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Kindergartener's stripper-mom in church-school flap
WorldNetDaily.com ^ | Thursday, May 16, 2002

Posted on 05/16/2002 2:29:30 AM PDT by JohnHuang2

A private Christian school and a kindergartener's mother who stripteases for a living are quickly becoming the focus of the latest debate on religious freedom.

Officials of Capital Christian School in Sacramento, Calif., discovered that what they thought had been a private meeting with a mother of a kindergartner who violated her commitment to school policy had become a news story on the local CBS affiliate KOVR.

The story first came to the attention of WorldNetDaily when WND columnist Rebecca Hagelin was invited Wednesday morning to discuss the issue on CNN's popular afternoon talk show "Talk Back Live." The only information circulating at the time was a brief description of a broadcast report filed by KOVR-TV which broke the story late Tuesday evening.

The summary blurb summed up the story this way: "A mother says her daughter is getting expelled from kindergarten because mom is a part-time stripper. This is about a five-year-old girl who attends Capital Christian School in Sacramento. But her mother says when the school found out she was an exotic dancer they told her she had one week to get her daughter out of their school."

Since the school's position was entirely absent from the report, Hagelin contacted the pastor of Capital Christian Church, the sponsoring church of the school. Senior Pastor Rick Cole was clearly disturbed by the events and reluctant to discuss details. Cole did, however, agree to provide certain facts about the case that had not been disclosed by the mother when she contacted the local television station about the situation.

Although Cole did not reveal the identity of the mother or child, WND subsequently learned their identities from KOVR-TV reporter George Franco, but has opted not to disclose the names to protect the child's privacy.

Hagelin reported the other side of the story during her appearance on CNN yesterday.

"By air time Wednesday afternoon, I had secured two interviews with pastor Cole from my car phone," she said. "His greatest concern and reluctance to speak came from his desire to protect the mother and her daughter." Given that only part of the story had become national news, she added, Cole thought it important provide the rest of the story.

Cole explained that recently school officials had become aware that the mother in question works as a part-time strip-teaser dancer at a local club. Since her occupation is in violation of an agreement with and commitment to the school philosophy that parents must sign before the children are admitted to school, school officials, including Cole met the mother.

Not wanting to divulge the personal and confidential details of the conversation with the mother, Cole only briefly outlined the details of the offer officials had made the mother -- which had been left out of previous news stories.

"The school offered to waive the last month's tuition for the student so the young girl could remain in school to the end of the year if the mother would quit her job as a strip-tease dancer. They also offered to support the mother and walk 'hand in hand' with her as she worked through the spiritual issues involved and sought to better her life," said Hagelin. "The pastor believed that the meeting had been well-received by the mother, but the next thing he knew he was getting calls from the local media. I found Pastor Cole to be clearly upset that his efforts to help a woman in a very bad situation were not successful."

As a requirement for admission, parents of prospective students must sign a "commitment" to support the philosophy of the school. That philosophy, in part, reads: "Emphasis is placed on learning about God and the truths of God's Word in relationship to man and his world; recognizing that the way to God comes through personal faith in Jesus Christ; and Christian maturity comes by application of the truths of the Bible in all areas of life." In signing the document, parents agree to maintain a "partnership" with the school "regarding the standards and criteria of a Christian learning structure that involves the entire family."

"Although school officials see the mother's job as a stripper as a clear violation of her signed commitment, automatic termination of the relationship was not an option for them," said Hagelin. "The pastor and school attempted to help the mother better her life, and offered her both financial, spiritual and emotional support."

In Hagelin's interview with the pastor, he described how the role of the school differed somewhat from that of the church. While the church has open arms to all who wish to attend, he discussed how essential parental commitment is to the success of a school of 1,200 students that seeks to provide both high academic and spiritual standards for each and every student, noted Hagelin.

Reporter George Franco of KOVR told Hagelin that the mother has retained legal counsel and is considering filing a motion for an immediate injunction to have the child remain in school while the mother continues to work as a stripper.


