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Why a Doctor Told Gloria Steinem: ‘You Must Promise Me Two Things’
NY times ^ | September 3,2026 | Jill Filipovic

Posted on 09/07/2026 10:45:13 AM PDT by Morgana

When Gloria Steinem was 22 years old and a recent graduate of Smith College, she found herself sitting in a doctor’s office in London, asking for an abortion. Not long before, she had slipped off her engagement ring, tucked it under her fiancé’s pillow and, in her words, fled. She was headed to India on a fellowship, leaving behind the comfortable domestic life expected of her, and walking into a future that must have looked awfully fuzzy even without an unwanted pregnancy blurring her path forward.

This was 1957, and elective abortion was illegal in both the United States and Britain (not to mention much of the rest of the world). Ms. Steinem managed to find a doctor who agreed to help her anyway. She dedicated her 2015 memoir to him, recalling what he told her: “You must promise me two things. First, you will not tell anyone my name. Second, you will do what you want to do with your life.”

By the time Ms. Steinem died this week at the age of 92, she had done more than anyone could have possibly imagined with her life. Among her biggest accomplishments was enabling millions of other women to do what they wanted with their lives.

At the core of that work was reproductive freedom, as she called it: the right to have sex for pleasure without shame and to say no without grave consequence, to use contraception to prevent unintended pregnancies, to have access to safe and legal abortion, to have children by choice in safety and with support. She, and the second-wave feminist movement of which she was a part, succeeded in many of those aims. Premarital sex has been largely stripped of its stigma.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Society
KEYWORDS: abortion; gloriasteinem; prolife

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After reading this, the guy she ditched back in 1957, the one she was engaged to, he dodged a bullet.
1 posted on 09/07/2026 10:45:13 AM PDT by Morgana
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To: Morgana

Smith College, there’s the problem right there.


2 posted on 09/07/2026 10:48:38 AM PDT by Fungi
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To: little jeremiah; SaveFerris; Red Badger; No name given ; nickcarraway; Steely Tom; metmom

From the article:

“In the years after Roe, women flooded into colleges and the work force. Millions were able to do what they wanted with their lives. They became doctors and lawyers, artists and entrepreneurs, dedicated mothers, aunties and friends....”

Someone anyone tell me this is not true and this is the first time I’m learning about it.


3 posted on 09/07/2026 10:50:51 AM PDT by Morgana ( The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah only let animals on the boat.)
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To: Morgana

Didn’t give the father much of a choice…

Let alone the baby. A selfish woman who made poor choices and led a narcissistic life.


4 posted on 09/07/2026 10:51:20 AM PDT by Skywise
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To: Fungi; All

Since she assumed room temperature and I’ve been posting these no one has had any thing good to say about Smith College. What is their back story?


5 posted on 09/07/2026 10:54:19 AM PDT by Morgana ( The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah only let animals on the boat.)
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To: Skywise

“Let alone the baby. A selfish woman who made poor choices and led a narcissistic life.”

That’s why he dodged a bullet.


6 posted on 09/07/2026 10:56:01 AM PDT by Morgana ( The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah only let animals on the boat.)
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I'll take "Things that never happened" for $500 Alex.

The funny thing is that she could have carried the baby to term and still done what ever she wanted with her life.

Adoption was a thing even in 1957.

And the baby could have done what ever he or she wanted with their life as well. If he or she had not been brutally murdered.

Once that happens there are no more options.

7 posted on 09/07/2026 10:56:52 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (I just want FReepers to READ THE ARTICLE. And then think 30 secs before pounding keyboard.)
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To: Morgana

Encouraging and enabling others to kill their children is a very bad thing. Some folks gonna have an awful lot of explaining to do.


8 posted on 09/07/2026 11:10:42 AM PDT by Delta 21 (None of us are descendants of fearful men!)
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To: Morgana

And when it was too late how many of these women realized they made a big mistake??

Most of us are wired to nurture no matter how much we might think we want to digress.


9 posted on 09/07/2026 11:11:10 AM PDT by Aria (Voted for Trump 2016, 2020 & 10/22/2024 )
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To: Morgana; Fungi; lightman; Navy Patriot

Yes, that guy dodged a bullet!

And there is nothing intrinsically wrong with Smith College, which has produced several First Ladies, plus BA graduates Julia Child and Julie Nixon Eisenhower! (I received my bachelor’s degree from MIT.)


10 posted on 09/07/2026 11:13:44 AM PDT by Honorary Serb (Kosovo is Serbia! Free Srpska! Abolish ICTY!)
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To: Morgana
Hypocrite:


11 posted on 09/07/2026 11:14:47 AM PDT by Albion Wilde (The first duty of the American government is to protect American citizens, not illegal aliens. --DJT)
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To: Albion Wilde

Had no idea she said that too. Abortion kills more kids than guns.


12 posted on 09/07/2026 11:19:17 AM PDT by Morgana ( The more I get to know people, the more I realize why Noah only let animals on the boat.)
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To: Morgana

Yes it would be like having a sheep herder telling you what to do all the time.

Listen to me damn it......................................


13 posted on 09/07/2026 11:24:53 AM PDT by Vaduz (NEVER TRUST A DEMOCRAT)
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To: Morgana

Correlation doesn’t prove causation..........


14 posted on 09/07/2026 11:26:55 AM PDT by Red Badger (Iryna Zarutska, May 22, 2002 Kyiv, Ukraine – August 22, 2025 Charlotte, North Carolina Say her name)
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To: Morgana

So she was engaged, but not yet married with her pregnancy.

Clearly she broke off the engagement. But did her fiance ever know that she aborted their baby?

Maybe part of this is she was afraid that he would have wanted their baby, and he may have wanted to move up their marriage plans.


15 posted on 09/07/2026 11:28:03 AM PDT by Dilbert San Diego
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16 posted on 09/07/2026 11:35:24 AM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (Israel First. America... who cares?)
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To: Skywise

And now has all of eternity to suffer the consequences of her selfish lifetime of godless hedonism.


17 posted on 09/07/2026 11:36:37 AM PDT by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as )
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To: Morgana
Doing what you want with your life isn't the same as doing whatever you like in life.
18 posted on 09/07/2026 11:39:32 AM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: Morgana

She’s talking to Jesus now with 70,000,000 aborted children asking her why.


19 posted on 09/07/2026 11:50:46 AM PDT by Karliner (Heb 4:12 Rom 8:28 Rev 3, "...This is the end of the beginning." Churchill)
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To: Morgana

Oh for God’s sake.


20 posted on 09/07/2026 11:55:42 AM PDT by HIDEK6 (God bless Donald Trump)
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