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Virginia Mom Gets 6-Month Suspended Jail Sentence for Letting 5-Year-Old Walk to the Pond
Reason ^ | September 02, 2026 | Lenore Skenazy

Posted on 09/03/2026 7:48:38 PM PDT by Red Badger

The government also placed Karyann Parkinson on its child abuse and neglect registry, where she will remain for seven years.

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A mom of five was convicted last week of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Her offense: allowing her 5-year-old son to walk about a half-mile by himself in their gated community.

Until very recently, Karyann Parkinson lived in leafy Williamsburg, Virginia. She and her husband, Dallin, moved there from Utah so Parkinson could attend William and Mary Law School.

In June, when Parkinson was preparing for the bar—and also happened to be eight months pregnant with her fifth child—she and her then-youngest, Sam, went for a bike ride, as they often do. They stopped for her son's favorite activity: collecting goose feathers from the path near their community pond. When they got home, he asked if he could walk back and get some more.

Parkinson said yes. It's a short walk, along a sidewalk separated from the street by 10 feet of grass. Sam would have to cross two streets with crosswalks, which she'd seen him do safely hundreds of times—including six times that morning, she says. Off he went while she made lunch.

A passerby saw Sam and alerted security. One of the community's security guards escorted the boy back and gave Parkinson an earful. Pretty soon there were three cop cars, just as many cops, a security vehicle, and two Child Protective Services (CPS) workers at Parkinson's door.

CPS ended up investigating her for abuse and neglect.

The cops, meanwhile, charged her with contributing to the delinquency of a minor. CPS found the allegations substantiated and placed Parkinson on the state's child abuse and neglect registry. She will remain there for seven years.

The ordeal reached its nadir last week when a judge convicted Parkinson of the delinquency of a minor charge, a first-degree misdemeanor. This comes with a six-month jail sentence.

While the judge immediately suspended the sentence, pending good behavior and compliance with CPS' conditions, the conviction remains. Parkinson assumes this means she will not be able to volunteer in her kids' schools. She fears it could also mean she will not get her law license.

So let's look at how the events unfolded.

Parkinson is no newbie to parenting. She graduated Brigham Young University in 2012 with a degree in family science. She then became a family life educator and spent three years as a live-in behavioral specialist at a residential treatment center. There, she and her husband, a marriage and family therapist, oversaw the care of 35 girls.

In Virginia, Parkinson spent one summer interning at the Institute for Justice and another working in the law office of former Virginia state Sen. Jill Vogel (R–Winchester). Vogel was actually co-sponsor of the reasonable childhood independence law that passed in Virginia, unanimously, in 2023.

The bill says that neglect is only when you put your child in serious, obvious danger. So what happened?

When the security guard brought Sam back to Parkinson's house, he told the boy that his mom had done something she wasn't supposed to, and that bad people would want to take him if he was out alone. "This scared the crap out of him," Parkinson says now.

She admits she was upset with the guard and asked him where in the homeowners-association rules it says that a child can't walk by himself. The guard said it was against the law anyway and called the police.

When the first cop arrived, Parkinson told him, "I don't have any interest in talking to you." This did not make things go smoother. The cop called for backup and summoned CPS.

At that point, Parkinson asked her husband, who was having lunch with their daughter, to come home. "I told [the authorities] that kids need to be able to take reasonable risks," he says, "in order to grow up non-anxious." CPS responded, he recounts, that "a 5-year-old child can never be unsupervised."

Parkinson admits now that she is embarrassed by her confrontational demeanor. But of course, that was not the primary issue. The issue was whether her son could handle a walk in this community with 24-hour security, a 25-mph speed limit, and three golf courses.

CPS opened an investigation and found Parkinson guilty of a "Level 2 finding" for lack of supervision. That's what put her on the child abuse and neglect registry. The family immediately appealed.

As for the criminal charges: Parkinson believes the "delinquency of a minor" charge was an attempt to bypass Virginia's reasonable childhood independence law.

David DeLugas, founder and executive director of ParentsUSA, a nonprofit that provides pro bono legal help to parents wrongly accused of neglect, scoffed at the charge. "Delinquency?" he asks. "Is the kid going to rob banks at 14 because he collected feathers at age 5?"

At the trial, the security guard, his boss, and the police testified against Parkinson. The CPS worker testified that Sam seemed happy and healthy when she saw him that day. Parkinson's friend testified to Sam's maturity, and that he could be trusted to walk to the pond without going rogue.

The James City County family services specialist assigned to Parkinson's case declined to comment, citing confidentiality requirements. The prosecutor in the Commonwealth Attorney's Office for James City County said the same.

Parkinson's attorney, Andrew Gordon, took the case pro bono and argued that the only real "evidence" against the mom was that Sam was 5, and that, hypothetically, a host of horrible things could have happened.

