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Supporting Boys or Girls When the Line Isn’t Clear (BARF ALERT?)
NY Times ^ | December 2, 2006 | PATRICIA LEIGH BROWN

Posted on 12/01/2006 9:29:24 PM PST by fgoodwin

Until recently, many children who did not conform to gender norms in their clothing or behavior and identified intensely with the opposite sex were steered to psychoanalysis or behavior modification.

But as advocates gain ground for what they call gender-identity rights, evidenced most recently by New York City’s decision to let people alter the sex listed on their birth certificates, a major change is taking place among schools and families. Children as young as 5 who display predispositions to dress like the opposite sex are being supported by a growing number of young parents, educators and mental health professionals.

Doctors, some of them from the top pediatric hospitals, have begun to advise families to let these children be “who they are” to foster a sense of security and self-esteem. They are motivated, in part, by the high incidence of depression, suicidal feelings and self-mutilation that has been common in past generations of transgender children. Legal trends suggest that schools are now required to respect parents’ decisions.

“First we became sensitive to two mommies and two daddies,” said Reynaldo Almeida, the director of the Aurora School, a progressive private school in Oakland. “Now it’s kids who come to school who aren’t gender typical.”

The supportive attitudes are far easier to find in traditionally tolerant areas of the country like San Francisco than in other parts, but even in those places there is fierce debate over how best to handle the children.

Cassandra Reese, a first-grade teacher outside Boston, recalled that fellow teachers were unnerved when a young boy showed up in a skirt. “They said, ‘This is not normal,’ and, ‘It’s the parents’ fault,’ ” Ms. Reese said. “They didn’t see children as sophisticated enough to verbalize their feelings.”

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Front Page News; Miscellaneous; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: childabuse; crossdressing; gayagenda; genderidentity; glbtq; homosexualagenda; lambda; nambla; pedophiles; pedophilia; perversion; sissies; transgender
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1 posted on 12/01/2006 9:29:27 PM PST by fgoodwin
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To: fgoodwin

This nation is going to die from rot, we won't have to be conquered.


2 posted on 12/01/2006 9:33:56 PM PST by SWAMPSNIPER (BUAIDH NO BAS)
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To: fgoodwin
Until recently, many children who did not conform to gender norms in their clothing or behavior and identified intensely with the opposite sex were steered to psychoanalysis or behavior modification.

Who's fault is it now?
3 posted on 12/01/2006 9:35:52 PM PST by kinoxi
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To: fgoodwin
"...Children as young as 5 who display predispositions to dress like the opposite sex are being supported by a growing number of young parents, educators and mental health professionals..."

My God.

4 posted on 12/01/2006 9:36:30 PM PST by rlmorel (Islamofacism: It is all fun and games until someone puts an eye out. Or chops off a head.)
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To: rlmorel

Remember the good ole days when a degenerate was called a degenerate? Of course I speak of the NY Slimes.


5 posted on 12/01/2006 9:38:21 PM PST by samadams2000 (Somebody important make....THE CALL!)
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To: fgoodwin
Children as young as 5 who display predispositions to dress like the opposite sex are being supported by a growing number of young parents, educators and mental health professionals.

No doubt those same young parents, educators and mental health professionals will do their damndest to make sure that any five-year-old who claims that he wants to be a fireman or cowboy when he grows up gets steered towards the fireman or cowboy track in all of his schooling. NYC already has special schools for children exhibiting alternative gender identities - so, where are all the special fireman and cowboy schools?

6 posted on 12/01/2006 9:39:03 PM PST by Zeppo (We live in the Age of Stupidity. [Dennis Prager])
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To: fgoodwin

"Cassandra Reese, a first-grade teacher outside Boston, recalled that fellow teachers were unnerved when a young boy showed up in a skirt. “They said, ‘This is not normal,’ and, ‘It’s the parents’ fault,’ ” Ms. Reese said. "

And those teachers were right. It is the parents fault.


7 posted on 12/01/2006 9:41:18 PM PST by SmoothTalker
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To: fgoodwin

Child abuse.


8 posted on 12/01/2006 9:41:36 PM PST by mhx
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To: rlmorel

The queers have an interest in this, since most male children who have a predisposition to dress as the opposite sex grow up to be queer. It's all part of their evil agenda. And, they increasingly have the support of the law. Yes, this country is going to rot away from within.....


9 posted on 12/01/2006 9:44:02 PM PST by Frank_2001
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To: samadams2000

Basically a queer mouthpiece, and so has the Miami Herald become an extremely queer-friendly paper.


10 posted on 12/01/2006 9:47:49 PM PST by Frank_2001
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To: fgoodwin

Any boy who thinks he bit different is ripe for sexual predators. The schools will encourage this and probably supply the predator.


11 posted on 12/01/2006 9:48:31 PM PST by Always Right
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Recruit them while they are young. Easiest time to convince them they are born that way and just be who they are.


12 posted on 12/01/2006 9:49:31 PM PST by Always Right
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To: Always Right

Gender Identity Rights? WTF? is this? Damn I miss the 80's.


13 posted on 12/01/2006 9:54:40 PM PST by lndrvr1972
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14 posted on 12/01/2006 9:56:23 PM PST by wagglebee ("We are ready for the greatest achievements in the history of freedom." -- President Bush, 1/20/05)
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I demand the right to be in the girls lockerroom! 7th grade would have been more interesting.


15 posted on 12/01/2006 9:56:53 PM PST by Always Right
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LOL you aint kidding!!


16 posted on 12/01/2006 10:02:56 PM PST by lndrvr1972
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To: fgoodwin

What liberals declare to be normal is still considered to be insane by at least 75% of the population. There is still hope.


17 posted on 12/01/2006 10:09:14 PM PST by Mad_Tom_Rackham (Democracy: The worst form of government, except for all the others.)
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To: fgoodwin
Advocacy groups are creating this problem because kids are seeing a great way to rebel. The old ways are no longer shocking to their parents, who pushed the envelope of rebellion a long time ago, so they have to find something new and exciting.

These groups come into the public schools, and put articles in teen magazines, and voila! the kids have discovered something new and exciting about themselves, and this is a 'concern' that needs to be addressed.

18 posted on 12/01/2006 10:12:51 PM PST by SuziQ
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To: Zeppo
No doubt those same young parents, educators and mental health professionals will do their damndest to make sure that any five-year-old who claims that he wants to be a fireman or cowboy when he grows up gets steered towards the fireman or cowboy track in all of his schooling.

And, of course, if the child wants to be a soldier, I'm sure they'll embrace that, too. ;-)

20 posted on 12/01/2006 10:37:40 PM PST by Tired of Taxes (That's taxes, not Texas. I have no beef with TX. NJ has the highest property taxes in the nation.)
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