I agree with you that women can be a distraction. As I noted earlier, there are problems that exist. However, I am sure that there are ways to work around this.
While I never did enjoy Xena, you have never met my sisters. Women are not sissies, trust me. Many of them know what pain is, they know what horror is, and they have the will to kill. I have known many women that could easily disable a full grown man. I myself could toss my husband around my house like a throw pillow. I don't think you've been meeting the right type of females.:)