But of course, a host of horrible things can happen at home or in a car or anywhere. We don't arrest moms for driving their kids to the store, even though they could be hit by someone running a stop sign. Hypothetical dangers are not reason enough to condemn a person. And neither is hypothetical immaturity. No one proved that the boy was incapable of walking a few blocks safely by himself. After all, that would have been difficult to do, seeing as he had already done it without issue.


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1 posted on 09/03/2026 7:48:38 PM PDT by Red Badger
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To: Red Badger

Considering that we closed down the institutions, she needs to learn to protect her kids.


2 posted on 09/03/2026 7:51:01 PM PDT by BobL (Trusting one's doctor is the #1 health mistake one can make.)
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To: BobL

If ahe had murdered him they would have found her innocent.


3 posted on 09/03/2026 7:52:16 PM PDT by Skwor
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To: Red Badger

Well it was poor judgement to let a 5 year old go anywhere alone in this day and age but the level of governmental interference is pretty awful.


4 posted on 09/03/2026 7:54:20 PM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: Red Badger

When I was three years old, I was regularly walking around my block alone. When I was five, I walked to school, a quarter-mile away, on my own, and so did all of my classmates. But that was in the mid-1950s—a different galaxy.


5 posted on 09/03/2026 7:54:53 PM PDT by Fiji Hill
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To: Red Badger

When I was in kindergarten, I walked a half mile to school, each way.

We would gather other kids in the neighborhood as we passed their homes on route, until we reached school and our group would be 15-20 kids.


6 posted on 09/03/2026 8:04:34 PM PDT by PGR88
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To: Red Badger

She took the bar (knows the law far better than most) and already has a pro-bono attorney on this case.

I don’t buy it.

This smells like a set up.


7 posted on 09/03/2026 8:06:55 PM PDT by Red6
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To: Red Badger

The “passerby” needs to get a life. And a switch to bare butt.


8 posted on 09/03/2026 8:12:07 PM PDT by Skid289 (In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not. )
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To: Red Badger

Im ave experience in helping parents abused by CPS. A bunch of college educated psych grads who love wrecking families.


9 posted on 09/03/2026 8:12:32 PM PDT by Seruzawa ("The political left is the Garden of Eden of incompetence." -Marx the Smarter (Groucho.))
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To: Red Badger

Yet sending the child to a public school that will transition him without parental knowledge is not a serious danger.


10 posted on 09/03/2026 8:17:06 PM PDT by ConservaTexan (February 6, 1911/June 14, 1944)
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To: Skid289

They live in a Gated Community and most likely have a very strict Home Owners Association.

This is the perfect environment that attracts ‘Karens’, busybodies and gossip mongers.............


11 posted on 09/03/2026 8:20:17 PM PDT by Red Badger (Iryna Zarutska, May 22, 2002 Kyiv, Ukraine – August 22, 2025 Charlotte, North Carolina Say her name)
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To: Red Badger

She should strangle him. Then everything will be cool.


12 posted on 09/03/2026 8:25:03 PM PDT by Flash Bazbeaux
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To: Skwor

Unbelievable.


13 posted on 09/03/2026 8:26:27 PM PDT by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: Red Badger

HOAs - Because the Nazi Party is banned.


14 posted on 09/03/2026 8:26:57 PM PDT by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: BobL

It’s a gated community with a guard.


15 posted on 09/03/2026 8:28:53 PM PDT by TheThirdRuffian (Orange is the new brown)
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To: Red Badger

My great grandad rode the subways in NYC alone. He was nine at the time. Rode them all over and even went to the beach alone. Nine.


16 posted on 09/03/2026 8:29:11 PM PDT by SkyDancer ( ~ Am Yisrael Chai ~)
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To: Red Badger

I’m noticing a growing number of crimes that only white people are charged with. Hunting and fishing violations, NFA firearms violations, noise ordnance violations, public intoxication, operating a business without a permit, and on and on to now include child endangerment.


17 posted on 09/03/2026 8:33:50 PM PDT by Drew68
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To: Red Badger

The suckass “judicial system” in this country gave her a greater sentence than sentences received by POS Illegal Alien turds who rape and murder young American college girls.


18 posted on 09/03/2026 9:02:39 PM PDT by FlingWingFlyer (Socialism is the same clown show that gave us out of control global illegal immigration.)
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To: TheThirdRuffian

“It’s a gated community with a guard.”

LOL. Half a mile, for a 5-year old? Really?


19 posted on 09/03/2026 9:05:58 PM PDT by BobL (Trusting one's doctor is the #1 health mistake one can make.)
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To: Red Badger

If I had known that my frog catching skills practiced at a local pond could have gotten my mom in a lot of trouble I would have negotiated for a later bedtime.


20 posted on 09/03/2026 10:05:51 PM PDT by lastchance (Cognovit Dominus qui sunt eius.)
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