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'If We Left, They Wouldn't Have Nobody' (Abandoned Assisted Living Home in CA)
NPR ^ | November 21, 2014 | Staff

Posted on 11/25/2014 7:30:42 AM PST by beaversmom

When an assisted living home in California shut down last fall, many of its residents were left behind, with nowhere to go.

The staff at the Valley Springs Manor left when they stopped getting paid — except for cook Maurice Rowland and Miguel Alvarez, the janitor.

"There was about 16 residents left behind, and we had a conversation in the kitchen, 'What are we going to do?' " Rowland says.

"If we left, they wouldn't have nobody," the 34-year-old Alvarez says.

Their roles quickly transformed for the elderly residents, who needed round-the-clock care.

"I would only go home for one hour, take a shower, get dressed, then be there for 24-hour days," says Alvarez.

Rowland, 35, remembers passing out medications during those long days. He says he didn't want to leave the residents — some coping with dementia — to fend for themselves.

"I just couldn't see myself going home — next thing you know, they're in the kitchen trying to cook their own food and burn the place down," Rowland says. "Even though they wasn't our family, they were kind of like our family for this short period of time."

For Alvarez, the situation brought back memories from his childhood.

"My parents, when they were younger, they left me abandoned," he says. "Knowing how they are going to feel, I didn't want them to go through that."

Alvarez and Rowland spent several days caring for the elderly residents of Valley Springs Manor until the fire department and sheriff took over.

The incident led to legislation in California known as the Residential Care for the Elderly Reform Act of 2014.

"If I would've left, I think that would have been on my conscience for a very long time," says Rowland.

Audio produced for Morning Edition by Jud Esty-Kendall.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; US: California
KEYWORDS: alzheimers; assistedliving; conscience; dementia; goodguys; nursinghome
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1 posted on 11/25/2014 7:30:42 AM PST by beaversmom
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2 posted on 11/25/2014 7:31:42 AM PST by beaversmom
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Reminds me of that episode of walking dead where staff took over a retirement home.


3 posted on 11/25/2014 7:33:28 AM PST by stuck_in_new_orleans
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To: beaversmom

There are some decent people in this country.

God bless them!

We hear so much about the ones who torch cars and loot strip mall businesses.

We don’t hear often about those who help the elderly and make their lives easier.

They are our heroes.


4 posted on 11/25/2014 7:35:55 AM PST by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives In My Heart Forever)
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To: beaversmom

Two of the good guys.Now find the people responsible for closing the place like that and put them in jail.


5 posted on 11/25/2014 7:37:08 AM PST by Farmer Dean (stop worrying about what they want to do to you,start thinking about what you want to do to them)
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To: beaversmom

My mother just passed away at home - a year after a stroke, some time spent in a nursing home and rehab.

I learned a lot about the hairball of rules and payments that is our health-care system and end of life health care.

I do not doubt this could happen


6 posted on 11/25/2014 7:38:24 AM PST by PGR88
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To: beaversmom

Good men. I wish we could package their sense of responsibility and distribute it world wide


7 posted on 11/25/2014 7:38:29 AM PST by muir_redwoods ("He is a very shallow critic who cannot see an eternal rebel in the heart of a conservative." G.K .C)
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To: beaversmom

God bless them both.


8 posted on 11/25/2014 7:38:43 AM PST by LostInBayport (When there are more people riding in the cart than there are pulling it, the cart stops moving...)
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To: goldstategop

Definitely...need more stories like this highlighted and celebrated.


9 posted on 11/25/2014 7:39:16 AM PST by beaversmom
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To: beaversmom

Would be nice to see someone step forward with some formal training for these two, so they could move up from their current careers. They obviously have the right mindset, something apparently missing from the actual “licensed” caregivers.


10 posted on 11/25/2014 7:39:18 AM PST by Little Pig
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To: beaversmom

Two unlikely angels.


11 posted on 11/25/2014 7:39:26 AM PST by Blood of Tyrants (Good Muslims, like good Nazis or good liberals, are terrible human beings.)
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To: beaversmom

God bless them both.


12 posted on 11/25/2014 7:40:00 AM PST by Mercat ("The sisters did not want to save the world. Someone already had.")
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These men are obviously race-traitors.
13 posted on 11/25/2014 7:40:39 AM PST by E. Pluribus Unum (Any energy source that requires a subsidy is, by definition, "unsustainable.")
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Good men. I wish we could package their sense of responsibility and distribute it world wide.

Wouldn't that be nice!?

14 posted on 11/25/2014 7:40:50 AM PST by beaversmom
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Way to Go Men!


15 posted on 11/25/2014 7:44:27 AM PST by defconw (If not now, WHEN?)
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What wonderful men.


16 posted on 11/25/2014 7:45:21 AM PST by Andyman (The truth shall make you FReep.)
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To: stuck_in_new_orleans

OMG ROFL That too came to my mind when reading the story and the pic of Rowland and Alvarez. The episode was called “Vatos” I bekieve.


17 posted on 11/25/2014 7:47:34 AM PST by Patriot Babe
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To: Patriot Babe

*believe


18 posted on 11/25/2014 7:50:15 AM PST by Patriot Babe
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To: beaversmom

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’

“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ “ —Matthew 25:35-40


19 posted on 11/25/2014 7:51:12 AM PST by Hoffer Rand (Bear His image. Bring His message. Be the Church.)
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To: beaversmom

blurry monitor problem.

Thanks for the uplift. Just what I needed as a counterweight to the evil coming out of Ferguson.

Thanks and praise to GOD for the goodness He instilled in these kind men. GOD’s blessings on them here in our temporary home, and beyond.


20 posted on 11/25/2014 7:51:25 AM PST by Nervous Tick (There is no "allah" but satan, and mohammed is his demon)
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