[ConservativeMan55]

Somebody throw me a bone here.

[Incorrigible]

I write columns for a political website.
I am a staunch conservative, and know more than the average Joe about politics and news.

Something tells me you probably don't listen to what they have to say since it probably seems trivial to you.

PS.  Most college age girls are not only not conservative but not really interested in politics.

[TXnMA]

Every friggin one is either taken or not interested

Maybe it's your language...

[RandallFlagg]

Please be patient. I didn't decide to start a family until I was 30. I was married too early (at 22), but it was a dismal failure.

If you're asking for dating advice, It's been WAY too long for the Flaggster in that department.

Patience....

[Revolting cat!]

I thought you college guys had 'em all. Little did I know! But that's where they all are, aren't they? Maybe you ought to consider sticking around to get a higher degree and then even a higher one if you still don't find her! Then you can become a professer and they'll be all coming at ya!

[I got the rope]

Go to Church...meet a nice girl.

[Question_Assumptions]

Try dating web sites. One of my friends met his wife through a web site. Another friend met his wife through a dating service. Happily married people.

The only warning I'll pass on is from the latter friend. Be careful what you ask for. You don't always want what you think you want. To that, I'll add that it's often better to find your compliment than your equal. And a lot of conservative women are religious and if you don't move in those circles, you are less likely to find them.

Also listen to Incorrigible. You need to listen and most younger women aren't conservative or even political (there is a reason why [A] a lot of young people don't vote and [B] the gender gap has women favoring Democrats). A lot of women need to get married and have children before they become conservative.

[First_Salute]

Ask rintense. She'd probably have some good tips on how to keep your nose to the grindstone.

While you're busy, when you least expect it, a girl, you will find paying attention to you.

The woman picks the man; and that, her observation of your efforts, is often how the good one finds her man.

[areafiftyone]

My goodness you are only 20. Give it time. Join political groups - volunteer for campaigns - go to the book stores. Barnes and Nobles have become great hangouts for people.

[knuthom]

Stop trying. I am serious. Do what interests you, what you feel passionate about. Twenty years old is much too young to get discouraged about this. You will eventually meet the right person.

[Thinkin' Gal]

You're 20. You'll find the right one when you stop looking. Don't rush. 25 will come around soon enough and then you'll slap yourself upside the head for the stupid things you did/said when you were 20. :-)

[Aggie Mama]

Wow, you sound like me at 20. I never dated in hs, and only had a few dates in college until I met dh my senior year. I hope this doesn't sound trite, but pray about it. God has a plan for everything and everyone, even if it doesn't seem like it sometimes. I promise you, there are plenty of women out there that would go head over heels for a guy like you. They are probably thinking the same things that you are right now. =)

It's worth the wait. I'm glad I didn't waste my time on serial dating -- dh was my first and only serious love and I feel blessed for it.

[the_doc]

It's kind of hard to explain, but I wouldn't date the kind of girl who would date you.

[Hoosier-Daddy]

Stop looking and don't worry about it. Focus on becoming successful. You won't have a problem attracting women then. Getting women is like selling: if you act like you need the sale, you most likely won't get it. When you don't need the sale, they come fast, furious and often.

[Senator Pardek]

Feign confidence. It works.

[Sloth]

I know how you feel... most women just want to be treated like dirt. Keep in mind that it only takes ONE woman who is different... and be patient. I just got married 2 months ago, at age 27.

[DouglasKC]

I find it extremely peculiar that the ones that are taken are dating the guy flipping pancakes down at IHOP treating them like S^%&%. Seriously folks...something's happening here, and it ain't buffalo springfield.

This has been a problem for quite a while. You don't want the ones that want men to treat them like dirt. They have problems. You want to hold off, wait, and be patient until the one who loves you and responds to being treated nicely comes along. Unfortunately I married her 20 years ago so you'll have to find someone else. :-)

[cyborg]

Being in your position is better than being a single, 29 year old virgin.. trust me on that one. I'm a conservative, going to school. It never bothered me that I didn't have a boyfriend because I had so much problems. Except now I'm getting lonely and hope God blesses me with a boyfriend.
I understand your plight. Don't look too hard though. Sometimes when you stop looking, they come.

[RichardW]

Don't go looking in the bars. Church is probably a good place to start. I am not religious myself but I'll bet a good number of girls there are looking for a mate although I don't know this for a fact. Don't let them fool you, they like sex like anyone else. Just use good sense. There are a lot of free web sites, you could investigate that. I do know of some folks who have successfully found their mates there. Work relations are always kind of iffy and probably best forgotten unless it is just a perfect fit. Find something of a common interest. Lot of women at the race tracks. Maybe you could get there and look in the camp grounds where they congregate the week before the race. My wife and I met through a mutual friend. Been married 30 years.

Let us know how this turned out. We may need your suggestions ourselves some time in the future.

[brbethke]

I recommend you read this World Net Daily column by Vox Day:

http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=30830

Followed by this one: http://www.worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=30959