterol level had risen to 213. As of a month ago, I had come down to near 290, and my overall cholesterol had fallen to 198. I’ve changed the way I eat, reducing the portions and the types of things I eat. I’ve increased my water intake, and almost completely eliminated fried food and bread from my diet (okay, I still grab some fries every couple of weeks or so). I’ve upped the amount of fish in my diet, primarily with tilapia and salmon — I try to have fish at least twice a week. I’ve also added more fiber to my diet, primarily with Wasa crackers (a high-fiber, low salt flatbread cracker), but also with more fruit and vegetables.

People tell me my face is smaller, and I’ve noticed that my clothes fit differently. My doctor wants me to get another cholesterol test within the next week or so, so I hope there is an even bigger reduction than a month ago.

Thank you to everyone who has written and called and e-mailed, and thank you for all the prayers and thoughts and words. God is the Great Physician, and His hand is evident in everything that has been happening as things have moved forward. May God bless you all and may He continue to hold you in His hand, and may you keep Him in your heart. Keep praying for us — though we are not out of the woods yet, things are much, much better.

Finally, to each and every one of you — please, please, please monitor yourselves. Blacks in general, and black men in particular, are at hightened risk for stroke and cardiovascular disease. Cut the amount of fried food, sugars and fats in your diet. Pay attention to your portion sizes. Get your cholesterol checked regularly. Get out and walk more. Also for us as black men over 40, getting a regular digital exam for an enlarged prostate is a necessity. It ain’t pleasant (although I asked my doctor for a cigarette after my last one), but it is a necessary safeguard. It will make a difference in your life, and it very well may save your life.

God bless you, be well, and we’ll talk soon...

Michael


291 posted on 05/20/2007 10:13:53 AM PDT by mhking (I make my livin' on the evening news....)
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To: rdb3; Khepera; elwoodp; MAKnight; condolinda; mafree; Trueblackman; FRlurker; Teacher317; ...

I realize I haven’t written in quite awhile. As you can imagine, all our lives have been more than busy, as they have changed dramatically across the board.

First and foremost, Rick is doing well. During the week, he stays with my mom and dad, and they get him back and forth to the intensive therapy sessions he has been getting during the week. On the weekends, he has been going home with Deborah. And from what I understand, things on that front are coming along.

A van comes by my folks’ house and picks him up (along with either my mother or father, who prepare his lunch and go with him each day) at about 7 a.m. The van also picks up others who live in south county or over in Porter County, and takes them all to the rehab facility out in Munster.

At the facility, which is tied to both to the hospital out there and the rehab facility at Northwestern Memorial in Chicago, they put him through his paces each day. The types of therapy include physical, occupational and speech therapy methods.

He has been able to move his right leg for awhile now, and the physical therapists have been working on that in order to get him up and moving. Though he is sitting in a wheelchair, he has been able to move himself from the wheelchair to a bed and back. He is able to do quite a bit with his left hand, including feed himself. Rick still does not have much movement in his right arm, but the doctors have said that movement will come back as time advances.

This past week, he was fitted with two braces on his right leg — one on his ankle to hold his heel in place and to prevent that foot from drooping. The second, provides support to his knee so that it can help him stand.

One day this week, the physical therapist, along with my dad, helped him stand and to take a few steps. The therapist got him a type of cane that was fitted with a wide base and four feet. The therapist and Dad walked slowly with him, in order to steady him; Dad had Rick’s wheelchair, in case it was needed. Rick walked to the end of the room, and kept right on going, out toward the front door of the complex. He got near the front door, and wanted to turn around.

“Do you want to sit down?” the therapist asked.

“No!” he replied.

Once he got turned around, he found that he was out of steam. Dad held the wheelchair while he sat down.

Anyway, Mom said he has been walking all week and getting better at it.

Rick’s speech is improving dramatically. He is able to slowly put words together — but don’t ask him to repeat himself — at least not for now. He certainly knows what he wants to say, but putting repeated thoughts back together is still a bit difficult for him. I talk with him on the phone several times a week, and our conversations have advanced dramatically.

The experts say that stroke victims tend to make major strides in the fifth month and again in the seventh month after a stroke. We’re just coming up to the five-month point now. So we’re still looking for more advancements as time goes on.

