The rubbing of empty bodies is not this. Not even close.
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"But it's a darn good substitute in the meantime!"
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No, it's not. It makes you more and more hard-shelled, more and more self-entrapped. It makes you unfit for the self-donation that is love. It makes you intimacy-disabled.
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Hardly, it just makes me an experienced love machine for that one special lady.
If the lady's looking for a machine, she can get one with a dozen different circumferences, colors and speeds, and a rechargeable battery.
A "one special lady" isn't looking for an "experinced love machine." She's looking for a man -- a whole man, one with a heart, soul, mind and body, all connected together and complete in every detail.
A man who's making it with a lot of different women, is a man with a condom on his heart. He's not only not making love, he isn't even making contact.
She'd be better off, heart-wise, with the battery model.