Posted on 11/29/2024 4:58:13 PM PST by nickcarraway
ALBAWABA Weddings are celebrated differently across the globe, with each culture bringing its unique rituals and customs to the occasion. While some traditions focus on love and unity, others take unexpected, quirky turns that might leave outsiders scratching their heads.
Here’s a look at some of the world’s weirdest wedding traditions that highlight the diversity and creativity of cultural practices.
Blackening the Bride – Scotland
In Scotland, brides and grooms are subjected to a messy pre-wedding ritual known as "blackening." Friends and family cover the couple in a mix of flour, soot, rotten food, and other messy items. The idea is to test the couple’s endurance and resilience before marriage, ensuring they can handle life’s challenges together.
Crying Ritual – Tujia People, China
Among the Tujia people of China, brides start crying a month before their wedding day. Initially, the bride cries alone, but gradually her mother, sisters, and other female relatives join in. This crying ritual is seen as a way to express joy and gratitude while showcasing their emotions for the big day.
Shoe Stealing – India
In Indian weddings, the bride’s sisters and friends engage in a playful tradition called Joota Chupai. They steal the groom’s shoes during the ceremony and demand a ransom for their return. This fun-filled custom adds humor and fosters bonding between the two families.
Smashing Plates – Germany
In Germany, the Polterabend tradition involves guests smashing plates, cups, and other porcelain items before the wedding. The couple then cleans up the mess together, symbolizing teamwork and preparation for married life.
Kidnapping the Bride – Romania
In Romania, it’s common for the bride to be “kidnapped” by friends or family before the wedding. The groom must “rescue” her by paying a ransom, which often involves performing a funny task or giving a small gift. This lighthearted tradition adds an element of adventure to the celebrations.
Spitting on the Bride – Kenya
Among Kenya’s Maasai people, it’s customary for the bride’s father to spit on her head and chest as a blessing before she leaves with her husband. While it might seem unusual, spitting is considered a sign of good luck and fortune in Maasai culture.
Beating the Groom’s Feet – South Korea
In South Korea, grooms must endure a humorous yet painful ritual where their feet are tied and beaten with sticks or dried fish by friends and family. This quirky tradition is said to test the groom’s strength and character.
Banning Bathroom Breaks – Borneo
In the Tidong community of Borneo, newlyweds are prohibited from using the bathroom for three days and nights after their wedding. This bizarre custom is believed to ensure a long, happy marriage and healthy children. The couple is carefully monitored and provided minimal food and drink during this time.
Smashing a Bell – Guatemala
In Guatemala, the groom’s family hosts the wedding reception. A particularly unusual tradition involves the groom’s mother smashing a white ceramic bell filled with rice, flour, and other grains to bless the couple with prosperity and abundance.
Bread Breaking – Russia
At Russian weddings, the bride and groom participate in a bread-breaking ritual. They share a loaf of bread, and whoever takes the bigger bite is said to become the head of the household. This playful tradition is a test of luck and humor.
These weird and wonderful wedding traditions reflect the creativity and deep-rooted beliefs of different cultures. While some may seem strange to outsiders, they hold profound meaning for those who practice them, celebrating love, family, and the journey of marriage in unique ways.
Taking the bride out of kindergarten - Saudi Arabia
In Islamic-dominated countries the bride is given crayons, coloring books and toys.
Polterabend tradition involves waking up the nearest Poltergeist
If you’ve not watched The Derry Girls, do so.
This is a real weird custom in Ireland.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCfys0_IMXo
What a bunch of easily disproven hocus bogus nonsense. All false!
Don’t be a party pooper. It’s all for fun.
,,, get a good lawyer before the wedding - New Zealand.
Did the list have that weird Jewish thing about stomping around on broken gless?
” where their feet are tied and beaten with sticks or dried fish “
NO! Not the dried fish, anything but that.....
While MIL and FIL were on their honeymoon, her cousins got into the house and took all the labels off all the canned goods. Chaos for every meal!
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