Charlie Peppler has dealt with this issue in one of the most thoroughly orthodox Christian ways that I have seen:
http://oldmadenew.blogspot.com/2005/11/if-its-battle-whos-opponent.html
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If it's a battle, who's the opponent?
We are in the middle of a battle. It doesn't take much to see it all around us. Hostile parish takeovers. Parishes being made extinct. Clergy being deposed. Lawsuits.
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There's a lot more going on, and the battle we're in is part of what's been going on for thousands of years. What we're seeing is the modern expression of it.
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Fast forward a couple of centuries to several of the more "advanced" societies such as Rome or ancient Greece, where homosexuality was built into the culture. It was a standard part of a young man's training to be "with" other men. Was a god doing "a new thing" then?
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Well worth reading.