This is all very strange. However, it does bring up a strange phenomenon. In high school and college, I always noticed that the gay guys were always surrounded by the hot and popular girls. There was nothing sexual between them. The girls trusted these guys because they knew they wouldn't try to come on to them and could "relate" to them. It baffles me. Still, there's no sense in learning the art of being a fruitcake. If you're that desperate for a woman, rent a videotape or get on the internet and watch a live cam or something.