Posted on 07/05/2004 11:54:23 AM PDT by Salvation
by Marcellino D'Ambrosio, Ph.D. |
The Sign of Grace |
07/05/04 |
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To some, being Italian-American means overindulging in pasta and joking about tough guys. But being Italian means being heir to a rich tradition stretching back before the Caesars. Included are philosophers like Seneca, poets like Dante, artists such as Michelangelo, and saints like Francis of Assisi. |
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Here goes.
Last Friday I went to my 91 year old Grandmother's funeral. It was a High Mass in a church that was about 55 years old. They were one of the founding families. My grandmother and grandfather donated a mosaic of the Holy Mother. My grandparents were also part of the Altar and Rosary Society. My dad and uncle were 2 of the original 4 Altar Boys.
Anyway, I left the Mass feeling WHOLE. Okay with the whole thing. I wish I could adequately explain the feeling of comfort being in the Church at that time. Being part of the spoken prayers. Taking communion beside my Grandmother's casket covered with the while Cloth. (Don't know the name of it). I love the smell of incense, the feeling that you are part of something Sacred.
I know that some will dismiss it as "emotion" but the feeling of being part of something more was overwhelming. Being part of the Promise of Christ.
The only down side was my younger half brother who has probably never been in a Catholic Church in his life went to Communion because everyone else did. I asked him about it later and he said "I'm Catholic on one side and Christian on the other." I pointed out that being Catholic was being Christian. He just said "whatever".
And the simple fact that no one ever told us we were supposed to do it.
That feeling of belonging is one of the reasons all of us are drawn to the Catholic Church.
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Apostolic
It sounds as though the service was beautiful and holy. God bless you in your grief.
Darn, I was told the significance of the thumb kissing but it slips my mind at this moment.
**You make a cross with your thumb and forefinger**
This makes sense to me.
The Maronite Church is the only one among the Eastern Churches that has always maintained its bonds with Rome and the Successor of St. Peter. In fact, in 517, as controversy continued to rage over the decisions of the Council of Chalcedon (451) regarding Christ as true God and true Man, persecution of the Maronites broke out which resulted in the martyrdom of 350 Maronite monks on account of their defense of the Councils decrees.
Here is something else you have probably never heard.
The Divine Liturgy of the Mass traces its roots to Antioch, where the disciples were first called Christians (Acts 11:26). St. Peter fled to Antioch when a persecution broke out in Jerusalem, resulting in the martyrdom of St. James (cf. Acts 12). According to tradition, St. Peter founded the Church at Antioch and became its first bishop (cf. Eusebius, History of the Church, III, 36). The early Maronites were the direct descendants of the people who received their faith from the Apostle Peter.
Shortly after the time of the Apostles, while abiding by our Lords command, Do this in memory of me, a liturgy developed in Antioch which exists today in the Maronite rite. The overall characteristic of this liturgical tradition is a strong Trinitarian expression, coupled with emphasis on Jesus Christ as true God and true Man. The Maronite liturgy also retains certain aspects of the ancient liturgy of the Old Testament. For example, at the Consecration, the priest tips the chalice in the four directions of the compass to symbolize the shedding of Christs blood for the entire universe, which recalls the practice of sprinkling the four corners of the altar with the blood of the sacrificial lamb. From this ancient and rich spirituality, which cultivates a living spirit of adoration for the Eucharist, many saints have been raised up from among the Maronites.
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Bump!
"And when is it appropriate to make the sign of the cross?"
We also make the sign of the cross when tempted to sin.
Could any of you tell me what the Communion protocol is for non-Catholics attending a Catholic church?
I'm not sure what we're supposed to do to let the priest know that we aren't taking it.
Just do not walk up for communion. Get up to let the others out of the pew, but then sit back down.
If you feel you absolutely must walk up with the others to the front of the church, you can cross/fold your arms across your chest and the priest should just give you a blessing. This is what some Catholics do when we are not in the state or grace necessary to receive. However, in some areas, the signal for not receiving is putting your right hand on your shoulder (or so I have heard). As it varies from place to place and I do not see it done very often, I just remain in my pew when not receiving so as to avoid confusion.
Also, I don't walk up to receive a blessing because I may wind up in front of an extraordinary minister of the Eucharist and it is not proper for them to bless others.
Thank you. I wasn't sure what to do and wanted to save us possible embarrassment.
What an astute and beautiful testimony to time honored, solid, tradition! Thank you for posting this.
You can go forward for a blessing if you wish or remain in the pew. When going up in the Communion line, simply cross your arms over your chest touching each should with the opposite hand and you will receive a blessing from the priest.
**Also, I don't walk up to receive a blessing because I may wind up in front of an extraordinary minister of the Eucharist and it is not proper for them to bless others.**
This is new to me; care to clarify your statement?
A priest will make the sign of the Cross in the air in front of the person who is not receiving the Eucharist as a blessing. When lay people are acting as ministers of the Eucharist, they should not do this. However, sometimes they do not realize this, and they will make the sing of the Cross in the manner of the priest. Unfortunately, this mistake happens rather frequently.
I apologize because I also made a mistake in my last post. Lay people may bless others, as parents often do for their children, but just not by making the sign of the cross in the air. There's egg on my face!
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