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Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity
telegraph UK ^
| Saturday, January 27, 2007
| Stewart Payne
Posted on 01/27/2007 9:04:27 AM PST by do the dhue
A young disabled man who receives care for his life-limiting illness at a hospice run by a nun spoke yesterday of his decision to use a prostitute to experience sex before he dies.
Sister Frances Dominica gave her support to 22-year-old Nick Wallis, who was born with Duchenne muscular dystrophy. Sufferers usually die by their thirties.
Mr Wallis told staff at the Douglas House hospice in Oxford that he wanted to experience sexual intercourse. He explained that he had hoped to form an intimate and loving relationship with a woman, but his disability had acted as a barrier.
He told The Daily Telegraph: "It was a decision two years in the making and I discussed it with my carers and my parents. Telling my mother and father was the hardest part, but in the end they gave me their support.
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KEYWORDS: deadhead; dyingman; hahaha; hospice; lapetitemort; laugh; moralabsolutes; prostitution; sex; sick; sicksick; sicksicksick; sicksicksicksick; virginity; weird
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To: do the dhue
To: samiam1972
A man that can control those urges for his future wife makes him the strongest and most desirable man out there. Comparing a male human to a male animal is a huge put-down to men all over the world. Saying you expect nothing less of them is offensive...
AND DOESN'T HOLD THEM TO THE LEADERSHIP/HEADSHIP RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. Thus the 'why buy a cow when milk is so cheap' school of thought is so sadly often shared among those whom women should be able to trust to defend their honor--instead, they steal it. Men are bigger supporters of abortion than are women.
But it's clear that, unless one has a renewing of the mind, they will go for the immediate gratification, self-indulgence. My own mind is being continually renewed by meditating on God's Word. I'm waiting for my wife, gladly.
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posted on
01/27/2007 1:49:05 PM PST
by
The Spirit Of Allegiance
(Public Employees: Honor Your Oaths! Defend the Constitution from Enemies--Foreign and Domestic!)
To: Salgak
Prostitution IS legal. We call them "politicians", tho.... Exactly, but they screw US for money!
323
posted on
01/27/2007 1:50:08 PM PST
by
unixfox
(The 13th Amendment Abolished Slavery, The 16th Amendment Reinstated It !)
To: Hildy
Not at all, Hildy. I'm not trying to make a male feel guilty for feeling a sexual urge. By your own logic, though, it's wrong for a male to treat the female as if
she had no innate yearning to invest herself in a long-lasting monogamous relationship: to treat her as if she were (emotionally) a male with a vagina.
Or even stranger, a kind of sexual vending machine: a softly-upholstered home therapeutic device with a vagina.
324
posted on
01/27/2007 2:23:26 PM PST
by
Mrs. Don-o
(Do not accept a "truth" that comes without love, or a "love" that comes without truth. Edith Stein)
To: ishabibble
What's sad is this man stuck on this planet in the shape he's in and people here who think it's terrible he should have sex like everybody else before he dies. That is what is sad.
More power to him, and God bless him!
God Bless the people who helped him!
325
posted on
01/27/2007 2:25:57 PM PST
by
Confed
To: word_warrior_bob
The rubbing of empty bodies is not this. Not even close.
_____ "But it's a darn good substitute in the meantime!" No, it's not. It makes you more and more hard-shelled, more and more self-entrapped. It makes you unfit for the self-donation that is love. It makes you intimacy-disabled.
326
posted on
01/27/2007 2:27:53 PM PST
by
Mrs. Don-o
(Do not accept a "truth" that comes without love, or a "love" that comes without truth. Edith Stein)
To: do the dhue
A wonderful way to prepare a young man for eternity and his meeting with Almighty God; by helping him to break the 6th commandment.
To: Candor7
"You have described my sentiments exactly Mrs. Don-o" Thank you, I'm truly pleased to hear that. But the quote wasn't my words. It was from Pope Benedict XVI's first encyclical, "God is Love."
328
posted on
01/27/2007 2:33:03 PM PST
by
Mrs. Don-o
(Do not accept a "truth" that comes without love, or a "love" that comes without truth. Edith Stein)
To: Mrs. Don-o
The rubbing of empty bodies is not this. Not even close.
_____
"But it's a darn good substitute in the meantime!"
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No, it's not. It makes you more and more hard-shelled, more and more self-entrapped. It makes you unfit for the self-donation that is love. It makes you intimacy-disabled.
____
Hardly, it just makes me an experienced love machine for that one special lady.
329
posted on
01/27/2007 2:39:12 PM PST
by
word_warrior_bob
(You can now see my amazing doggie and new puppy on my homepage!! Come say hello to Jake & Sonny)
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
Beautiful: the bride and groom lighting the one candle, and then blowing out their own.
