Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity

telegraph UK ^ | Saturday, January 27, 2007 | Stewart Payne

[do the dhue]

A young disabled man who receives care for his life-limiting illness at a hospice run by a nun spoke yesterday of his decision to use a prostitute to experience sex before he dies.

Sister Frances Dominica gave her support to 22-year-old Nick Wallis, who was born with Duchenne muscular dystrophy. Sufferers usually die by their thirties.

Mr Wallis told staff at the Douglas House hospice in Oxford that he wanted to experience sexual intercourse. He explained that he had hoped to form an intimate and loving relationship with a woman, but his disability had acted as a barrier.

He told The Daily Telegraph: "It was a decision two years in the making and I discussed it with my carers and my parents. Telling my mother and father was the hardest part, but in the end they gave me their support.

[Princip. Conservative]

This is actually sick.

[The Spirit Of Allegiance]

A man that can control those urges for his future wife makes him the strongest and most desirable man out there. Comparing a male human to a male animal is a huge put-down to men all over the world. Saying you expect nothing less of them is offensive...

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AND DOESN'T HOLD THEM TO THE LEADERSHIP/HEADSHIP RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE RELATIONSHIP. Thus the 'why buy a cow when milk is so cheap' school of thought is so sadly often shared among those whom women should be able to trust to defend their honor--instead, they steal it. Men are bigger supporters of abortion than are women.

But it's clear that, unless one has a renewing of the mind, they will go for the immediate gratification, self-indulgence. My own mind is being continually renewed by meditating on God's Word. I'm waiting for my wife, gladly.

[unixfox]

Prostitution IS legal. We call them "politicians", tho....

Exactly, but they screw US for money!

[Mrs. Don-o]

Not at all, Hildy. I'm not trying to make a male feel guilty for feeling a sexual urge. By your own logic, though, it's wrong for a male to treat the female as if she had no innate yearning to invest herself in a long-lasting monogamous relationship: to treat her as if she were (emotionally) a male with a vagina.

Or even stranger, a kind of sexual vending machine: a softly-upholstered home therapeutic device with a vagina.

[Confed]

What's sad is this man stuck on this planet in the shape he's in and people here who think it's terrible he should have sex like everybody else before he dies. That is what is sad.
More power to him, and God bless him!
God Bless the people who helped him!

[Mrs. Don-o]

The rubbing of empty bodies is not this. Not even close.
_____ "But it's a darn good substitute in the meantime!"

No, it's not. It makes you more and more hard-shelled, more and more self-entrapped. It makes you unfit for the self-donation that is love. It makes you intimacy-disabled.

[marshmallow]

A wonderful way to prepare a young man for eternity and his meeting with Almighty God; by helping him to break the 6th commandment.

[Mrs. Don-o]

"You have described my sentiments exactly Mrs. Don-o"

Thank you, I'm truly pleased to hear that. But the quote wasn't my words. It was from Pope Benedict XVI's first encyclical, "God is Love."

[word_warrior_bob]

The rubbing of empty bodies is not this. Not even close.

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"But it's a darn good substitute in the meantime!"

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No, it's not. It makes you more and more hard-shelled, more and more self-entrapped. It makes you unfit for the self-donation that is love. It makes you intimacy-disabled.

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Hardly, it just makes me an experienced love machine for that one special lady.

[Mrs. Don-o]

Beautiful: the bride and groom lighting the one candle, and then blowing out their own.

We heat our house with a wood stove,and I often think of how cheerful the flames are, how it makes your heart happy ad your whole body warm. Illumination and warmth and life --- vs the kind of blaze that burns your house down, leaving but smoke and ash and loss and death.

So this is what true sexual love in marriage is about: the beautiful use of fire.

[word_warrior_bob]

Or even stranger, a kind of sexual vending machine: a softly-upholstered home therapeutic device with a vagina.

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If it doesn't talk I'll buy one of these immediately.

[Mad Dawg]

I strongly suspect you're right. But I think we'd have to poll the saints in heaven and the damned to get a sufficient sample of people with enough experience to know what they're talking about.

Dawg's first law of sex: The gonad-bone connected to the heart-bone. This is one of the principle reaons Juvenivle and Domestic Relations Court will NEVER go out of business. Most men just take longer to learn this than most wimmins do. Most men who manage to stay married for three or more decades begin to get it.

[samiam1972]

Ah, wonderful. A real man! You are a rarity. A very lucky woman will find you one day! :o)

[do the dhue]

Your screen name is disgusting. So are the pictures you post.

I said I was sorry once. I don't have to say it again and I will stand my ground.

If you are referring to pictures like this:

or or

and if you found this offensive, I would question just how Conservative you actually are.

If all or even some of the above is true, then I must say that I am disgusted by your post.

If it is a picture of Laurie Dhue, then give me a break. Some people are pure eye candy, and some are not.

[Candor7]

I know the quote was not your words, you read much better. But you described my feelings about the subject accurately and succinctly. in other words men and women experience what it is like to see the world as their mate does, breifly, in the kind of relationship you speak of, during the act of love. This fact also goes with what you quoted, but it is not commonly known in most circles.

It is from this exchange that mental, physical and spiritual healing and grace can occur. So indeed, the hand of God is involved in such a relationship, for it is in this relationship that grace can be received on many levels, from God.The relatinship can open us spiritually to properly receive that blessing, which is always there. like a river that never stops flowing. That is what sacremental marriage is all about, but we are rarely taught that when we are young. We should be. Instead we are given a bunch of rules to follow which may not make much sense. Mistakes are made.

I believe that we each unconsciously yearn for that relationship to happen, and the young man in this article seeks it, albeit in the wrong place perhaps. But he knows what it should be and his spirit likely drives him to seek it. Men therefore yearn spiritually for their perfect mate as do women. I see no wrong in what was attempted by the church here, its just that they may not know what they are doing, sort of fumbling around in the dark. I am sure that a woman exists who would fall in love with this poor lad, and they should be helping him to find her instead of getting it on commercially. That would be my only criticism.

[Marysecretary]

Yeah, kinda makes you wonder? No wonder God's ticked off at us.

[Feiny]

"Indeed Ecce Homo. Perhaps if he had sex frequently with the right lady, he might fully recover his health. It has been known to happen."

I know for a fact it gets rid of headaches. Orgasms release pain killing endoephins. I am hopelessly addicted.

[Feiny]

meh

spellin is jess knot mah thang

or ees eet tiping?

signed,
confusedshous

[Feiny]

Rub any empty bodies today?

[word_warrior_bob]

Rub any empty bodies today?

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No but I'll be rubbing against a 36-34-36 later this evening, it's quite full I might add.