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Thursday, May 16, 2002

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1 posted on 05/16/2002 2:29:30 AM PDT by JohnHuang2
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To: JohnHuang2
It is a private school that is allowed – and expected – to set its own rules.
What's the problem?
2 posted on 05/16/2002 3:16:41 AM PDT by R. Scott
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To: R. Scott
Agreed. Not only that, but they didn't just bounce the little girl out of the school...........they counseled the mom, offered a month's free tuition (NOT cheap), etc., etc. Seems to me they bent over backward to help here.........yet the press is trying to crucify 'em. Typical.
3 posted on 05/16/2002 3:39:54 AM PDT by RightOnline
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To: R. Scott
What's the problem?

The problem is that there aren't any of the required photos to document the thread. ;-)

4 posted on 05/16/2002 3:52:25 AM PDT by ASA Vet
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To: one_particular_harbour
It could take her 40 hours in another career to earn what she can earn stripping "part-time" in a week.
9 posted on 05/16/2002 4:22:44 AM PDT by weegee
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To: one_particular_harbour; hobbes1
sorry, baby. i have no problem here with what the school did. it is a private school and her profession violated the principles upon which the school was founded. believe me, i send my kids to catholic school, i would fully expect them to do the same thing, and justifiably so. THAT is what i am PAYING for, a school that shares my values and will uphold those values on their end, instead of diminish them. She does not have a constitutional right to attend a CHRISTIAN school, if she can't live her life according to their principles, she should send her kid to the gov't school. heck they would organize a field trip for TAKE YOUR DAUGHTER TO WORK day!
11 posted on 05/16/2002 4:30:10 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: one_particular_harbour
you know, they may have been willing to offer her a job in the school, in the office or elsewhere, maybe with free tuition for her child. but maybe she just likes her work...
12 posted on 05/16/2002 4:36:56 AM PDT by xsmommy
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To: one_particular_harbour
You are basing your opinions on what you DON'T know. She CHOSE to strip for a living. She made the choice and she must live with the consequences of that choice. The school does not have to accept what she does, whether she be a stripper or an abortionist.
13 posted on 05/16/2002 4:42:11 AM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: one_particular_harbour
Look at it this way, the kid learns before first grade what some people never figure out.
14 posted on 05/16/2002 4:42:34 AM PDT by Wolfie
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To: JohnHuang2
Freedom of association - plain and simple.
15 posted on 05/16/2002 4:43:20 AM PDT by GodBlessRonaldReagan
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To: one_particular_harbour
I agree. Love the Sinner. Hate the Sin. The Child wasn;t hurting anyone.

This reeks of the same kind of attitude, that moron Betsy Hart displayed in her column the other day re: Hooters Waitresses....

Especially, considering one month left of school, they could have let the kidlet finish out......Just to avoid controversy. Curious to see how the signed agreement reads....

16 posted on 05/16/2002 4:43:54 AM PDT by hobbes1
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To: hobbes1
Mom could have kept her clothes on rather than subject her child to the inevitable. It's not the school's fault that mom decided to be a stripper.
19 posted on 05/16/2002 4:49:34 AM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: one_particular_harbour
I know 2 young women of similar circumstances. They work in the sexual entertainment business (lap dancing clubs) and both have young daughters. Both would be diagnosed with bipolar disorder if they sought help. Although they are able to maintain what looks like a fairly stable social/economic level to the casual observer their lives are chaotic and chilling. Both are obsessed with some aspect of religiosity. Lap dancers for God I guess you could call them. They can talk and give a manipulative performance of what "good" mothers they are, but this only works on people who spend a limited amount of time with them. Bravo for the courage of those who attempted to counsel this young woman. Any human working in the soul and spirit demeaning world of sex for money needs counseling and meds.
20 posted on 05/16/2002 4:50:30 AM PDT by not-an-ostrich
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