We heat our house with a wood stove,and I often think of how cheerful the flames are, how it makes your heart happy ad your whole body warm. Illumination and warmth and life --- vs the kind of blaze that burns your house down, leaving but smoke and ash and loss and death.
So this is what true sexual love in marriage is about: the beautiful use of fire.
330
posted on
01/27/2007 2:40:24 PM PST
by
Mrs. Don-o
(Do not accept a "truth" that comes without love, or a "love" that comes without truth. Edith Stein)
To: Mrs. Don-o
Or even stranger, a kind of sexual vending machine: a softly-upholstered home therapeutic device with a vagina.
_____
If it doesn't talk I'll buy one of these immediately.
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posted on
01/27/2007 2:41:06 PM PST
by
word_warrior_bob
(You can now see my amazing doggie and new puppy on my homepage!! Come say hello to Jake & Sonny)
To: Mrs. Don-o
I strongly suspect you're right. But I think we'd have to poll the saints in heaven and the damned to get a sufficient sample of people with enough experience to know what they're talking about.
Dawg's first law of sex: The gonad-bone connected to the heart-bone. This is one of the principle reaons Juvenivle and Domestic Relations Court will NEVER go out of business. Most men just take longer to learn this than most wimmins do. Most men who manage to stay married for three or more decades begin to get it.
332
posted on
01/27/2007 2:46:48 PM PST
by
Mad Dawg
("It's our humility which makes us great." -- Click and Clack, the Tappet Brothers)
To: The Spirit Of Allegiance
Ah, wonderful. A real man! You are a rarity. A very lucky woman will find you one day! :o)
333
posted on
01/27/2007 2:54:43 PM PST
by
samiam1972
(Live simply so that others may simply live!)
To: paulat
Your screen name is disgusting. So are the pictures you post.
I said I was sorry once. I don't have to say it again and I will stand my ground.
If you are referring to pictures like this:
or
or
and if you found this
offensive, I would question just how Conservative you actually are.
If all or even some of the above is true, then I must say that I am disgusted by your post.
If it is a picture of Laurie Dhue, then give me a break. Some people are pure eye candy, and some are not.
334
posted on
01/27/2007 2:59:46 PM PST
by
do the dhue
(DEM ARE RATS!!!!!)
To: Mrs. Don-o
I know the quote was not your words, you read much better. But you described my feelings about the subject accurately and succinctly. in other words men and women experience what it is like to see the world as their mate does, breifly, in the kind of relationship you speak of, during the act of love. This fact also goes with what you quoted, but it is not commonly known in most circles.
It is from this exchange that mental, physical and spiritual healing and grace can occur. So indeed, the hand of God is involved in such a relationship, for it is in this relationship that grace can be received on many levels, from God.The relatinship can open us spiritually to properly receive that blessing, which is always there. like a river that never stops flowing. That is what sacremental marriage is all about, but we are rarely taught that when we are young. We should be. Instead we are given a bunch of rules to follow which may not make much sense. Mistakes are made.
I believe that we each unconsciously yearn for that relationship to happen, and the young man in this article seeks it, albeit in the wrong place perhaps. But he knows what it should be and his spirit likely drives him to seek it. Men therefore yearn spiritually for their perfect mate as do women. I see no wrong in what was attempted by the church here, its just that they may not know what they are doing, sort of fumbling around in the dark. I am sure that a woman exists who would fall in love with this poor lad, and they should be helping him to find her instead of getting it on commercially. That would be my only criticism.
335
posted on
01/27/2007 3:24:32 PM PST
by
Candor7
To: BlessedBeGod
Yeah, kinda makes you wonder? No wonder God's ticked off at us.
336
posted on
01/27/2007 3:26:39 PM PST
by
Marysecretary
(GOD IS STILL IN CONTROL.)
To: Candor7
"Indeed Ecce Homo. Perhaps if he had sex frequently with the right lady, he might fully recover his health. It has been known to happen."I know for a fact it gets rid of headaches. Orgasms release pain killing endoephins. I am hopelessly addicted.
337
posted on
01/27/2007 3:45:31 PM PST
by
Feiny
(I'd rather be rich than stupid.)
To: feinswinesuksass
meh
spellin is jess knot mah thang
or ees eet tiping?
signed,
confusedshous
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posted on
01/27/2007 3:48:48 PM PST
by
Feiny
(I'd rather be rich than stupid.)
To: word_warrior_bob
Rub any empty bodies today?
339
posted on
01/27/2007 3:51:16 PM PST
by
Feiny
(I'd rather be rich than stupid.)
To: feinswinesuksass
Rub any empty bodies today?
____
No but I'll be rubbing against a 36-34-36 later this evening, it's quite full I might add.
340
posted on
01/27/2007 4:00:40 PM PST
by
word_warrior_bob
(You can now see my amazing doggie and new puppy on my homepage!! Come say hello to Jake & Sonny)
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