Posted on 05/16/2002 2:29:30 AM PDT by JohnHuang2
A private Christian school and a kindergartener's mother who stripteases for a living are quickly becoming the focus of the latest debate on religious freedom.
Officials of Capital Christian School in Sacramento, Calif., discovered that what they thought had been a private meeting with a mother of a kindergartner who violated her commitment to school policy had become a news story on the local CBS affiliate KOVR.
The story first came to the attention of WorldNetDaily when WND columnist Rebecca Hagelin was invited Wednesday morning to discuss the issue on CNN's popular afternoon talk show "Talk Back Live." The only information circulating at the time was a brief description of a broadcast report filed by KOVR-TV which broke the story late Tuesday evening.
The summary blurb summed up the story this way: "A mother says her daughter is getting expelled from kindergarten because mom is a part-time stripper. This is about a five-year-old girl who attends Capital Christian School in Sacramento. But her mother says when the school found out she was an exotic dancer they told her she had one week to get her daughter out of their school."
Since the school's position was entirely absent from the report, Hagelin contacted the pastor of Capital Christian Church, the sponsoring church of the school. Senior Pastor Rick Cole was clearly disturbed by the events and reluctant to discuss details. Cole did, however, agree to provide certain facts about the case that had not been disclosed by the mother when she contacted the local television station about the situation.
Although Cole did not reveal the identity of the mother or child, WND subsequently learned their identities from KOVR-TV reporter George Franco, but has opted not to disclose the names to protect the child's privacy.
Hagelin reported the other side of the story during her appearance on CNN yesterday.
"By air time Wednesday afternoon, I had secured two interviews with pastor Cole from my car phone," she said. "His greatest concern and reluctance to speak came from his desire to protect the mother and her daughter." Given that only part of the story had become national news, she added, Cole thought it important provide the rest of the story.
Cole explained that recently school officials had become aware that the mother in question works as a part-time strip-teaser dancer at a local club. Since her occupation is in violation of an agreement with and commitment to the school philosophy that parents must sign before the children are admitted to school, school officials, including Cole met the mother.
Not wanting to divulge the personal and confidential details of the conversation with the mother, Cole only briefly outlined the details of the offer officials had made the mother -- which had been left out of previous news stories.
"The school offered to waive the last month's tuition for the student so the young girl could remain in school to the end of the year if the mother would quit her job as a strip-tease dancer. They also offered to support the mother and walk 'hand in hand' with her as she worked through the spiritual issues involved and sought to better her life," said Hagelin. "The pastor believed that the meeting had been well-received by the mother, but the next thing he knew he was getting calls from the local media. I found Pastor Cole to be clearly upset that his efforts to help a woman in a very bad situation were not successful."
As a requirement for admission, parents of prospective students must sign a "commitment" to support the philosophy of the school. That philosophy, in part, reads: "Emphasis is placed on learning about God and the truths of God's Word in relationship to man and his world; recognizing that the way to God comes through personal faith in Jesus Christ; and Christian maturity comes by application of the truths of the Bible in all areas of life." In signing the document, parents agree to maintain a "partnership" with the school "regarding the standards and criteria of a Christian learning structure that involves the entire family."
"Although school officials see the mother's job as a stripper as a clear violation of her signed commitment, automatic termination of the relationship was not an option for them," said Hagelin. "The pastor and school attempted to help the mother better her life, and offered her both financial, spiritual and emotional support."
In Hagelin's interview with the pastor, he described how the role of the school differed somewhat from that of the church. While the church has open arms to all who wish to attend, he discussed how essential parental commitment is to the success of a school of 1,200 students that seeks to provide both high academic and spiritual standards for each and every student, noted Hagelin.
Reporter George Franco of KOVR told Hagelin that the mother has retained legal counsel and is considering filing a motion for an immediate injunction to have the child remain in school while the mother continues to work as a stripper.
The rational explanation is that I haunted your T-shirt, of course.
Did you read the story? Here is an excerpt:
"The school offered to waive the last month's tuition for the student so the young girl could remain in school to the end of the year if the mother would quit her job as a strip-tease dancer. They also offered to support the mother and walk 'hand in hand' with her as she worked through the spiritual issues involved and sought to better her life," said Hagelin.
These people did as much as they could to help this family out. Seems like the mom wanted nothing to do with their help.
What? She couldn’t stop stripping for a month so her daughter could finish out the school year? Whatever happened to personal responsibility? I thought that was a plus on our side of the aisle.
The only thing this school didn’t offer was to compromise their principles, good for them.
-Kevin
I agree wholeheartedly. I'd venture to say any form of legal work is more "moral" than going on Welfare. Plus, I really have no problem with what strippers do for a living. Then again, I'm a libertine.
"Cherish the love we have We should cherish the life we live Cherish the love Cherish the life Cherish the love..."
God has done much more severe things to children because of the actions of the parents. Remember the story of Achan? He stole some gold and clothes from Jericho when he wasn’t supposed to. Did God just punish him? No, He didn’t. Achan’s entire household perished because of his transgression.
-Kevin
With these two verses, Christ teaches that not only are we to maintain a pure sexual relationship with our spouse ('Thou shalt not commit adultery'), but we are also to guard even against engaging in lust (or in presenting ourselves in a way that invites others to lust over us).
I could look up and cite numerous specific passages of Christ's teachings on sexual purity and on living a holy life and as expounded by the apostles such as Paul, James, and Peter. However, I don't have the time to pursue such an exercise right now, nor would it be that productive.
Several on this thread seem to lean toward a politically correct "tolerance" philosophy that society's values and norms should trump the school's standards in this case.
And the reason you live paycheck to paycheck is because you put your child before your job, and your employers reacted by denying promotions, firing you, etc.
"Daddy please don't, it wasn't his fault, he means so much to meeeee... Daddy please don't, we're gonna get married, just you wait and see!"
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