Ever seen "Notting Hill", with Hugh Grant and Julia Robert? He is not redeemed by "she" ... more the other way around. She is influenced by his steadiness.
And what about "Titanic" ... again "her" life is influenced by his character, his steadiness. (Of course, if she had kept her rear end in that lifeboat instead of being totally irrational, maybe he could have gotten to float on the door and live happily ever after with her, but I digress.)
And one more ... what about "An Officer and a Gentleman". She sure isn't carrying him at the end.
In my observation, there are very few "chick flicks" that are exceptions to your "Hollywood Bias" rule. And sadly, a lot of movies directed at teens/kids are going that direction too.