Courtney and Roy got him the full set of Black Adder episodes — he’s a longtime fan — so he has started watching them. And since he’s such a big fan of British comedy, I picked up the first season of “Father Ted”, and sent him a cap from the Final Four. Dad said he’s been happy with watching all of those, and loves the hat.

Rachel and I are still planning on driving up with the kids in July, and we’re all looking forward to seeing him. As I mentioned at the start, this has changed all our lives immeasurably. I had ballooned to 306 pounds as of my physical last fall, and my cholesterol level had risen to 213. As of a month ago, I had come down to near 290, and my overall cholesterol had fallen to 198. I’ve changed the way I eat, reducing the portions and the types of things I eat. I’ve increased my water intake, and almost completely eliminated fried food and bread from my diet (okay, I still grab some fries every couple of weeks or so). I’ve upped the amount of fish in my diet, primarily with tilapia and salmon — I try to have fish at least twice a week. I’ve also added more fiber to my diet, primarily with Wasa crackers (a high-fiber, low salt flatbread cracker), but also with more fruit and vegetables.

People tell me my face is smaller, and I’ve noticed that my clothes fit differently. My doctor wants me to get another cholesterol test within the next week or so, so I hope there is an even bigger reduction than a month ago.

Thank you to everyone who has written and called and e-mailed, and thank you for all the prayers and thoughts and words. God is the Great Physician, and His hand is evident in everything that has been happening as things have moved forward. May God bless you all and may He continue to hold you in His hand, and may you keep Him in your heart. Keep praying for us — though we are not out of the woods yet, things are much, much better.

Finally, to each and every one of you — please, please, please monitor yourselves. Blacks in general, and black men in particular, are at hightened risk for stroke and cardiovascular disease. Cut the amount of fried food, sugars and fats in your diet. Pay attention to your portion sizes. Get your cholesterol checked regularly. Get out and walk more. Also for us as black men over 40, getting a regular digital exam for an enlarged prostate is a necessity. It ain’t pleasant (although I asked my doctor for a cigarette after my last one), but it is a necessary safeguard. It will make a difference in your life, and it very well may save your life.

God bless you, be well, and we’ll talk soon...

Michael


292 posted on 05/20/2007 10:16:19 AM PDT by mhking (I make my livin' on the evening news....)
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To: mhking

prayers for you!


293 posted on 05/20/2007 10:21:10 AM PDT by Perdogg (Cheney-Bolton 2008)
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To: mhking

Prayers continue


294 posted on 05/20/2007 10:28:50 AM PDT by Tribune7 (A bleeding heart does nothing but ruin the carpet)
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To: mhking

Hang in there, MHK. A co-worker of mine had a stroke like this at the same age. He’s sixty now, full time teacher, walks with a limp and is a little weak, but... still alive, kicking, working, twenty years later.


295 posted on 05/20/2007 10:29:27 AM PDT by A_perfect_lady
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To: mhking

Still praying Mike. Thank you for the update, it sounds as though things are going very well. Prayers for Rick to continue improving, and for you and your family.

State Farm has a special program going right now called “The 50 million pound challenge” They have a kit that you can pick up that is suppose to have some very good information on how to acheive your weight loss goal. It is available to all...but specifically aimed towards the black community as that is the area where weight has been shown to be an issue with more dramatic consequences. (I hope nobody takes offense, it certaintly isn’t meant to be offensive to anyone)


296 posted on 05/20/2007 10:33:38 AM PDT by trussell
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To: mhking

Thanks so much for the update. It is great to hear that Rick is making such good progress.

Bless your parents for taking such good care of him. He has a loving family and a loving God. That is a rich life.


297 posted on 05/20/2007 10:33:57 AM PDT by Bahbah (Regev, Goldwasser & Shalit, we are praying for you.)
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To: mhking

Prayers up for you all.


298 posted on 05/20/2007 10:33:59 AM PDT by flying Elvis ("In...War, the errors which proceed from a spirit of benevolence are the worst" Clausewitz.)
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To: mhking

...Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.(John 14:27)

By standing firm you will gain life. Luke 21:19

“May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus, so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.”- Romans 15:5-6

Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6


299 posted on 05/20/2007 10:34:43 AM PDT by Vision ("Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him." Jeremiah 17:7)
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Praying for Mike and the whole family.


300 posted on 05/20/2007 10:40:26 AM PDT by Trueblackman (Terrorism and Liberalism never sleep and neither do I)
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